The more ruthless a woman is in these three aspects, the more men treat you as a baby, which are the 3 aspects?
Many people compare women to water, and they think that women should be as gentle as water, so as to win the favor of men. However, in real life, those gentle women usually do not have a good result, and in the end, they are easily disliked by others, or even abandoned by men. On the contrary, those ruthless women are living better and better, and even many men treat them as treasures.
From this, we can also see that women can not be blindly gentle, they should be ruthless when they should be ruthless, and only by showing their strong and decisive side in some things can they protect themselves and gain the respect of men. The study found that if a woman is more ruthless in these three aspects, it is easier to win the favor of men. What are the three aspects? Let's give you a brief introduction.
Ruthless in self-growth.
If you don't want to derail yourself from society and become an outcast, you must be ruthless on the road of self-growth. You must not allow yourself to be a housewife who has nothing to do and does not understand anything, once you become a housewife, it means that you are derailed from society. Only by constantly improving oneself and breaking through oneself can it be possible to make oneself better, and the self-confidence exuded by such a woman will also attract the attention of many men.
Be ruthless on personal boundaries.
For a woman, she must have her own sense of boundaries, and to put it bluntly, she must set her own principles and bottom line. If someone crosses the red line, they need to refuse directly, only in this way can they protect themselves from being bullied. If a woman doesn't even have a bottom line, she will become a "soft persimmon" in the eyes of others and be bullied. Therefore, for the sake of our own self-interest, we still have to be ruthless on the issue of personal boundaries.
Only by being ruthless on this issue can we safeguard our own interests as much as possible, and will not sacrifice our own interests because of the interests of others, nor will we let ourselves be wronged because of some problems of others. Although such a woman may seem a bit selfish, she will be more attractive to men. In the eyes of men, you show these boundaries and make them think that you are very independent, and they will treat you as an equal.
Be ruthless in inappropriate feelings.
It is said that a woman who falls in love has zero IQ, although this sentence sounds a bit extreme, but the reality is true. Many women are vigorous and energetic in the workplace, and they can definitely be regarded as proper strong women. But once they touch love, everything changes, they will regard love as the whole of their lives, and even give everything they have for love. I don't think about whether this person is suitable for me at all, I just know that I am happy now.
As everyone knows, women's dedication will only make men worse, they will take women's contributions for granted, and even take women's humility as their own capital to show off. If a woman is smart enough, they will clearly distinguish between feelings and life are two different things, and they can't regard feelings as everything, if they meet inappropriate people or inappropriate feelings, they should be cut off in time.