520 has almost become a festival for couples, and on this day, the media exaggerates the number of people in the marriage registry, as if to prove the power of love and the persistence of true love.
520 is the homonym of "I love you", the word love, many people will use it in the expression of lovers to the other half, because two people who have never known each other come together because of love, which is the fate of a couple, so love is a legitimate expression.
But the three words I love you are never limited to specific feelings, and it can also be love between relatives, but limited by cultural characteristics, many people are not good at expressing "I love you" to the closest family members.
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Why does no one want to live a good life with their parents like 520? Why is even the so-called Mother's Day and Father's Day derived from abroad?
And more grand festivals, such as Valentine's Day on February 14, also have the correspondence of Qixi Festival, which is also cultural compatibility.
I saw a train ticket blind box on a certain platform, it is said that it was specially launched for a good day like 520, the departure place can be selected, the destination is random, but many netizens feel that it is so difficult below, because they don't have a boyfriend, and it becomes a pity to be alone.
Almost no one thinks that 520 can also travel with their parents, invite them to a big meal, or use the holiday as an excuse to let them relax for a day and enjoy their old age without worrying about their children.
520 wants to live with the other half, it is worthy of recognition, but this is not an excuse for those who don't know how to live 520 without the other half. It's a day to celebrate, and it's a seemingly banal day because everything will pass.
There are ups and downs in relationships, but the blood relationship between relatives accompanies a lifetime. You used to love that person sweetly, shared a lot of time with each other, hoped to go to the mountains and rivers with him to see each other's white heads, and even expressed all your love to the other half.
But when the change comes, when I think of days like 520 again, I may feel sad in my heart, leaving only regret and remorse. As everyone knows, while losing each other, they still have something.
Couples are unstable, and even if they are married, it does not prove that they will be able to grow old, because everything is changing, and people are willing to pay for short-term pleasures because they still have money in their pockets.
But when the relationship comes naturally, both men and women think of their parents, because in the process of marriage, they need some material security. Whether it's a bride price or an RV, how many of the young people can have all this before marriage is completely dependent on their own efforts?
At such a juncture, their family fulfills the love of their children, and the wealth that their parents have accumulated throughout their lives is used for their children, because happiness is their expectation.
But they can't participate in their children's festivals, and they will be ashamed to even discuss them, because talking about love is still a difficult lesson for them. Parents' love for their children is full of specific giving, but it is not expressed in words, and the three words I love you have gradually become exclusive to couples.