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In "My Altay", after 19-year-old Li Wenxiu came out to work, he was not smooth, he was either ridiculed or bullied by his colleagues at work, and was even dismissed by the leader because he broke a few cups.
Li Wenxiu likes to write, and his dream is to become a writer, but he doesn't know what he should write to become a writer.
When she got home, she wanted to help her mother ask for debts, and after she got the money back, she could also get some money to go out to the city to rent a house to live in, so that she could write on her own.
But not only did she not ask for the money back, but she also caused a lot of trouble for her mother and offended the people in the village.
After Li Wenxiu experienced all kinds of things, he felt that he was very stupid, very useless, and couldn't do anything well.
Later, because she stirred up the anniversary sacrifice of other people's families, in desperation, she gave her the camel to pay off the debt. Li Wenxiu said that she was useless, so her mother asked her in turn:
"What do you mean by being useful?
You were born to serve others?
If you look at the trees and grasses on this grassland, some people eat and some use them, and they are called useful;
If no one uses it, it's good to stay on the prairie like this, and it's free. "
In fact, everyone must learn to let go of themselves in their lives, don't worry about whether they are useless, and don't compare with others.
In this world, there will be many people who are smarter than you, more capable than you, and more successful than you, but it doesn't mean that someone else's life is suitable for you.
We must respect the life that others have chosen, but also respect our own hearts, as long as we live happily, then it is the best.
There are many ways to live in life, and the one that suits you is the best.
On the road of life, we all have to let go of ourselves, don't worry about whether life is meaningful, in fact, it's good to live freely, there is no need to push yourself too hard, and there is no need to let yourself think too much useless things.
Instead of dwelling, it's better to let it go.
The reason why many people live unhappily, unhappily, and painfully is because they have too much internal friction, do not let go of themselves, always think crankily, always dwell on some things, always care too much about what others think of themselves, always care too much about the results, always pay too much attention to the success or failure, etc.
In fact, life is like this, no matter how good you are, no matter how capable you are, in fact, you will not get all the likes, and you will not be able to satisfy everyone.
Therefore, although we do our best, let go of ourselves, don't care so much, and there is no need to let ourselves live under the eyes of others, we must be brave to live for ourselves, but also to live positively and optimistically, relax our minds, and maintain inner calmness and calmness, in order to see the most beautiful scenery in life.
Li Wenxiu didn't want to live in the village at first, and she didn't want to live in the grassland, but people will change, when she became familiar with the herdsmen, when she got along with the herdsmen, she became familiar with the local cultural customs, and was also warmed and healed, and finally gradually discovered the local beauty, wanted to stay and live together, fell in love with this grassland, and began to grow freely.
Li Wenxiu did not go to internal friction anymore, but actively lived, loved, lived, hurt, met, and finally met love, friendship, and a better self.
People live a lifetime, they must relax their hearts a little, the heart is big, the big things are small, the heart is small, the small things are big.
When people live, they must be able to take it, put it down, not be happy with things, not be sad with themselves, just as it is said in "My Altay", "Here, living is the simplest thing." ”
In this way, people can live a simpler life and let go of themselves in order to have more happiness.
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