On the road of life, we often meet all kinds of people, accompanied by friends and glimpses from strangers. Master Hongyi once said: "The relationship between people is important in harmony, if someone treats me with disgust, or is disgusted by me, this is not a good fate, and you should avoid it." These words seem simple, but they contain the deep meaning of life and are worth savoring.
Imagine what it would be like to live your daily life full of dislike from others. It's like a bowl of rice mixed with grains of sand, and although it is barely in the mouth, it always makes people feel unpleasant. Master Hongyi tells us that the dislike of others is actually a silent signal, and they may not be suitable to be long-term partners in your life.
"It is enough to have a confidant in life", this sentence expresses the preciousness of friendship. If someone is always critical of you, can't see your strengths, but magnify your shortcomings, then this person is probably not the one who can accompany you through the storm. Instead of letting this relationship drain your energy, give yourself more time and space to find people who truly appreciate you.
Of course, this is not to say that we should turn a blind eye to all criticism. Sometimes, other people's advice can help us grow, but it should be out of kindness and care, not disgust. Remember, while accepting criticism, learn to discern what is constructive and what is just a passing emotion.
Master Hongyi also said, "The heart is calm and naturally cool." When we are at peace, we don't care too much about what others think, and we are no longer easily swayed by others' dislikes. Learn to let go and keep your heart calm, and you will find that the world is not so complicated, and life is still beautiful.
In this fast-paced society, we are often too busy coping to ignore the signals around us. Slow down, listen to your inner voice, and see those who truly connect with your heart. Remember, not everyone deserves our attention, and we don't have to change ourselves to cater to others.
Master Hongyi's words are like a beacon that illuminates our way forward. When someone dislikes you, you might as well smile and choose to leave, looking for the understanding and respect that belongs to you. Life should be our own stage, why let other people's eyes affect our pace?
Finally, let's arm ourselves with the wisdom of Master Hongichi and accept others and ourselves with a broad mind. After all, the value of life is not in the evaluation of others, but in the experience of self-growth and happiness.
May we all be able to find our own harmony and freedom in the grinding of life, so that the teachings of Master Hongyi can become a clear stream in our lives and nourish our hearts. Forward it out, so that more people can benefit and become a better version of themselves together!