In real life, if you are not afraid of the real bad guys, you are afraid that the bad guys are wolves in sheep's clothing, which makes it difficult for people to detect. They are kind and hospitable on the surface, but behind the scenes, they are thinking about how to calculate you. In front of you, the hypocrites are clever and skillful, draw you a big pie, coax you around, and then let you fall into a trap in sweet words.
31-year-old Xiao Yang is an honest and kind person, and one day his good friend Boss Wu proposed to use Xiao Yang's workshop to expand production, promising to give Xiao Yang 30% of the profit. The condition is that Xiao Yang first pays for advertising, buys sewing machines, and helps recruit workers, and then pays rent when he recruits people. Xiao Yang agreed without much thought, and spent more than 80,000 yuan to buy 30 sewing machines.
As a result, half a year has passed, and not a single worker has been recruited. It turned out that there were already dozens of sewing factories around, and Xiao Yang was a layman, so he couldn't recruit people at all. What's even more excessive is that Boss Wu actually called Xiao Yang to sell him the sewing machine at a price of sixty percent. In desperation, Xiao Yang could only sell at a loss, and then he realized that he was ruthlessly calculated by his "good friend"!
The warning of this story is that greedy and selfish people are the most terrible, they will not think from the perspective of others, they will only ask for it unscrupulously, and when they do not get any benefit from you, they will immediately expose the nature of "white-eyed wolves". Therefore, when interacting with people, you must keep your eyes open, distinguish between good and evil, and do not be deceived by appearances.
Another thing to watch out for is those who constantly seek advice and help, but never see any improvement and never listen to persuasion. They seem to be seeking comfort rather than genuine advice and hope for change. Dealing with this kind of person will only waste time and energy, and you will end up feeling disappointed and frustrated.
There is also a kind of person who likes to constantly complain about how unsatisfactory life is, but never thinks about how to change. They are endlessly draining your compassion and spreading negativity. For such people, we need to learn to keep our distance and express understanding moderately, but also make it clear that it is useless to complain and that the key is to take action.
It is inevitable to meet all kinds of people in life, and the key is to learn to distinguish and not be blinded by the so-called "kindness". Only by associating with sincere and kind people can we reap happiness; Surround yourself with motivated people and you can continue to grow. For those who are ill-intentioned and passive and lazy, we must dare to say "no" and stick to our principles and bottom line, so that we can go more steadily and further on the road of life.
What do you think about this? Feel free to have your say!