Does life need to adapt to the ordinary, or does it need to create surprises? This is a topic that can be discussed. Some people say that when marriage changes from strong at the beginning to dull later, people will always consciously or unconsciously accept such a process, and after that, plain is true; Some people also say that life needs surprises from time to time to stimulate it, even if it is a man-made surprise, it can also bring some waves to men and women in marriage, and these waves are a good medicine against the bland, we can accept the blandness, but more often, we need to create romance as a spice.
The film "Love Course" recommended to you today is about the surprises in the ordinary, as well as the climaxes in the original waves. David and Marianne have been married for more than ten years, and during this time, the two of them have gradually changed from being like glue to not caring about anyone. Because each other's lives have begun to gradually become dull, the two of them are looking for external comfort in their own worlds. David had an affair with his own female patient, and Marianne threw herself into the arms of someone else. However, the two did not end their marriage because of this, but they each did what they liked, and the marriage once existed in name only.
One day, on the train to Copenhagen, the two met, and in this chance encounter, David and Marianne recalled their previous bits and pieces, including how they fell in love, how they were glued after marriage, and their current chaotic private lives. On the train to Copenhagen, the two souls who would not have gathered together briefly became interesting, and in some memories, the two began to look at their partners again. However, when the train arrives at the station, the next scene almost puts an end to this trip of memory.
In the early films, Bergman always looked at marriage and love in a very happy mood, and the occasional ridicule would make the audience feel that it was a kind of relaxed freehand. For Bergman in this period, marriage and love are pleasant, so in the character setting of this film, there are fewer bitter and hateful people, and there are many more interesting souls.
Even after more than ten years of marriage, David is still dashing, even if he has gradually died, but he can still attract a lot of the opposite sex with his good appearance and cultivation, at the same time, David's wife Marianne is also like this, the charm is still an advantage for a woman who has been married for more than ten years, and these two characters themselves have a mysterious attraction, even if it is a random audience, as long as they watch it patiently, they will always be attracted by the characters in the film.
And after following these characters, we can explore the preservation of marriage and love mentioned above. Preservation is a word we often use, behind this word is many people's distrust of marriage or love, why don't they trust, because everyone likes to set an ending at the beginning, that is, the end, that is, both lose, that is, the relationship breakdown. Note that this only makes sense to keep fresh in the initial solution.
Pessimism makes many people always have a potential distrust when facing marriage or love, and we can feel it well through the role of Marianne, and the distrust of her very attractive husband slowly pushes him into the arms of others. In fact, the reason for this ending is very simple, if there is a potential trust in one's other half, and this potential distrust is stripped away, then for Marianne it seems that the marriage can be carried out in a different way.
However, in daily life, many people are reluctant to do this, for a variety of reasons, but for marriage, trust in love is always precious. We can't understand why some people would set up a feast of distrust in the first place to be confirmed over a long period of time, and it is not clear what kind of psychology it is, but the outcome will always be full of all kinds of certainty and uncertainty. In the case of David and Marianne, problems that could have been solved through frank communication have always been laissez-faire, and the result is that the two have parted ways in a marriage that exists in name only. In fact, we see that in the end, there is no problem with the marriage and relationship of two people, and they are just talking frankly, is this difficult to do?
On the surface, it seems very simple, but in fact it is very difficult to operate, many men and women in love, the biggest problem faced by partners in marriage is communication, how to promote a frank communication, how to let communication uncover the knots for two people who have cruxes in their hearts, this is the core of love or marriage long-term freshness, but how many people are willing to communicate like this in real life?
People are afraid of cheating in marriage, splitting legs in love, but we are never willing to conduct in-depth discussions on fundamental issues, if the communication is smooth, then we can solve many problems through communication, these problems should not be a problem, but when the communication is interrupted, the original problems will accumulate into a big problem, at this time, the end is to fall apart.
In a cheerful way, Bergman gives the answers in this film, which need to be implemented to be known, but how many people are willing to use the answers to complete this compulsory course? So I still have to say "true love is precious".
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