Recently, some netizens posted a video on social platforms. The video shows that the chairman of a certain company is 62 years old and married a 26-year-old female employee of his company. During the wedding of the two, the master of ceremonies asked the groom to change his words to his father-in-law, and the groom naturally called "Dad" at this time.
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This move was very embarrassing for everyone present, and it also caused heated discussions on the Internet. In fact, the marriage of old husband and young wife has always been not uncommon. According to statistics, the age of marriage for the elderly in the mainland is constantly increasing, but in comparison, the remarriage age of women is lower than that of men, which has also become one of the main reasons for old husbands and young wives.
The difference in economic capacity also often determines the choice of both parties. In this video, the 62-year-old chairman is obviously better than the 26-year-old female employee, which undoubtedly affects the union of the two. However, the groom's public call of his 59-year-old father-in-law "Daddy" at the wedding did seem to have embarrassed those present.
On the one hand, due to the large age gap between the two, it seems inappropriate to call them "Dad". Furthermore, the groom's actions may make the father-in-law feel uncomfortable and may mislead the guests about the couple. Some netizens pointed out that as an important wedding, the host should be considerate of all aspects of emotion, and there is no need for the newlyweds to make embarrassing changes.
According to the original video, when the host asked the father-in-law what he thought of the groom, the older father-in-law cheerfully replied "very good" and pointed out that "money is much more important than face". Some netizens analyzed that judging from his 62-year-old father-in-law, he may have accumulated a lot of experience in his career and life, and he will not care too much about the face problems caused by a title.
What's more, as a daughter's happiness, he looks more at the substantive attitude of re-people. Whatever the reason, the choice of marriage between the old man and the young wife is accepted by most people in today's society. As long as both parties are consensual and get along well on a substantive level, a momentary awkward call is not enough to affect the big picture.
And the marriage of the 62-year-old chairman and the 26-year-old female employee, judging from the original video, is likely to be in this situation. With the progress of society, people's perception of marriage will be more open and inclusive. As long as it can be based on mutual respect and support, any form of emotional choice deserves respect.
Netizens are hotly discussed
I like this poem by netizens: Twenty brides and sixty langs, white sideburns and red makeup, good things come into a cave house in pairs, and a pear flower presses begonias.
Some netizens said: There is no problem that money can't solve! It's just a question of whether there's enough money!
Each takes what he needs, and some netizens said: It's a small meaning, our boss is 70, the boss is 26, and the mother-in-law is less than 50
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In addition to the appearance factor, the old husband and young wife also face many internal and emotional challenges. The age gap will bring different differences in experience and values, which will test their ability to communicate and deal with problems. It is not difficult to imagine that the 62-year-old chairman and his 26-year-old wife are likely to communicate in their daily lives, such as differences of opinion and misunderstandings.
The difference in material living standards may also affect the perception of the two people. This is a place for any couple to constantly run in and adjust during the long-term relationship. In the video, the 59-year-old father-in-law has shown a good attitude and has been noticed and appreciated. But in other families with older couples and younger wives, the older partner may not be as receptive as him.
Some older people with low economic and cultural levels may be more conservative in their views on this form of marriage. This also makes the relationship of a small number of "old husbands and young wives" face more external pressure. At the same time, society's care for the elderly needs to be strengthened. A well-established support system for the elderly will help them live a happy life in their later years
In short, with the development of society, people's understanding of marriage has become more and more open. As long as it is a voluntary emotional choice, regardless of the form, it deserves respect. However, the relationship between the old husband and the young wife also faces certain challenges, and they need to gradually overcome the differences and find a way to get along with each other with the help of family affection.
At the same time, building a society in which all age groups receive equal support will also contribute to the long-term stability of their families. Understanding and support is the greatest concern that society should provide to others.