In reality, there are families who have been doing well and have good fortune, but suddenly it is not good.
It may be that nothing is going well, or it may be that someone has been involved.
Or because of other people's things, they make their home restless.
Don't doubt it, this is being "borrowed".
Pay attention to these 3 signs and don't let others borrow them.
01 Don't get involved in trouble
In reality, we should not be too enthusiastic and get involved in unspeakable things.
Although it is said that being a good person and doing good deeds is to be good.
But many things, there will be a chain reaction.
What we do will even lead to resentment and retaliation from others. It's not good.
For example, some people have deep conflicts within their families.
On the premise of not understanding the cause and effect, we go to rash persuasion.
An attitude towards one of them, or even a rebuke.
That's not good.
It is easy to cause grievances and even bad actions on the other side.
In reality, we must restrain our words and deeds and not be too involved in the lives of others.
Adults, pay more attention to your own life.
Don't get involved in unnecessary disputes.
02 Don't lend money to the wrong person
In reality, the act of borrowing money casually without thinking about it will also damage the blessings of a family.
This is not righteous anger, but unwise.
You must know that the blessing of a family depends not only on the ability to earn money, but also on the ability to keep money.
I can't do it.
For example, when some people come to borrow money, our first consideration is friendship, and whether the other party's face is good-looking. Then the money was borrowed.
Actually, this misses the point.
The most important thing we should consider is whether the other party's borrowing is reasonable? Will he be able to pay it back?
If you lend money to an unreliable person, then, the day you ask for money is when both parties tear their faces.
In this way, we were afraid of the purpose of friendship, but we could not achieve it.
Not only do you lose money, but you also offend people, don't you?
When it comes to borrowing money, adults must distinguish between good and bad character and the size of the risk.
Don't be blinded by the friendship between the two sides.
Otherwise, when we ask for money, it will teach us a profound lesson.
Don't believe it.
03 Mistakenly lend your own resources to others
In reality, if we give our resources to others casually, it is easy to suffer.
You must know that precious resources are not easy to come by.
We need to take the time to connect with others in order to form our own network. It's precious.
We need to put in the energy to build up skills and experience for ourselves. It's also precious.
If we mistakenly give our resources to others for use, we are borrowing from others.
For example, we give the money we use to improve our careers and do business to relatives who don't know how to cherish them.
As a result, their fate has changed since then.
And we're still standing still.
You say, is this kind of help cost-effective? What's in the picture?
In the end, what I gained was the complaints of my family and the changes in my life. Is it worth it?
In reality, don't be too simple, and don't be involved with others.
Otherwise, your family's fortune may be defeated.
For example, some bad social interaction can destroy family relationships. Some things are helping others make wedding dresses.
It's very bad for me. Know how to screen.