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Xu Xin: Chinese people often regard hardship as a virtue, which is simply contemptuous

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Dear friends, we are not here to farm today, but to dissect the topic that once made people's blood boil and made people calm down and think about it - about the commonplace question of suffering.

Xu Xin: Chinese people often regard hardship as a virtue, which is simply contemptuous

Do you remember the permission Xin? The girl who bluntly said that "the Chinese people over-glorify the suffering". Aha, her words were like a bombshell at the beginning, which made many netizens blow up, and I was also so angry that I was angry. After all, we are all potatoes that grow on the earth, and whoever suffers more will be glorious!

However, slowly, when you gradually calm down, you will be half-pushed and half-pushed for many things. We're industrious, we're strong, that's all right, but what about suffering? Is it really our friend?

Having said that, I'm going to summarize five key points to recast this previously controversial point. Let's jump out of that cycle and try new flavors.

First of all, Xu Xin's words, as soon as they came out, made many people tearful and bitter. We worked hard to farm, but she went abroad to enjoy happiness, and said that we were seeking our own hardships. But now, looking at it from a higher place, is this suffering really a virtue? How did it help us?

Second, I would like to say that doing everything step by step and doing your own job is the way of life. Life is limited, if you blindly indulge in suffering, that is the real "self-contempt".

Xu Xin: Chinese people often regard hardship as a virtue, which is simply contemptuous

Again, the third point, poke at the heart, to put it bluntly, who doesn't understand the little ninety-nine in our hearts? People know to avoid it when they are in pain. At the beginning, we couldn't see clearly, and we only had to get angry, but if we understand the truth, how can we still put out a fire like flies?

Next, the fourth point, we potatoes also have a point of view. No one can fail to experience the grievances and bitterness in the world. But how can these become a means of contempt for us? No, never!

Finally, on the fifth point, I would like to say, I dare say, that those seemingly noble sufferings are nothing but the experiences that life has given us. We can learn, we can grow, but we should never succumb to it. Face it head-on, but also understand that pleasure is not a sin, and suffering is not a medal.

With these five points clear, let's take a look at the real-life examples. A few years ago, I had a friend who came from hardships since childhood, and everyone praised him for his ability to bear hardships and stand hard work. The result? He himself said that he actually envied those who lived a leisurely life, he was tired, and all he wanted was the happiness that a normal person should have.

Okay, the world goes round and round, we all have the machinery of time, why not have a good spring? What I want to say now is the courage to look forward to ourselves and life!

Xu Xin: Chinese people often regard hardship as a virtue, which is simply contemptuous

Guest officers, let us all save ourselves from this hard work, find some easy days, and don't let suffering become the whole of our lives. Remember, life is like a play, and we have to be the protagonists in every scene on the screen! That's all for potatoes today, let's talk about a new topic next time, so stay tuned!

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