Dictation: Xiao Yan
01
Four years ago, my ex-boyfriend and I were immersed in a seemingly beautiful relationship, and I met and fell in love with him, and three years ago now look back as if it were just yesterday.
At that time, we loved each other very much, and in my heart, he was the man I had to trust in my life. However, just when I thought that our love would stand the test of time, he chose to split his legs and fell in love with someone else.
To this day, I vividly remember that when I learned that he had betrayed me and proposed to break up with him, he had a disdainful smile on his lips and arrogantly said to me, "Don't regret it." ”
At that moment, my heart was like a knife, but I also understood that our relationship had come to an end, and I could no longer have any nostalgia for him.
After the breakup, we didn't delete each other's friends, maybe we were all out of a funny idea to see how the other person would do after the breakup.
02
A year later, my life was turned upside down. By chance, I met my current husband, Gao Mo.
He is an executive of a listed company, with a monthly salary of 100,000 yuan, a personable demeanor, and exudes the charm of a mature man in every move.
When I was with him, he was very caring and considerate to me, which made me feel warmth and happiness like never before.
After dating for a while, our relationship quickly warmed up, and both parents were very happy with us, so our marriage was quickly put on the agenda.
On the wedding day, I was wearing a white wedding dress, standing in the hall surrounded by flowers, watching Gao Mo walk towards me step by step. At that moment, I felt as if I was the happiest woman in the world.
After the wedding, I can't wait to share my joy and happiness with my friends and family. So, I picked up my mobile phone, posted a few wedding photos in the circle of friends, and sent a message: "I am married, and my husband's monthly salary is 100,000 yuan." ”
03
Not long after this circle of friends was sent, my mobile phone received a WeChat message from Xiao Gu, a friend of me and my ex-boyfriend:
"Haha, Xiao Yan, aren't you deliberately angry with someone? You don't know, Xiao Tian just saw the circle of friends you posted, his face turned black, and he directly blocked you. ”
I replied to Xiao Gu with a smile: "If he is blocked, he will be blocked, I am doing well now, and he doesn't have to worry about whether I am happy or not." ”
Later, Xiao Gu told me about the recent situation of his ex-boyfriend, it turned out that he had not had a good time for more than a year, first he was dumped by his girlfriend, and then the company's efficiency was not good, and he laid off a lot of employees, and he was also among them.
No wonder he immediately blocked me when he saw my Moments, it turned out that my happiness stimulated his proud heart.
When I think back to my relationship with my ex-boyfriend, I am filled with emotion. In the past, I paid so much for him, and even gave up my dreams and pursuits for him.
However, he didn't know how to cherish it, and chose betrayal and hurt. Now that I have finally understood a truth: when I encounter the wrong person, I can find the true lover who belongs to me.
04
Indeed, after breaking up with my ex-boyfriend, my encounter with Gao Mo made me rediscover the direction and motivation of my life. It was his appearance that made me feel the beauty and power of love.
We respect, trust, and support each other, and work together for the future of life. I believe that as long as we work hand in hand, the future will be even better.
And the blocking of my ex-boyfriend, for me, no longer has any meaning. Because he is no longer a part of my life, his joys and sorrows have nothing to do with me.
Through this experience, I also want to tell all my friends: don't lose confidence and courage because of the failure of a relationship.
There will always be ups and downs in life, but as long as we maintain a positive attitude and bravely face the challenges and difficulties in life, we will definitely be able to find our own happiness and joy.
Write at the end:
There is nothing worth it to love someone, because every relationship is like a journey, we will meet a different self during the journey, and only after experiencing this, we will understand who is the most suitable person for us.