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In this life, after a woman reaches the age of 50, she must actually learn to leave some way out for herself, not to lose herself, to find herself, to maintain her enthusiasm for life, to live for herself, and to make herself live a better life.
Women must work hard all their lives, maintain independence, let themselves have the ability to make money, and achieve economic freedom, so that they can live a good quality of life in their later years.
Middle-aged women are over 50 years old, if they don't have these 4 things, most of their old age will be bleak, don't take it seriously, pay attention to it.
1. A partner who is in love with each other.
After a middle-aged woman reaches the age of fifty, if her partner has been treating herself badly, she has been enduring it, she has been bullied by her husband, she has never filed for divorce for the sake of her children, and she has not felt happiness in her marriage, then after the age of fifty, the children have grown up, and you should live for yourself.
Meng Yunqing in "Fireworks People", her husband has always been unreliable, he spends her money, and he won't feel sorry for her at all, she has long wanted to divorce, but she has endured it for her daughter and has not divorced.
She has always had someone around her who cares about her very much, and has been silently paying for her, and she has always kept her distance because she has not been divorced.
Later, after she fell ill, she realized that life is precious, so she wanted to live for herself for the rest of her life, so she filed for divorce, so as to be with the person who really felt sorry for her, and began to live with each other.
After the age of fifty, if your partner is unreliable, then you will not feel warmth in your later years.
2. Sufficient savings.
After the age of fifty, women should also learn to save money for themselves, after all, as people get older, their ability to make money will weaken, and there will be few ways to make money.
While we can still do it, when we are fifty years old, we still have to work hard to make money, save a sum of money for ourselves to support the elderly, and when we are old, if our children can't count on it, we can also rely on ourselves to make ourselves confident.
Money is the best guarantee for life, and we must also learn to keep our savings and not give them to others easily.
3. Healthy body.
Good health is the capital of the revolution, and it is also the most blessed thing in life.
After the age of fifty, women should learn to manage their bodies, pay attention to the care of their bodies, adjust their mentality, be less angry, let go of themselves when they get along with others, and don't let themselves get angry because of some things.
We should also maintain the habit of exercising, pay attention to our diet, maintain a good mental state, and always live a positive and optimistic life.
Fourth, the filial piety of children.
Raising children to prevent old age is actually what every parent wants.
When a middle-aged woman reaches the age of fifty, if she has a bad relationship with her children, or because she usually interferes too much with her children, or because she has no sense of proportion and boundaries, the children are very disgusted with herself, or because some things have conflicts with her children, so that the relationship is not good, and the children do not contact themselves or go home, then it is necessary to reflect on it.
In fact, the happiest thing in life is to have the filial piety and companionship of children, and it is the happiest to live together as a family.
Meng Mingwei in "Fireworks People", she has always used the wrong way of educating her daughter, the more she wants to control her daughter's life, the more she makes her daughter rebellious, and the more she interferes with her daughter's choice in the name of her daughter's good, the easier it is for her daughter to want to escape.
Meng Mingwei also didn't believe in his daughter in some things, which made her lose her self-esteem, and even broke her daughter's heart, and finally made her daughter completely break with her. When her daughter didn't come home and didn't pay attention to her, she began to reflect on herself.
After a middle-aged woman reaches the age of 50, if she can have the above four things, have a partner, have money, have health, and have children, then she will live a happy life in her later years.
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