Regarding human nature, the ancestors have a saying: "Respect Luo Yi first, then respect people." ”
We have to admit that society is full of underlying rules. Everyone is just talking about integrity, and deep down they have already made calculations.
It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, so there is a villain in Yiguan Town. In interpersonal interactions, people always pay more attention to first impressions. If you dress in tatters, it will be difficult to be respected, and if you dress appropriately and high-end, others will tend to behave more respectfully.
It is somewhat superstitious to say that clothing affects fortune, but reality has repeatedly proved more than once that a person's clothing really affects the attitude of others.
In social situations, the first thing people pay attention to is their appearance, including how they dress and look.
Few people have the patience to understand the other person's inner life through the unbearable appearance. Smart people understand that the aroma of wine is also afraid of deep alleys. It's really necessary to pay attention to your personal appearance and dress.
There are 4 kinds of clothes that are easy to be unlucky when you wear them, I hope you know them early, don't take them seriously.
Clothes that are out of touch with the popular aesthetic
Although the freedom to dress is made, the words of this world are terrifying, don't be too convinced that "the body is not afraid of the shadow", the reality is "spread rumors with one mouth, refute rumors and break your legs".
Unfounded rumors and misunderstandings are always exhausting and can even change a person's fate.
Although everyone says that justice may be late, it will come, but some people simply cannot wait for justice to come.
To be a human being, we must understand that people's cognition is limited, and everyone can only understand the world through limited information, and when everyone is spreading negative news about a person, even if the news is not true, the person concerned will inevitably be affected, which is the terrible thing about misunderstanding.
Smart people are cautious and try to avoid making a bad impression on others.
Not wearing clothes that are out of touch with the popular aesthetic does not mean giving up individuality and style, but considering social aesthetics and real life.
We can't control what others say and think, but we can control our own actions and attitudes. If you don't depart from the public aesthetics, you won't be excluded.
Clothes that have not been washed for a long time
Some people like to be clean, some people like to be dirty, this is not a thing, but it will have a huge impact on the development of an individual's life.
We may not be able to choose where we are born, but we are in control of our image. People can be poor, but they can't be dirty, material scarcity, easy to understand, laziness in life, really can't complain about the outside world.
Although clothing is an external thing, it can reflect a person's inner world, and wearing clean and tidy clothes conveys a message of self-discipline and self-esteem.
And those who wear dirty clothes for a long time will only bring others a sense of sloppiness.
To be a human being, we must understand that keeping ourselves clean and tidy is a requirement for our own life and respect for others.
Many seemingly ordinary things can change a person's life unconsciously. No matter how poor you are, you must keep your clothes clean, poverty is temporary, and dignity represents a lifetime.
Ill-fitting clothing
Until now, many people still think that it doesn't matter what they wear.
This is a ridiculous idea, because the purpose of clothes is not only to keep warm, but more often to show personal taste.
Wear different clothes for different social situations. Whether it's the color or the style, choosing the wrong clothes will offend people.
The size of the garment not only affects the comfort of the individual, but also gives a different impression to others. Wearing large clothes will make the whole person feel listless, while too small clothes will not only make you feel constrained, but also allow others to see your own flaws at a glance.
When choosing clothes in public, we must pay attention to the size of the clothes, only the right clothes can make us feel comfortable and show a good image.
Clothes that don't fit give people the feeling of improvisation.
In fact, everyone is very realistic, everyone is observing words and feelings, if your attitude towards yourself is improvised, then others will not pay too much attention to your feelings.
Clothes that do not match your identity
As the saying goes, "A man depends on his clothes, and a horse depends on his saddle." "Clothing decoration is important to the individual, but excessive decoration can also give a bad impression to others.
We can even say that clothing is a person's second business card, it symbolizes social status.
But nothing is as much as possible, and if the social status is too high, it is easy to give people a sense of deception.
Dress appropriately for personal status and occasion. For example, if a newcomer to the workplace dresses too extravagantly, it will give the impression of being unreliable and frivolous. will even offend the boss because of this.
To be a person, you must understand that the real taste is not in the price of clothes, but in whether you can wear your own style. Anything that is right for you is the best.
It is better not to wear clothes that do not match your status. Because it not only fails to reflect personal value, but also may invite disaster.