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Once upon a time, Hao Lei, as a bright star in the entertainment industry, has always been the focus of public attention. Her straightforward, frank and honest personality, as well as her inappropriate remarks about the people in some areas, especially the people of Henan, have triggered a strong backlash and a wave of doubts from all walks of life.
However, time flies, and Hao Lei, who is now in her prime, has already washed away her lead, and is no longer the sharp-edged young actress, but has transformed into an independent and self-reliant professional woman.
Despite the painful process of two marriages breaking up, Hao Lei did not lose her confidence in life. On the contrary, she has devoted herself to the cause she loves, both as an actress and in a new field of directing.
In just a few years, she has not only successfully directed and starred in many excellent micro-films and music video works, which have won high praise from colleagues in the industry, but also every time she appears on the big screen, she can vividly interpret the inner world and external image of the character with her superb acting skills, which amazes the audience.
In terms of family life, Hao Lei also poured 100% love. The pair of lovely twin sons she conceived with her ex-husband Liu Ye are now raised by her.
Due to the lack of fatherly love in her childhood, Hao Lei deeply understands the importance of accompanying her children to grow up, so no matter how busy she is at work, she will always find time to play and play with her two children, trying to fill the gap of their loss of father.
Initially, twin brothers may complain that their mothers are too focused on work and neglect the needs of their hearts. However, as time passed, the children gradually understood their mother's hard work, and the family relationship between the three became deeper.
Hao Lei's care for her sons naturally does not need to be repeated, she dedicates all her love unreservedly and goes all out to create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere for them.
Today's Hao Lei is also low-key and introverted on social media, rarely sharing details of her personal life. She seems to have focused all her life on work and family, living a relatively plain but stable life.
It's just that whenever a new work is about to be launched, she will shine with a new brilliance, attracting the attention and expectations of countless audiences.
In 2019, Hao Lei's studio suddenly announced the shocking news of her divorce from her husband Liu Ye, which instantly shook the entire entertainment industry! This official statement seems to send a mysterious signal to people: Liu Ye, as an outsider, seems to be unable to bear Hao Lei's rising career height and popularity.
However, in the initial sweet time of this relationship, Hao Lei really regarded Liu Ye as the only love of her life and soul mate.
Their fate began in 2011, when Hao Lei began a blind date journey full of expectations under the careful arrangement of her family.
When they first met, Liu Ye and Hao Lei had a wonderful spiritual resonance, and soon after, they quickly established a relationship. After two years of emotional accumulation, in 2013, Hao Lei shared a solo photo wearing a sparkling diamond ring on her personal social platform, announcing to the world that she had entered the sacred hall of marriage.
It is worth mentioning that in the same year, she also ushered in a pair of lovely dragon and phoenix fetal babies, which can be described as the pinnacle of life and full of happiness.
However, who would have thought that just as this seemingly flawless married life had just begun, a shocking truth gradually emerged - Liu Ye became more and more anxious and jealous of Hao Lei's vigorous development of her career.
As an ordinary civil servant, he can't seem to truly understand Hao Lei's love and determination for her career. In his traditional view, the husband should be the breadwinner of the family, and the wife should take care of her husband and take care of the household with all her heart.
However, how could Hao Lei, a professional woman with an independent personality and a strong sense of dedication, easily give up her life trajectory and let her husband dominate? After marriage, she not only continued to challenge herself and pursue excellence in the entertainment industry, but also boldly explored and innovated in the new field of directing, which eventually led to the intensifying contradictions and differences between the two.
The jealousy and resentment in Liu Ye's heart seemed to have reached an irresolvable level.
Faced with the complete breakdown of her feelings, Hao Lei did not fall into despair as everyone expected. On the contrary, she adjusted her mentality at an astonishing speed and bravely walked out of the haze of divorce.
She deeply understands that love is not the whole of life, but only a part of life. After the divorce, she decisively chose to devote more time and energy to the cause she loved, and her social media accounts became unusually quiet and uneventful, and she was overwhelmed by heavy workloads all day.
Despite her busy schedule, she always gives back to the audience with a new attitude, and always captures the audience's warm applause on the screen.
In Hao Lei's long and rich emotional journey, her first husband was Li Guangjie, a young actor who was in the spotlight at the time. The union of this "strange couple" in the entertainment industry caused quite a stir many years ago and became a hot topic after dinner.
At that time, Li Guangjie had not yet emerged, and Hao Lei was already a well-known new generation of actresses. The two bravely entered the palace of marriage in 2006, but they attracted questioning eyes from the outside world.
Some people think it's a pure "money deal", and Hao Lei marries a small character with an uncertain future out of compassion; Others sneered, saying that Li Guangjie clinged to celebrities just to earn more wealth.
In the face of everyone's doubts, Hao Lei was not afraid, she only felt the sweetness of love. She showed an extremely firm determination and crossed layers of obstacles to enter the palace of marriage hand in hand with Li Guangjie.
In fact, this unique "amateur couple" faced tremendous pressure from all sides from the very beginning, and their marriage did not have a romantic proposal, a gorgeous diamond ring, or even a grand wedding, only a handwritten marriage certificate with a typo on it.
Surprisingly, however, the honeymoon period of this "strange couple" did not last long. Just two years later, they each took different paths.
Li Guangjie once said frankly that he is a very traditional man, and deep down he longs to have a virtuous and gentle housewife, however, Hao Lei, as a professional woman, has an independent personality and strong dedication, which is far from Li Guangjie's expectations.
Once, Li Guangjie could not afford an expensive meal due to financial hardship, so he returned all the dishes in public, leaving only two bowls of unpretentious noodles to satisfy his stomach.
Hao Lei tried to understand and forgive Li Guangjie's seemingly "stingy" behavior, and tried her best to defend and defend him, which showed her deep understanding and tolerance for Li Guangjie.
It is precisely because of this understanding and support that Hao Lei after marriage is more focused on the development of her acting career, but at the same time, it also makes Li Guangjie feel a trace of disappointment and loneliness As a very traditional man, he deeply longs to have a wife who can take care of him and take care of the housework like a virtuous helper, and Hao Lei is precisely the kind of woman who sees her career as bigger than the sky.
In the end, this contradiction was intensified, which directly led to the breakdown of their marriage. People lamented that the fate of this "strange couple" came to an end, but who could have foreseen that this was just a starting point on Hao Lei's long emotional road? .
Everyone's upbringing quietly shapes their outlook on life and values, and what Hao Lei experienced in her childhood seems to have foreshadowed the twists and turns and tribulations of her future life.
Originally, Hao Lei's family environment was not bad, her father was an honorably retired soldier, and her mother also had a stable job. However, what is shocking is that in such a seemingly happy family, Hao Lei experienced the lack of father's love and mother's love when she was growing up.
It all started with my father's sudden car accident. In order to do his best to treat his wife's sequelae, Hao Lei's father had to leave her only three years old to be raised by her kind grandmother.
Young Hao Lei didn't know about this, she only knew that her dear parents suddenly disappeared, and after a long time, she even mistakenly thought that she had become a lonely child.
This special childhood shadow makes the family bond between Hao Lei and her parents more and more fragile.
Even when her mother returned home, the relationship between Hao Lei and her father did not improve significantly. There was a time when Hao Lei, who had just experienced the pain of divorce, tried to seek a warm hug from her father and solace in her soul, but was severely reprimanded and reprimanded by her father.
This was like a sharp needle, deeply piercing Hao Lei's already scarred heart.
Time flies, with the cruel reality of Hao Lei's father who is seriously ill and hovering on the verge of life and death, this former strong and ruthless man finally deeply understands the pain and torture that his daughter endured back then, and he expressed his sincere and sincere apologies to his daughter for the first time.
Since then, the originally stagnant emotions between father and daughter have been slowly dissolved, ushering in the long-lost warmth of family affection like winter going to spring.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this unforgettable experience that Hao Lei pays more attention to her son's education. The twin sons she conceived with her ex-husband Liu Ye are now completely responsible for raising them by herself.
Hao Lei devoted all her care and went all out to create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere for the children. Despite her busy schedule, she never forgets to find time to play with her children, trying her best to make up for the lack of fatherly love in their hearts.
Initially, the twin brothers complained that their mother was too involved in her work and neglected their spiritual needs. However, as time passed, the children gradually understood their mother's hard work, and the relationship between the three became deeper and closer.
With her own personal experience, Hao Lei showed her sons the precious value of "maternal love", and practiced a mother's selfless care and love for her children with practical actions.