"Grandma shouldn't remember me much in this life, because she was already old when I was very young. But we are direct relatives, and blood ties bring us closer. So I wanted to write something about her, to remember her, to tell her life based on my memories and the stories of others. ”
Reading such words, an extremely simple and delicate style jumps onto the page. And it comes from such a book of prose with notes "My Affection in the World", reading the whole book, reading the words in the book, such words are like an old man telling a story about the past, the heart is extremely peaceful and peaceful, but it has infinite tenderness.
But this collection of essays was written by a young man. Ding Hao, writer, screenwriter, and director, judging from his own account of his life, he is still a post-90s generation, but the writing is so sophisticated and mature, it is worth our continuous recollection.
So what does he say in these words? It also has a kind of old and respectful meaning, he is to remember for us those people and things in his family, and tell us about those relatives who have left an important mark in his life.
And in the above text, of course, we can see that he is not very familiar with the grandmother in Jiangsu, and such an old man with a life span of more than 90 years is indeed the first wise man in the life that the author comes into contact with. And in the process of fighting wits and courage between the grandmother and the gambling grandfather throughout their lives, they have cultivated their children and grandchildren to grow up. Grandma's bearing and insight are extraordinary, and she has also planted such a gene in the family.
And what about grandpa? There is also a story about him here, and it was written from the beginning of his grandfather's serious illness, and there is such an essay "Grandfather in the Intensive Care Ward", which is a detailed review of his grandfather's life, and also allows us to see his profound influence on the author, so the final departure of grandpa has become an eternal pain in the author's heart, and this also sends out the call of "Grandpa, I miss you very much".
Father, brother-in-law, Fa Xiao, and first love are also the protagonists of the story in this book. What about the other half of your life? is still in the author's expectation, so the author left us such an extremely interesting essay "Daughter-in-law", which also allows us to see the author's call and expectation from the heart, "My future daughter-in-law, where are you?" "My dear future daughter-in-law, the years are whirling, the people are warm and cold, even if they are impeccable, they are also lonely, one more person is not more, one less person is less, the night is not sleepless, the food is not fragrant, I am a person who misses you and is sick, I don't want to be sick for a long time, I want medicine to get rid of the disease, and you trek through the mountains and rivers with the medicine box all the way to see me, you are my personal doctor, this road is wind, frost, rain and snow, you are rain or shine, let me dig out my heart and lungs to say: You, hard work!"
Such affectionate words carry the author's memories, narration and expectations for all his loved ones, and these words will inevitably resonate with us readers, and can also make us feel the same warmth and feel the beauty of the true feelings in the world during the reading process. #散文##至情##亲情#