If you look closely, you will find that there are a lot of people who ask about marriage money, and often ask about money when asking about husband and wife, and when asking about money, they will also ask about the feelings of husband and wife.
Why is there such a pattern? It is because since ancient times, our ancestors believed that the relationship between husband and wife has a crucial impact on money and business.
The ancients had an old saying that warned the world, called "If you lose your wife, you will not get rich", that is, if the relationship between husband and wife is not good, especially if you treat your wife badly, his financial luck will definitely be bad. What's the truth in a saying? Do you believe this statement?
This statement seems superstitious, but it is not completely unreasonable, the theoretical basis for the ancients to say this, mainly a famous saying of Confucius: the "government" of the three generations of Ming kings in the past, must respect his wife. It means that even the sages and monarchs must respect their wives in order to do a good job, let alone ordinary people.
On the surface, this sentence seems to mean that there is a causal relationship between husband and wife and wealth, and if you treat your wife badly, it will affect your financial luck. It sounds like superstition, but from real-life experience, it does seem to make some sense.
For example, after a man succeeds, he abandons his wife and children to find a new love, and then goes bankrupt and returns to his original form, and ends up in a bleak evening, which is indeed not uncommon in life. But treating his wife badly will not directly lead to a shrinkage of wealth, and there are deeper factors in it.
Because a person's success is based on a variety of trust endorsements, marriage relationship, is an important embodiment of the spirit of social contract, if a person easily tears up the promise of marriage, betrayal of the family, this behavior and attitude, is also likely to be reflected in other aspects, and the person who cooperates with him will be more cautious, his social relations and career will naturally be negatively affected, and what he does to his wife will be reflected on himself.
As the saying goes, "a bad wife will not get a hundred riches", in fact, in essence, there is no direct causal relationship between the bad treatment of the wife and the bad fortune, but there must be a common root cause for the bad relationship between the husband and wife and the bad fortune.
It is a general law of society that families with harmonious marriages are more likely to develop better than families with failed marriages, because a good relationship between husband and wife will continuously improve a person's emotional intelligence and thinking.
For example, you are a person with low emotional intelligence and introvert, not good at social communication, but when you really love someone, you will try to feel the other person's emotions, be considerate of the other person's needs, and even understand and think from her point of view.
When this ability is unconsciously used in a wider range of social and work activities, you will get more recognition, more contacts and resources, and the final result is that your career is getting more and more prosperous, more and more wealthy, and your life is more and more successful! This is probably the true connotation of the phrase "losing your wife and making a hundred fortunes". I don't know, do you think it makes sense?