Love is the light that shines in the dark night, and I believe that many people yearn to have love.
Even those who have experienced relationship problems will yearn for love at some point, and long to be able to meet a partner who has a common heart. This is the deepest desire of everyone, even if they have experienced setbacks, they have not given up their yearning for love.
Everyone needs to love and be loved, and we need to learn how to express and receive love, which is the key to happiness.
I have to admit that love always comes with all kinds of complexities and sadness.
Sometimes, we don't always say how deeply we feel for someone, and it's not uncommon for us to secretly like him or her.
Some people say that there is a heartache that is in love but can't get the other person, and another sadness is a crush on someone.
Sometimes, even if you like someone, you may only hide this affection deep in your heart and turn it into a crush because of irresistible factors. Even if our hearts are full of sadness and melancholy, we must endure it in silence, after all, this may be the only option.
When we genuinely like someone, we are often afraid to admit it, because if we do, it can ruin our friendship. This hesitation and worry is quite normal.
Many people choose to hide their true emotions for fear of rejection or loss, which makes emotions that should be obvious hidden.
Love does not wait, it can only be obtained if you dare to pursue it. If you only stay at the stage of crush, love will never come.
You need to understand that sometimes love requires you to pursue it aggressively. After all, there may be a situation where the person you like is also silently liking you. Don't be afraid to take the initiative, maybe you will reap a good relationship.
Instead of passively waiting, take the initiative and learn to spot those who quietly like you.
Likes to chat with you frequently
When we like someone, we always want to know what the other person is doing and how they are doing. If someone has a crush on you, then he will surely chat with you frequently.
It is no exaggeration to say that almost every time you open WeChat, you will see his message or voice. He cares about you very much and asks if you are eating well and how you are feeling today.
He also likes to share interesting things with you and even offers to show you his daily life to make you feel like the other half of his life. This form of communication and interaction can enhance mutual affection and make people more relaxed and happy.
As soon as he senses that you are unhappy or depressed, he will use various methods to amuse you.
As long as it is a message from you, he will respond almost immediately, so fast that you can't help but wonder if he is waiting for you with his phone all day. This response makes people feel very welcome.
In fact, he can reply to you so quickly because he has made you a pinned contact and special interest on WeChat.
Conversely, if a person of the opposite sex has no special feelings for you, then he will not show such behavior towards you.
I will always interact with you in the circle of friends
Crush is a manifestation of liking, but it contains an undetermined factor. This uncertainty comes from the influence of personal thoughts and attitudes.
When he is afraid of losing you, deep down he inevitably wants to be with you. He will try to get closer to you and act as your sight at all times. This is a common feeling for many people, but it has a more formal atmosphere.
On WeChat, the interaction of the circle of friends is a manifestation of interpersonal communication. Every time you post a Moments, your friends will follow and reply in a timely manner. They are often the first to interact with you, which also shows the heat and popularity of WeChat Moments.
Every time you post a message in the circle of friends, he is always the first to like and comment, and even exchange jokes with you in the comment area. If you post something negative, he will also send you a message as soon as possible to ask if you need help.
For example, when you post a sick message on your social media, your friends will pay attention to your current situation and find out the severity of your illness and whether you are taking your medication on time. This process shows that they care and care about you.
Excuse me, generally speaking, this does not happen between ordinary friends. Most of the time you can say that the person likes you.
From time to time, I post some suggestive moments of friends
If someone has a crush on you, it is probably because he does not dare to express it rashly, for fear of upsetting the good balance. So, you might as well give him more encouragement and support, so that he dares to pursue the person he wants.
In this case, he is likely to test your reaction. From time to time, he may post some moments of interest that contain hints and observe your attitude and response.
For example, he will post some moments like expressing that he wants to be in love, or expressing that he feels lonely.
If you leave a comment in the comments section of this author, he will be happy to reply and communicate with you further.
It's important to note that he usually only replies to your messages and mostly just exchanges with other people. However, he usually makes these moments visible only to you.
If you don't respond, you'll find that he contacts you significantly less often in the next period of time. It is advisable that you reply to him at the appropriate time and maintain good communication.
Considering that he will feel lost and disappointed by your silence, we should give him more response and support.
Conclusion:
A crush is just as much like blatantly liking and needs to be cared for, touched, and intimate.
You will find that if some people only see you as a friend, they may not deliberately contact you often and rarely take the initiative to care about you. It doesn't mean they don't respect you, it's just that their concerns may be different. However, friends who truly care about you will be there for you at all times, whether they are sharing happiness or suffering.
After all, chats between friends always start abruptly and end abruptly. This is a natural phenomenon.
The person who has a crush on you will chat with you more attentively and stick to the end of the conversation. Some of his actions may be more deliberate in an attempt to get your attention.
In today's information age, human connections are mainly made online, after all, people can't stay together all the time.
In this case, everyone's emotions and attitudes towards you become very obvious, which makes the situation clearer.
When you find that such a person exists in your WeChat friend list, you should be vigilant, he is likely to have a crush on you.
If you like him too, don't miss this opportunity.