People who speak straight are usually considered to either have low emotional intelligence,
or lack of exercise,
There is also the possibility that this person has a high level of emotional intelligence and a particularly thorough understanding of the world.
The former is not difficult to explain, it is easy to hurt people when speaking, and it is easy to be used as a gun, as well as such hidden dangers in communication, which are the losses that these people with low emotional intelligence and lack of social experience will suffer sooner or later.
And why is this the case with the latter?
The answer is simple, just three words, don't care.
People with high emotional intelligence will deal with external needs and internal balance, and this kind of person will deal with external and internal problems very properly most of the time.
And if you have a thorough understanding of the world, you will understand how you should deal with your relationship with the environment.
However, in a few cases, under the need to release oneself, or under the influence of special factors,
They will choose to speak in a straightforward way when they know it is inappropriate, or even when they are wise and wrong.
How so?
The answer is also very simple, because if you don't do it,
They're going to pay a higher price, and more importantly for them,
This cost is unnecessary.
In the process of long-term dialogue and continuous game with the world, people's understanding of expression will gradually become realistic.
Let go of ideals, put aside possibilities, and take reality as the premise to pursue advantages and avoid disadvantages to the greatest extent.
This is the expression of a tendency to reality.
You no longer want to expose their hypocritical lies to those gushing braggarts, because you are beginning to understand that the reason why they were able to stand in front of you, and why they were not eliminated because of their hypocrisy, is not because they are telling the truth.
It's an environment where someone needs to lie, a lie that everyone knows.
You start to realize that there is a so-called "necessity" in things that have no real meaning in themselves, even waste of resources, waste of time, waste everything, and have to be hyped up to let everyone know what they are doing.
After you have been disappointed again and again, after you have seen that some things may not have the practical meaning of confrontation in the first place, after you have begun to understand that the so-called black and white is just a bargaining chip.
Not to be attached to prove anything, not because of accepting the so-called rules,
But there's no need to get yourself dirty:
When we move from "assuming that the nature of this world is dirty" to "how we get along with the status quo", we begin to realize that those things that we are powerless to change do not necessarily have to be accepted, and the mentality of watching or having fun seems to be more in line with the logic of this seemingly opposing but actually "we will always be together" relational logic.
We can always be coerced by those plausible demands,
But no one has the power to tell us what we must accept.
Under the same roof, bowing your head is not admitting mistakes,
Bow your head because you see those who have fallen and realize,
It turns out that the real threat,
From the feet.
The illusion that there is nothing to say is known to everyone, and no one is able to break it.
It is true that it is difficult to say in one word, but the truth is weak,
has ability, but ends up powerless.
The illusion of having nothing to say has achieved those worldly phenomena that have something to say, and those who say it must be said to be big.
The indescribable facts have become the words and beliefs that understand people's hearts,
There is no need to think too much, cause and effect are in between,
The development of mentality, the development of different group mentality,
Like a gust of wind that reflects the way of the world,
Storm
After all, it becomes a storm.
The things of the world,
It has created the trend of the world.