When people reach middle age, they put down their children and win
In the journey of life, we often work hard for the so-called "face", especially in middle age. However, sometimes we have to ponder: is face really that important? When people reach middle age, does letting go of their children means winning more?
First, the burden of face
Face seems to be a cultural symbol unique to Chinese. It represents dignity, honor and status, but at the same time it is an invisible shackle. We work hard for the sake of face, hide our true feelings for the sake of face, and even do things against our will for the sake of face. This kind of life makes us gradually lose ourselves in the process of pursuing face.
Middle age is a turning point in life, we may have achieved some things, but at the same time, we are facing more pressures and challenges. At this stage, should we re-examine the issue of face and think about whether it is really worth pursuing and maintaining?
Second, the courage to let go of the son
Letting go does not mean giving up dignity and honor, but learning to face life with a more open and inclusive mind. When we let go of our attachment to face, we will find that life can actually be easier and more comfortable.
It takes courage to put down your face. It requires us to dare to face our own shortcomings and mistakes, and dare to accept the criticism and suggestions of others. At the same time, it requires us to have a broad mind that is tolerant of the different perspectives and behaviors of others. When we really do this, we will find that letting go of our minds is actually a kind of wisdom, a kind of wisdom that allows us to face life more calmly.
3. Put down the harvest of the seeds
Authentic Self: When we put our feet down, we no longer need to hide our true feelings in order to pander to others. We can express our thoughts and emotions more authentically and build more genuine and deep relationships with others.
Growth and Progress: Letting go means that we dare to face our own shortcomings and mistakes. This courage and humility make us more willing to learn and grow, and constantly improve our abilities and qualities.
Ease and ease: When we are no longer bound by face, we can face life more easily. We no longer need to take on too much pressure and burden in order to save face, but can enjoy the beauty of life more freely.
Fourth, how to put down the sub
Self-acceptance: First of all, learn to accept your own shortcomings and mistakes. Each of us has our own strengths and weaknesses, which cannot be changed. However, we can choose to accept our imperfections and strive to improve and elevate ourselves.
Listen to others: When communicating with others, learn to listen to their ideas and opinions. Don't always think about how to save your face, but respect the opinions of others and try to learn and grow from them.
Be brave to express yourself: When we have real thoughts and feelings, we have the courage to express them. Don't hide your true feelings in order to pander to others, but be brave enough to express your thoughts and emotions.
Stay humble: Maintaining a humble mindset is the key to letting go of your face. We need to realize that we still have a lot of shortcomings and things to learn, and not always be complacent and proud. At the same time, respect the achievements and contributions of others, and don't always think about how to surpass others.
V. Conclusion
When we reach middle age, we may have experienced a lot of ups and downs, or we may have made certain achievements. However, at this stage, we need a more open and inclusive mindset to face life. Letting go does not mean giving up dignity and honor, but learning to face life's challenges in a more intelligent and calm way. When we truly let go of our minds, we will find that life can actually be better and more fulfilling. Let's take this step bravely! Ask for likes, ask for attention, ask for comments, like and encourage within 30 words, pay attention to growth, leave comments, and share wisdom and strength together!