Since 2005, the blind date corner in Shanghai People's Park has become a lively place spontaneously formed by unmarried male and female parents. On weekends, middle-aged and elderly people have small benches, bring dry food and water, hold signs, hold umbrellas, put the "conditions" of their children on the park paths, and wait for their good sons and daughters-in-law, and sit for a day.
Recently, the blind date corner of People's Park has become a hot search again.
Some netizens found that a blind date "new corner" appeared here, and several special "marriage orders" appeared, which were all blind date conditions and blind date requirements written by young people themselves, and related topics directly appeared on the hot search list, triggering discussions among netizens.
Compared with the relatively realistic introduction of whether aunts and uncles have a house, a car, what occupation, salary, etc., the blind date advertisements written by young people themselves are much more "poetic".
"Old two-dimensional, I like to go to the supermarket on weekends", "I like to drive, go to attractions with few people in a daze", "I like to make plans"......
There are also people who introduce themselves as "preference for members who can live a life", expecting the other party to have members on various platforms, preferably looking like Bai Ke, Xu Guanghan, Lei Jiayin......
Such an "explosive" self-introduction and request made the aunt passing by exclaim, "The requirements are so low!" ”
Could it be that young people in Shanghai have begun to rectify the blind date market?
Behind such seemingly bizarre requirements actually shows that compared with hard conditions such as work and RV, young people nowadays care more about whether the three views match. A young lady at the scene thought that there was no need to get married for people who even felt that the membership fee was expensive for dozens of yuan.
Just as the advertisement ostensibly expects the other party to "live", in fact, it is to test whether the other party is suitable for you from the attitude towards money.
And the "sense of husband of exquisite life" is the embodiment of the outlook on life.
Such a detailed requirement not only shows that young people pay more attention to the same frequency resonance of the spiritual world and the harmony of life, but also shows that everyone is "running to live a life", for them, living together, material life can be created together, and the three views are the most important, which is also the fundamental logic of this blind date.
In this regard, some netizens questioned the attitude, "Looking for a partner or looking for a member account?" ”
There are also netizens who are faintly moved, "I like to go to the supermarket and live a good life, such men and women are very good!" ”
There are also a large number of netizens who show off their membership reserves and directly "ask for marriage" on the spot in the comment area.
What do you think of this way of getting married?
Source: Shangguan News