Author |Inspector (1532 words in total, about 4 minutes read)
Pregnancy and childbirth are a magical and arduous process, and for expectant mothers, pregnancy and welcoming life is happy and unforgettable.
However, seeing the experiences shared by netizens and the behavior of the husbands, there is really no outrageous, only more outrageous!
"This husband is really big-hearted!"
"Who the hell is giving birth to this? Ha ha! ”
"It's really more ruthless than the other!"
"I'm about to laugh and get rich."
As an expectant father, you must not only be fully prepared for the upcoming little life and hard work, but also use practical actions to convey love, make your wife feel warm, and let their body and mind recover faster.
1. Prepare practical items in advance
1. Supplies needed by the mother
In order for the mother to have a safe delivery, the husband must prepare the basic supplies that the mother needs during and after childbirth.
Including nursing pads, maternity sanitary napkins, change of clothes, slippers, hats, basins and other production aids, as well as postpartum bidets, warm uterine patches, gauze and other nursing supplies.
Also prepare nutritious and easy-to-digest foods such as functional drinks, bread, brown sugar, chocolate, etc.
2. Baby products
As the father of the child, we also need to prepare all kinds of daily necessities for the baby in advance.
Including diapers, diapers, milk powder, feeding bottles, wet wipes, small towels, hugging quilts, bathtubs, toiletries, cute baby clothes, etc.
Also prepare strollers, safety seats and other outdoor supplies, so that you can take your baby out to play at any time.
If the father can prepare supplies in advance at this time, let the mother worry less and take care of the mother, then it can not only promote the relationship between husband and wife, make the mother more down-to-earth and warmer, but also help the secretion of breast milk in the later stage.
Take practical actions that are caring and considerate
1. Intimate life care
Before and after childbirth, the father-to-be should take care of the mother's daily life.
For example, you can help take care of housework, prepare three meals, and pay attention to whether the mother's diet is scientific and reasonable.
Accompany your wife out for a walk to maintain a healthy state of health, and encourage women to exercise moderately, which will help restore their body after childbirth.
2. Patient emotional counseling
Pregnant women have to experience the pain and psychological pressure of childbirth before giving birth, and they urgently need spiritual comfort, so husbands should patiently channel the emotions of mothers.
The severe pain during childbirth will make the mother feel anxious, so Bao Dad should understand and tolerate her temper, and use gentle language to comfort and comfort, so that she can have a positive and optimistic attitude and relieve anxiety and fear.
3. Enthusiastic support and encouragement
Give warm support and encouragement to the mother, so that she can feel love and warmth.
As the pillar of the family, it is best for the husband to personally accompany the mother through every painful and unforgettable moment, such as taking the initiative to wipe the sweat and tears of his wife to give practical support.
Use the language of love to encourage her at all times, believe that she will be able to overcome the difficulties, and imagine a better future with her.
Learning about motherhood and childbirth
Although men do not have a practical experience of pregnancy and childbirth, they can learn more to increase their knowledge, discuss with their wives, and become a learning partner on the way forward.
1. Learn the proper knowledge of childbirth
Fathers-to-be should take the initiative to learn the correct knowledge related to childbirth and help mothers take care of the baby together.
Understand the whole process and phased changes of childbirth, and master some practical midwifery skills, such as abdominal massage methods, so as to give practical help to mothers during or after childbirth.
2. Grasp the key points of postpartum care
It is very important for the father to learn the nursing techniques and points of the mother and baby after childbirth, not only to take care of the baby, but also to help the mother relieve pain.
Bao Dad can understand the recovery rules of the mother's body in advance, such as how to properly regulate the body during confinement, as well as the feeding, nursing, safety and other related knowledge of the newborn.
If you have the relevant knowledge, you will be able to identify and solve problems in a timely manner.
3. Maintain a good mindset
Fathers-to-be should maintain a positive and optimistic attitude and give positive energy to their families.
Childbirth is a long, painful and difficult process, and various situations may be encountered in the middle, so as an expectant father, you must have enough patience and perseverance to give your family the greatest support and encouragement, so that they can relax and welcome a new life and a new life more down-to-earth.
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As an expectant father, you should not only give your family proper and thoughtful preparation materially, but more importantly, you must convey warmth and care with practical actions, take care of your hard-working wives with patience and care, and accompany them through this special period smoothly to welcome the arrival of a new life.
I wish all novice moms and dads a happy family!
Moms, what interesting things did you experience during childbirth?
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