In love, loyalty is paramount. After all, love should be pure and beautiful, and loyalty is the indispensable key.
When one partner begins to have unfaithful thoughts, love will be shocked, lose its original flavor, and even face threats.
This situation is unacceptable, especially for people who have a strong cleanliness fetish in their relationship. However, in love, this kind of thing is not uncommon, and it is not uncommon for two hearts to appear.
Have you ever heard the proverb: "Like gathers like, people divide into groups"? It is often used to describe interpersonal relationships, where people who are similar to themselves get together and people who are different are distancing. This proverb is more objective and profound, rather than simply satirizing the shortcomings of men.
It is undeniable that there are many men who lack fidelity in dealing with their feelings.
It is extremely important for women to meet a man who is focused on her, especially after getting married and having children.
After starting a family, it is very difficult to end a relationship. This condition can take a toll on your psyche and spirit.
Especially for women who have been concealed from the truth, it is very heart-wrenching and unsettling to discover the truth.
There are women who, once they have feelings for a man, trust him with all their hearts, even if they are immersed in the lies and deceptions they have laid, without knowing it. Such an outcome can be imagined.
In Ximei's view, a woman's life should not only have love and marriage. A better option than a blind obsession is to identify the problem early so that you can stop the loss in time. This makes it easier to face life and get through each stage more formally.
Wandering and busy
If a man often acts strangely and seems busy, it is likely that he is cheating.
You don't always know where he is, and he doesn't want to say more. You tend to hear several excuses, such as work, partying.
In short, he will spend less time at home and will often make up lies to deceive you.
When you ask him the same question repeatedly, he may become annoyed and start arguing or losing his temper. This will make him feel that you are restricting his freedom. As a polite person, we should respect the perceptions and private space of others.
The reason he became like this is because he needs more time with his lover.
When one person needs to take care of two families at the same time, time is naturally tight. This may cause him to show signs of a change of heart.
You should understand that a sincere man will put all his thoughts on the family, and he will be willing to stay at home with his family. Such a man is undouble-minded and worthy of our cherishment and trust.
If it is separated, it is cold and hot
When a man behaves like a detached, it is often one of the signs that he has two hearts. He is warm and cold to you, and it is difficult for people to grasp his true emotions.
Generally speaking, if a man truly loves you, his emotions and feelings will not fluctuate too much, and even if there are some changes, he will be relatively stable.
When changes are erratic, sometimes cold and sometimes hot, there is most likely a problem.
For example, he will suddenly become extra kind to you and help you do things that you have never done before.
As the saying goes, "Nothing is a thief", and the "enthusiasm" he shows is actually out of inner insecurity.
Sometimes, he will behave very coldly, look at you with a bystander mentality, and there must be feelings of disgust and dislike for you in this state. This behavior can cause you to feel frustrated and unhappy.
He used to be very worried when you were hurt, but now he doesn't pay attention to it.
In short, when a man has two hearts, he will fall into the dilemma between leaving and persevering. His attitude and behavior can also be mixed from time to time.
Refuse to be intimate and always perfunctory
A man who only has you in his heart undoubtedly loves you deeply. In this case, he will naturally not refuse to be close to you.
Deep down, he craves more intimate contact with you, such as kisses and hugs.
Men tend to appear very dependent on a woman when they truly love her and like to stick to her. It is a sign of willingness to give and care for her.
If he has lost affection for you, then this intimacy will become offensive to him. Conversely, if he is still deeply in love with you, then this contact will make him feel warm and comfortable.
If you're together a lot, you'll notice that he always avoids intimacy and seems to just cope perfunctorily. This situation is common, and it is necessary to communicate well and find a solution.
For example, when you want to hug him, he may naturally let go of your hand or even leave after a short hug.
Conclusion:
If a man has a change of heart, the signs will be revealed despite his efforts to cover it up. This is an unavoidable reality.
Since his spirit has been drawn to another woman, he devotes more time, passion, and money to this woman from the outside world than to you. You should understand that he has lost interest in you and don't have to be too upset about it.
is similar to Xu Huanshan in the TV series "Thirty Only", once he had an extramarital affair with Lin Youyou, his behavior was extremely inappropriate.
For example, he always felt a little uneasy, and whenever Gu Jia came over, he would quickly lock the screen of his phone. In addition, he would often chat with Lin Youyou and delete it and then add it again.
Due to his lack of inner self-confidence, his behavior also becomes strange and eccentric, such as talking and acting incoherently.
He always has no fixed place, he has just had a home in Lin, and he is about to return in a hurry.
Of course, there are some other obvious manifestations, such as his modification of the pattern of the fireworks to Lin Youyou's initials.
In general, when a man has thoughts of infidelity, his behavior becomes difficult to explain. As the saying goes, "What is not right must have mysterious power." Once you notice these signs, it's time to pay attention.