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WeChat Moments: The interweaving of the real and the virtual
In the wave of the digital age, WeChat has become an indispensable part of our lives. According to statistics, the number of WeChat users has broken through the staggering 1.2 billion mark! This number makes us sigh that so many people are using WeChat, and it has become an important tool for us to socialize, work, and live. However, when we delved deeper into WeChat's features, we found an interesting phenomenon: despite the large number of WeChat users, only 300 million people post to Moments every day, and what is even more surprising is that 54% of people believe that not all of them are real friends. What's the story behind this?
1. The "real" and "virtual" of the circle of friends
We often say that the circle of friends is a small stage to show your life. But on this stage, everyone is playing a different role. Some people like to share their lives and let friends know about their current situation; Some people use the circle of friends as a platform to show their talent and charm; There are also some people who use the circle of friends as a tool for work, posting various work information and updates.
However, as the Moments feature continues to expand, it also gradually becomes more complex. More and more people are beginning to realize that not all of them are real friends. Some people add people they don't know well for work, profit, or other reasons. These people may be just a name in the address book, but they often "watch" our lives in the circle of friends. This made us feel a little embarrassed and uneasy, as if we were running naked in the square.
2. The "invasion" of work attributes
The reason why the circle of friends has become so complicated is largely because it is doped with too many work attributes. In the past, the circle of friends was a pure social place, where people shared their lives and exchanged emotions. But now, with the popularity of WeChat and the expansion of its functions, more and more enterprises and individuals have begun to use Moments as a platform for marketing and publicity. They publish advertisements, job postings, and industry updates that commercialize what would otherwise be purely a social place.
This change makes a lot of people uncomfortable. They feel that their circle of friends has been "invaded" and that what should have been a private space is no longer private. They begin to wonder if the "friends" in their circle of friends are all real and trustworthy. This suspicion and uneasiness has also led many people to reduce their sharing and interaction in the circle of friends.
3. How to get back the "real" circle of friends?
In the face of the complexity and commercialization trend of the circle of friends, how can we find that pure and real circle of friends?
You need to be clear about your needs. Why do we use Moments? Is it to show yourself, make friends, or to promote your work? Only by clarifying our own needs can we make better use of the function of Moments.
Need to learn to screen and filter. When adding friends, we need to carefully consider whether they are trustworthy and share our interests and values. For those who have just been added for work or other reasons, we can selectively block their Moments activity or reduce interaction with them.
You need to keep a normal heart. Moments is just a social tool, it doesn't represent the whole of our lives. We shouldn't rely too much on our circle of friends to present ourselves or find a sense of identity. On the contrary, we should put more time and energy into real life to make real friends and experience real life.
Conclusion: Get back to your true self
In the tide of the digital age, we may not be able to completely avoid the complexity and commercialization trend of the circle of friends. But as long as we keep a clear head, learn to sift and filter information, and maintain a normal heart to face all the challenges and opportunities in life, then we can find that true, pure, and belonging to our own circle of friends. Let's work together! Let the circle of friends become a beautiful scenery in our lives!
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