Title: It turns out that these behaviors of men are a manifestation of love for you
I was born into an ordinary family, and my parents were hardworking and simple workers. I have a cheerful personality and like to make friends, but there is a faint sadness in my heart. I've always longed to find someone who truly loves me, someone who understands my heart.
After graduating from university, I worked for a well-known company and lived a pretty good life. In the company, I met a girl named Li Ting, she was beautiful, smart, and independent, which made me fall in love at first sight. I started approaching her, looking for opportunities to talk to her, ask her for dinner, and give her gifts. At first, she was kind to me, chatting with me and accepting my invitations. But, gradually, I began to feel her alienation, her rejection.
In the first case, she began to find all kinds of excuses to shirk my invitation. In the beginning, she would also find some reasonable excuses, such as being busy with work and having something at home. But then, her excuses became more and more far-fetched, such as the bad weather today and she didn't want to go out. I know it's her hinting to me that she doesn't want to meet me.
The second manifestation is that she starts not replying to my messages. In the past, she would reply to my messages as soon as she saw them, but now, she either doesn't reply or doesn't reply for a long time. I know it's what she's telling me that she doesn't want to communicate with me.
The third manifestation was that she began to reject my gifts. In the past, she would be happy to receive my gifts, but now, she will refuse to accept my gifts and even return them. I know it's telling me she's not wanting to accept my kindness.
Fourthly, she started to behave intimately with other boys in front of me. I know it's telling me that she's already having someone she likes, and that person isn't me.
I know that Li Ting is rejecting me, and she doesn't want to have anything to do with me. I understood that I should let go and stop pestering her. However, I really liked her and I really didn't want to give up. I started to get stubborn, I started trying to change her mind, I started to do some excesses.
I would wait for her when she got off work, I would wait for her downstairs at her house, and I even started sending her some threatening messages. I knew that my actions had exceeded her bearings, and that I had terrified her.
I looked at the fear in her eyes and I knew I had lost, I had lost completely. Not only did I not get her heart, but it made her fear me. I knew that I should let go, and I should let her live the life she wanted.
I decided to leave, to leave the city, to leave this place that made me sad. I sent a message to Li Ting before leaving: "I'm sorry, I know I was wrong, I will leave and I won't pester you again." Then I left and never looked back.
I went to another city and started a new life. I started working hard and trying to improve myself. I don't think about Li Ting anymore, I don't think about the place that makes me sad.
Until one day, I met Li Ting on the street, and there was a boy next to her, and that boy was the person she liked. I saw their happy smiles, and I knew that I had let go, that I was relieved.
I greeted them with a smile and turned to leave. I know that I still have a long way to go in my life, I will meet more people, and I will encounter more challenges. I will face it bravely, and I will go on strongly.
I know that I have learned how to love, how to respect, how to let go. I know, I've grown up, I've matured.
This is my story, a story of love and letting go. I hope that my story can bring you some inspiration and some insights. I hope you can learn from my story how to love, how to respect, how to let go.
Because, love does not have to be had, sometimes, letting go, is also a kind of love.