When a person lives more and more transparently, he will tell himself, don't meddle in things, there are too many things in the world that have nothing to do with me.
Only if you really let yourself be rational enough, let go, forget, and even when necessary, you can be indifferent enough.
In this way, you will be able to walk more relaxed, live more freely, and even be able to live the life you want more and more.
Luo Xiang once said:
When people are most attractive, they don't care about everything around them.
I don't care about the evaluation and vision of others, I don't care if I have a sense of existence, I always have my own rhythm and pace, which is also the source of relaxation.
We must always believe that true transparency is to live out of oneself, and to be able to maintain a kind of transparency and open-mindedness that "has nothing to do with me" with the outside world.
Life is one's own, and everything should be one's own.
Only by allowing ourselves to live more and more transparently, and can afford to put it down, will life finally feel our most brilliance and warmth.
Other people's opinions and evaluations have nothing to do with me
If you are confident enough in yourself, if you also trust yourself enough.
Then in the face of other people's eyes and evaluations of yourself, discussions and demands, in fact, you can ignore them.
Especially in the face of other people's unreasonable demands, we should be treated inch by inch, we should bring a momentum that has nothing to do with me, and an attitude of ignoring me and rejecting the other party.
You know, no matter how good you are, there will always be some people who can't get used to you, and there will always be some people who will make things difficult for you.
Therefore, what you have to do is to affirm yourself, believe in yourself, and be considerate and understanding of yourself enough.
In the face of other people's misunderstandings, negativity, and inexplicable difficulties and harms, we must stay away, let alone go to our hearts.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said:
"We are young and not sophisticated, but the most sophisticated and the most proficient are also criticized."
Living in other people's mouths, your life will only become more and more passive, and your life will be drowned out by other people's saliva.
To put it bluntly, the more you care about others, the easier it is to be swayed.
A truly smart person must rely on himself to grow and become strong.
Then when your whole personality becomes independent and becomes more and more attractive, you will naturally be able to rely on yourself to see the wonder of the world and feel the grace of life.
In this way, even if you live in your own world, you can get better and better.
Nosy
A person's greatest sobriety is not to be an idler in life, and to be idle when people are in contact.
Because when a person is accustomed to being an idler and doing idle things, it is actually the biggest waste of his life and the biggest loss of life.
Being an idler and meddling in things, on the one hand, is thankless, and on the other hand, it is indeed easy to waste precious time and energy on some useless things, or even particularly unworthy things.
Therefore, people who live transparently will not only take the initiative to stay away from idlers and idle things, but also tell themselves that these are all irrelevant to me, don't fall into it.
Mo Yan once said:
"Don't meddle in the cause and effect of others, don't interfere with the qi of others, otherwise, the loss will eventually be yourself, and you will not be able to benefit the world."
When a person takes the initiative to focus on himself in life, and returns his goals and attention to his own development, then it is possible to build a strong self on his own.
Then, as you become more and more capable and accumulate more and more resources, you will also find that your whole person will become younger, more open-minded and more cheerful.
When you become open-minded enough and strong enough in your mentality, you will definitely get better and better in the near future.
Don't meddle in other people's lives, because every family has a difficult scripture, in fact, live yourself, manage yourself, don't meddle in things, is the greatest courtesy, is a rare cultivation, but also a rare sobriety in life.
Take care of yourself, everything else has nothing to do with me
I like a quote: "Choose your own path, regardless of other people's gossip, and most importantly, be the best version of yourself." ”
The most important thing in life is to be yourself.
The premise of doing a good job is to manage yourself well.
If you want to manage yourself, you must devote enough time and energy to yourself.
To put it bluntly, it is natural to leave some irrelevant people and things behind, don't think too much, and don't always feel that you can change something.
The only thing you can change is yourself.
Therefore, being yourself, being yourself, and being strong is the best luck in life, and it is also the best way to live.
Wilde said:
"Be yourself, because everyone else has done it."
Take care of yourself, be yourself, don't be nosy, and don't be an idler.
Focus your life on self-growth, constantly see a bigger world, and explore a better future.
In this way, you can become stronger and more reliable.