In fact, everyone has a destiny in their life. Everyone has their own path in life. Everyone's choices are different, but this is true for many things in a person's life.
Each of us is busy with life, and we can't escape the hardships of life, because everyone's life is not easy, everyone has all kinds of suffering and difficulties, everyone will experience all kinds of difficulties, no matter how difficult and painful a person's life is, he must persevere. in life. To live well is to win.
01. As long as people live, half of the sky belongs to their families.
I remember what my uncle said in the TV series "Blossoming Flowers": "We are just ordinary people, working to earn some money, so don't worry too much about many things, just work hard when you go to work." "Rest well after work. Some people say you're good too, and it's okay if you're bad. Always remind yourself that in the eyes of others, you are nothing, and in front of your family, you are half of it. Sky. ”
Yes.
There is no such thing as empathy in this world. No matter what you've been through, others won't be able to understand you and feel your pain.
Everyone has too much time to take care of their own lives. No matter what role they play outside, once they return to the family, even if it is half of the family, everyone shoulders the burden of their own family and bears all the responsibilities of the family.
Why is it so hard for middle-aged people? Because there are old people above, and young people below. I've become the breadwinner of my family. No matter how much grievances and bitterness I suffered outside, I always suffered it silently and digested it myself. I don't take it lightly. Complain about others, insist on your own strength, and don't think about anything.
When we live, we should not be self-righteous in front of others, because they don't really care about you that much, and don't even take you seriously. We can only live well, live hard, take care of ourselves, take care of our families, and we should be responsible. If you do your best to take responsibility for yourself, then you will have a clear conscience in your life.
02. In life, everyone has their own destiny.
Character determines life.
Each person's character will give them a different destiny and lead them to a different end.
The three sisters in "Flowers" have three different destinies. Min Min is smart and obedient, has a good personality, and works hard herself. Therefore, when she met nobles who supported her, from the waitress to the foreman, to making money on her own, her personality was cheerful and sensible.
The other sister, Ruth, is honest, kind, and down-to-earth. She also relied on her own efforts to become a foreman step by step. She is content, happy, so she also lives happily ever after.
However, Xiao Jiangxi has a high-spirited and stubborn personality, always aggressive, and wants to take shortcuts to change his fate. In the end, he suffered a big loss and suffered a lot of losses.
All three worked hard from small places to big cities. Their epitome is not the epitome of most ordinary us.
And what kind of character you are, what kind of destiny you will have, that's all.
03. When a person lives, the less he is taken seriously by others, the more he must take himself seriously.
Life is like this, not everyone will revolve around you, and not everyone will look up to you.
A lot of times, people don't take you seriously. You don't have to rush to show off in front of others, but be yourself. You don't have to care so much, and you don't have to please people. Instead, go your own way. Live your life.
You should be your own dock and not expect someone else to be your haven.
It doesn't matter if others look down on you, because we don't live for others to see, but for ourselves.
First of all, we must respect ourselves, be responsible for our own lives, and position ourselves correctly, so that we can know ourselves and know our opponents and retreat freely.
We live our own lives and live our lives by our own efforts. When you live your life well, that's success. There is no need to compare with others.
People live for a lifetime, that's all.