My friend told me about how her child was almost abducted, and it sent chills down my back.
On weekends, she takes her 4-year-old son to KFC for dinner.
In the middle, she went to the bathroom, and before going, she told her son, who had not finished eating, not to walk around, and not to leave his seat until his mother returned.
She finished it as quickly as she could, and the first thing she did when she walked out of the bathroom was to aim at her son's seat, but her son was not in the seat, where did he go?
Her heart fluttered, and she quickly searched around, and finally saw her son being taken by a woman's hand and walked out.
She shouted her son's name as she rushed over and grabbed him: "Where are you going?" Who is this man? ”
The woman holding her son's hand turned her head back, a hint of panic flashed in her eyes, but she immediately regained her composure and explained, "Your son wants me to take him out to play." You're back, then I'm leaving. ”
Before the friend could react, the woman walked out the door.
Shocked, she pulled her son back to his seat and asked him what was wrong.
In her son's intermittent answers, she figured it out: she had just left, and the woman came to her son and said, "Mom asked me to take you to her," and she had a photo of her and her son on her phone.
My friend remembered: After the meal, she did post a selfie of her happily with her son.
It turned out that it was the circle of friends that I posted that exposed myself! The woman used this selfie to prove that she knew herself, and successfully fooled her son away!
The more she thought about it, the more scared she became: if she came back 30 seconds late, the consequences would be unimaginable! In the future, I will no longer dare to post my baby casually in the circle of friends!
As a parent, it stands to reason that you can use a camera to record your child's growing moments and share them with friends and family.
However, cybercriminals may be lurking right next to us, or even "acquaintances" in our circle of friends.
I'm afraid that these sharing actions will be used by these people as a weapon to abduct or exploit children.
Therefore, if you are a smart mother, you must not post these 4 types of things that are easy to leak your privacy in the circle of friends!
01 Do not post the whereabouts of your children
Many young parents like to show their babies: the baby can walk, the baby will eat by himself, travel to other places, participate in competitions...... Life is displayed in the circle of friends every day, lest others not know that they have a cute and smart baby.
Some mothers even want to see if there are any chance encounters or the like, and when they show their babies, they will not only say "where to play with their children", but even post the positioning, which really greatly increases the risk of being targeted by bad guys.
A netizen said that one day she went to the kindergarten to pick up the child from school, and the child was very happy to get 3 little red flowers that day, so she asked her mother to take a photo with the little red flowers at the entrance of the kindergarten, and her mother sent it to Moments.
Someone learned from the information in her circle of friends about her child's kindergarten name, pick-up time, and style of pick-up card, and forged a pick-up card to pick up the child from the kindergarten.
Fortunately, the child's teacher was responsible, although the scammer had a pick-up card, but because she didn't know her, she called her mother to verify it, so that the tragedy could not happen.
Mom recalled: Maybe I did a micro-business a few years ago, and there were some people in the circle of friends who I didn't know well.
In fact, who doesn't have some people in their circle of friends who only nod their heads? Those friends who are added because of the exchange of gifts and red envelope cashback, who can guarantee that there are no immoral people in them?
Therefore, don't post your child's whereabouts in the circle of friends, let alone tell your child's school and school route.
02Do not post positive photos of your child
Smart mothers do not post positive photos and videos of their children in their circle of friends, because, not only does it mean exposing the child's face to the world, but it can also be exploited by pedophiles.
Some people will use Ai technology to make some indecent videos of children's photos, which is particularly disgusting.
Carly Yoost, founder of the Children's Rescue Alliance, said: "Parents' unintentional photos are like giving free meals to a mad internet bad guy.
He once did an experiment by inviting Jesse, a cybersecurity expert, to look at her social media pages in front of a mom.
Without prior understanding, Jesse accurately mentions details such as the mother's partner's name, the child's name, the school she attends, the teacher's name, and the children's playground they frequent.
The mother was shocked and asked: How did you find out?
In fact, it is not complicated for someone with ulterior motives to obtain this information: because many parents inadvertently leak a lot of personal information when sharing photos.
Therefore, the children's photos in the circle of friends are likely to become clues to scammers, a material library for perverts and pedophiles.
Smart mothers, you must not post positive photos of your children in the circle of friends.
Even if you show your child's back, you must turn off the location service of the photo, otherwise, it is easy to expose the location information of the photo.
03 Do not show your child's various documents and bills
Information such as ID cards, admission tickets, tickets, admission letters, etc., will reveal the specific location you are in at a specific time, and will also reveal the scope of your life circle.
More than 80% of the big data on child injury cases are committed by acquaintances.
Now the tricks of liars and bad guys are becoming more and more sophisticated.
Therefore, for the sake of the safety of the child, we must not post some information with the child's name and photo in the circle of friends.
Therefore, smart mothers, no matter how much they want to share their children's achievements, they must also suppress their emotions and do not post their children's ID cards, admission tickets, tickets, admission notices and other information in the circle of friends.
04 Do not expose wealth and income
As the saying goes: wealth is not visible.
In your dealings with people, no matter who you are close to, you should be careful to keep your financial information safe. Because, after your wealth is known to others, there are fewer people who applaud and praise you, and more people are jealous.
Especially on a public platform like Moments, if you are not careful, you may inadvertently plant a time bomb that may explode at any time.
Before, I saw such a news.
A Mr. Li in Shanghai likes to show his baby in the circle of friends, and was later targeted by a "friend" in the circle of friends and blackmailed him for 1.7 million yuan.
Mr. Li is a lawyer, with a good family background, two lovely children, and often posts his good house and car, children's study tours and other beautiful things in the circle of friends.
One day, he received a letter, and as soon as he read a few lines, he immediately broke out in a cold sweat. It turned out that the person in the letter knew his upbringing, financial situation, and family members well, and even knew very well where his two children were studying and the specific time when he was going to attend the summer camp. In the letter, the other party "asked for help" from him and asked him to give him 1.7 million yuan.
The other party was a classmate of his classmate, who had been added as a friend at a class reunion, and all the information about Mr. Li that he knew in the letter was compiled from his circle of friends.
In this world, there are a large number of people who will choose to take risks because of their poverty, and choose to use improper means to achieve their goals.
Therefore, a smart mother will never show off her wealth or show off her income in the circle of friends.
The web is a double-edged sword. On one side of it is endless convenience and speed, and on the other side is the risk of personal privacy leakage.
Especially in the era of highly developed modern network technology, by integrating the scattered information on the network, it is often possible to obtain unexpected results.
Therefore, in order to ensure the safety and healthy development of children, as well as to maintain a good parent-child relationship, we must exercise extreme caution when posting any information about children.
Only by being vigilant from the bottom of our hearts can we avoid potential risks and protect our children from distress and harm.
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Wanqiu talks about parenting, the mother of the two babies who loves to learn and think, welcome to pay attention, complain about the chickens and dogs that raise babies together, share the happiness of raising babies, and summarize the lessons of raising babies.