When you encounter this problem: "The leader signals you to help him block the wine, but the customer says: "I respect the boss, are you the boss?" "How would you reply.
I believe everyone has encountered such a similar problem at the wine table, on the one hand, the leader, and on the other hand, the customer.
At this time, send you out to play a round, in this tense situation, the slightest carelessness in what you say will make the situation very embarrassing.
If you don't know how to properly face such a stalemate situation, let's take a look at Xu Yajun's wonderful answers.
After some brainstorming, he replied lightly, "Indeed, although I am not qualified to drink with you, you deserve to be toasted by each and every one of us." ”
Let me ask, if you are the difficult customer, will you feel that you have touched cotton when you hear such an answer? Will you be impressed by the person next to you who toasts and resolves the embarrassment with a few words, and will you feel that this person is not simple?
At the wine table, it is likely that this sentence is the last kick in the door to talk about business money, even if you talked about it well, if you don't have this sentence, you may not be able to put your mind at ease to sign a contract with you, but Xu Yajun perfectly showed the last decency before signing the business.
Everyone knows Xu Yajun, he played the role of a director of public security in "In the Name of the People", although he is a villain, it really makes people love and hate, and perfectly shows the hardships of being promoted from a civilian to a director of public security.
Xu Yajun is also out of the circle because of his acting skills, so much so that he joked in an interview that in reality, when other policemen see Xu Yajun, they have to salute and say "Director Qi".
It seems that Xu Yajun is already the incarnation of Qi Tongwei in everyone's hearts, so some people asked a particularly tricky toast question with this impression.
Xu Yajun's perfect answer can make everyone not find fault, he not only shines at the wine table, but also in the "small account" with the boss, Xu Yajun can also have high emotional intelligence to remind the boss that he has miscalculated the money.
This time the question he wanted to answer was like this: "Teacher Xu, the leader asked you to buy milk tea, and you spent 523, but he only transferred 500 to you, and said: It has been transferred, take it." "How would you reply?
If this is put aside by the editor, you will feel that the 23 yuan, don't do it, and you haven't suffered much loss, as the saying goes: suffering is a blessing. Although it was a reduction of twenty or thirty yuan, it also deepened the connection with the leader.
Xu Yajun also thought so, twenty or thirty yuan is not a loss, but he said: "If it's always like this, you can remind him in another way." ”
For example, if you say to him, "Thank you for the leader for being the big and letting me be the small, and thank you for the leader for giving me the opportunity to get ahead." ”
Look, this is the skill of dealing with the world, the sophistication of human feelings, after flattering the leader first, and then in contrast, embarrassingly and politely say that he has obtained merit, and finally hint at reminding his own demands, so as to give the boss enough face.
Look at others, Xu Yajun is so comfortable in dealing with such things, without dragging his feet at all, not to mention that he has played the director of public security, this kind of communication ability is people's ability.
After reading Xu Yajun and the leader's way of "calculating small accounts", let's take a look at how WeChat group red envelopes can be used to get out.
Sometimes the leader will send a big red envelope to the group for colleagues to grab, which also plays a role in enlivening the atmosphere.
However, Xu Yajun was asked a tricky question because the leader sent a red envelope: "The leader sent a red envelope in the group, and you accidentally grabbed the biggest, and your colleagues coaxed and said: You are the biggest one, and you will also send us a big one." "How would you reply?
Xu Yajun smiled when he saw this question and said: "Then you have to be clever and can't talk nonsense."
In fact, this problem is not simple, if you send a big red envelope according to the requirements of your colleagues, then you will not become a leader? What do you mean, you have the heart of transgression, and why should you send out the red envelopes that you robbed.
But if you don't send it, it will seem stingy again, which is not appropriate for reason and reason, and then you need smooth words to divert attention.
Let's see how Xu Yajun answered: "Thank you for leading targeted poverty alleviation." ”
This not only thanked the leader for the big red envelope, but also rejected his colleagues because of the poor conditions, and also showed that he was very poor and might be given special care.
This is the art of language, after all, we are all mixed in the rivers and lakes, and we always have to have some euphemistic words to maintain the relationship around us.
Finally, there is a particularly tricky question for the finale, just looking at the problem, you can imagine how embarrassing the scene is: "You went late for an unfamiliar dinner, and someone said to you: Yo, you are here to pay." "How would you reply?
The unfamiliar dinner, the late arrival, and the fact that he was asked to pay for the bill were all gathered into one scene, which directly made Xu Yajun rub his hands together and think for a while.
After thinking about it, let's take a look at how Xu Yajun answers this problem: "I'm late enough to steal the limelight, I won't grab the limelight if I pay for it." ”
This time there was no leader in the scene, obviously Xu Yajun's answer was a little harder, but it was still full of wisdom.
This time, he adopted the strategy of advancing and retreating, first saying that he had stolen the limelight, this is in, it stands to reason that he can't steal the limelight anymore, this is retreat, or where to put everyone sitting there, so the limelight of paying is still let others show it.
epilogue
I have to say that Lao Jianghu, Xu Yajun, and Director Qi Tongwei have a sophisticated temperament.
People talk and do things: don't say anything ugly, give face to the leader in everything, and show neither humility nor arrogance in everything, which is the most affordable and convincing state.
Far away from the rivers and lakes, and on the line of life, let's learn more, everyone.
Source: Xu Yajun's Douyin account