The city takes root or goes back to his hometown to build a house for the elderly
Preface
Nowadays, with the acceleration of urbanization, more and more people choose to leave their hometowns and come to unfamiliar cities to seek a living. As they grow older and have more life experience, many people begin to think about a question, that is, whether to settle down in the city or return to their hometown to build a house for the elderly. This question seems simple, but it involves all aspects of family, career, and life, making it difficult to choose. Whether to return to their hometown or stay in the city has become a difficult problem in the minds of many people.
1. Homecoming complex
Chinese have a special complex, that is, the homecoming complex. No matter where they are, no matter what difficulties they encounter, for many people, the land of their hometown is the most soothing harbor for their hearts. Especially after living in a foreign land for many years, the longing for his hometown is even stronger. Every Chinese New Year is a popular time to go home to visit relatives, and many people choose to leave the city without hesitation and embark on the journey home. In their hearts, only when they return to their hometown can they truly feel the warmth of home and the tranquility of the countryside.
For many people, the house in the hometown is the real home, while the house in the city is just a place to live and work conveniently. Therefore, when they start to think about the issue of retirement, their first thought is to return to their hometown and build a house of their own. In this way, you can not only satisfy your homecoming complex, but also spend a good time in your old age in the company and love of your family.
2. Comfort and security
For many middle-aged and elderly people, comfort and security are important goals they pursue in life. In cities, especially some large cities, although the living conditions are relatively good, they also face many problems, such as high housing prices, crowded people, complex interpersonal relationships, and so on. For some elderly people, they are not used to this state of life, and feel that although the house in the city is modern, it lacks the comfort and tranquility of the countryside.
Therefore, if given a choice, they would prefer to return to their hometowns and live a slower-paced rural life. In their minds, the simple house in the countryside can bring them great comfort and satisfaction. The houses in the countryside are uniquely designed, spacious and bright, and have their own yards, plenty of natural light, and high ceilings, making people fall in love with such a living environment at a glance.
In such a house, they can grow flowers and grass, raise fish and birds, feel the beauty of nature, and enjoy all the surprises and happiness brought by life. In addition, living in the countryside, they can also breathe clean air and stay away from smog and noise, which is very helpful for their physical health.
3. Parental habits and living environment
In addition, when choosing a place to retire, it is also necessary to take into account the opinions and habits of parents. As parents grow older, their physical condition may have some problems, and at this time, they need the company and care of their children even more. In the hearts of their parents, they are not very interested in city life, and they feel that such a state of life is not suitable for them, and cannot bring them real happiness and satisfaction.
Therefore, when their children begin to think about the issue of providing for the elderly, the first thought of parents is to return to their hometown and live a comfortable and comfortable rural life. In their hearts, only by returning to their hometown can they find a true sense of belonging, chat with their fellow villagers, and spend the Lunar Festival together, which is what they yearn for.
Moreover, living in the countryside, they can also grow vegetables and chickens, and live a colorful retirement life, which is very helpful for their physical and mental health. Therefore, when children choose a place to retire, they must fully consider their parents' opinions and feelings, and give them the greatest respect and support.
Fourth, the homestead policy
In addition to the above reasons, there is another point that needs to be paid attention to, that is, the homestead policy. In the mainland, rural homestead resources are very valuable, and they are also relatively scarce, and cannot be bought and sold and circulated at will. Therefore, if you want to build a house in the countryside, you must comply with relevant policies and regulations, and go through a strict approval process before you can get the approval of the homestead.
With the passage of time, with the continuous advancement of urbanization, the policy of homestead may also undergo some changes, which may have a certain impact on people who want to return to their hometown to build a house. Therefore, if you really plan to go back to your hometown and build a house of your own, you must act as soon as possible and get the approval of the homestead as soon as possible, so that you can benefit from it in the first time and build the house in your favorite location.
5. Social networks and support systems
In addition to the above reasons, there are many other benefits to building a house in your hometown. For example, you can strengthen your ties with family, relatives and friends, and build a more solid social support system. In rural areas, the relationship between people is more intimate and harmonious than in cities, and everyone can help and support each other, which is very helpful for mental health and well-being.
Moreover, living in the countryside, you can also participate in some colorful rural activities, such as dragon boat racing, lantern making, dumpling making, etc., so that you can feel the strong local customs, enrich your retirement life, and live a happy old age.
6. Inheritance of traditional culture and values
At the same time, after returning to their hometown, they can also let their children and grandchildren understand the roots of the family and gain an in-depth understanding of the local traditional culture and local customs. Growing up in such an environment can lead to a deeper understanding of traditional culture, respect for elders, filial piety to parents, and the importance of benevolence, righteousness and morality, which will help the inheritance of family culture and values, and also cultivate family cohesion and identity.
epilogue
To sum up, whether you choose to take root in the city or return to your hometown to build a house, there are pros and cons and considerations. And for many people, especially those with a strong sense of homecoming, they are more inclined to choose to return to their hometown and live a slower-paced rural life.
In the countryside, although you may face some difficulties and challenges, you also have irreplaceable nostalgia and good memories, where you can find a real sense of belonging and happiness, and live a comfortable and comfortable life in your old age. Therefore, no matter which lifestyle you choose, the most important thing is to be grateful, cherish the people in front of you, and face everything in life with a tolerant and grateful heart, so that you can live a truly happy life.