Text by Kusushiba
01
To be human is to be ungrateful.
Others have been kind to you, and others have saved you from your misery, so always remember them.
The so-called grace of dripping water should be reciprocated with a spring.
Only in this way can the heart be open and clear-minded.
Don't think that if others help you, you take it for granted, and don't think that if others don't help you, you will feel that others are not righteous.
Sometimes it's love to help you, and it's your duty not to help you.
If you meet someone in your life who has helped you through crises again and again, you should be grateful and have a good relationship.
Some relationships are good, but if they don't connect for a long time, they will become rusty.
In short, to be a human being is to know how to be grateful.
And do yourself well in your own world, and one day, if the other party needs you, then you must stand up without hesitation.
It is not only to repay the gratitude, but also to be a human being.
May you and I be grateful people, with love and warmth.
02
In fact, the overall state of people is to be positive and proactive, and they will not give up easily because life is not easy.
Although the mood will come and go, and although life will have ups and downs, this is the norm.
Whenever you can't hold on, encourage yourself, you can.
Although I was embarrassed when I fell, although I was crying very unsightly, although I was very uncomfortable when I was sad, although I was very angry with internal friction.
So be it!
Because the extremes of things must be reversed, go with the flow, and everything is the best arrangement.
Being a man is like this, there will be ups and downs, there will be sadness and sadness, there will be laughter, and there will be touching and warm.
Don't you have to ask yourself what you have to be like? What is the necessary state to maintain? When your heart is no longer greedy and obsessed, everything will naturally go smoothly.
Life is short for decades, and there is no need to live with yourself.
Eventually, we will all step on the colorful auspicious clouds and meet our own happiness.
That's what it means to be human.
03
Being a human being is actually a process of giving.
Pay for love, pay for marriage, pay for children, pay for parents, pay for yourself.
All the efforts are happy, and all the efforts are also warm.
are all willing, have nothing to ask for, and be frank and calm, and will eventually be treated gently in the long river of years.
Always believe that your sincerity will not be disappointed, and always believe that the people around you are kind people, and always believe that good will be rewarded, and always believe that you will be happy in this life.
Although the reality is sometimes cruel, it doesn't matter, our hearts are still hot, and we don't disbelieve everything because of one example.
Life is to let go when you walk, and life is to have answers when you walk.
Every effort will have an answer, and every effort is growth.
Don't believe in the indifference of the world, and don't disbelieve in the love of the world.
If we have love in our hearts, then there is love in this world.
That's what it means to be human.
04
In fact, any kind of experience is a valuable asset.
No matter how depressed we were, no matter how miserable we were, all the past tells us a fact that these experiences will eventually make us who we are.
Don't get stuck in the past and can't get out, and don't push yourself, let alone put pressure on yourself.
Maybe life is a journey, and every journey has a meaning.
As long as we are positive, positive, optimistic and cheerful, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.
People, look forward, then life is a smooth road, don't always be nostalgic for the past, because the past is gone.
Being a man is like this, a person's life is to be his own master, and to be his own master, then this life will be truly meaningful.
Facts will make us see a person clearly, see a fact clearly, recognize ourselves, and will also make us stronger and stronger, more and more determined.
Life will help us filter out the right people for us, and it will also filter out the people who are not suitable for us.
We smiled indifferently, and everything was finally relieved.
That's what it means to be human.
05
To be a man is not to care, once you care, you will lose, and you will lose.
What's the use of thinking about it when it's already happening? What can you change if you think about it? Nothing changes.
You must have a heart that is at ease with what comes your way, and live a life that is at ease with what happens.
In this way, we can live well, and we can stand in this world.
Not caring does not mean that we are cowardly, not caring does not mean that we admit defeat, not caring is just a pattern, not caring is just a kind of taoguang and obscurity, not caring is more of a kind of wisdom.
On this road of life, learn not to care, learn not to get along with others, and learn not to get along with yourself.
Learn to reconcile with yourself and be the warmest version of yourself in the long years.
That's what it means to be human.
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