In the world of love, there are some things that can be said and some things that should not be asked.
There is a saying, whether in a relationship or between lovers, never ask a man: "Do you really love me?" ”
This phrase may be a silent plea, or a desire for confirmation, but in many cases, it may only bring annoyance and hurt.
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If you don't have sure of love, it's better not to start
Many times, people enter into a relationship because of loneliness, vanity, or other purposes, but do not really grasp and recognize the other person's heart.
In this case, once you ask "Do you really love me?" The answer to such a question is often disappointing.
Because true love takes time to cultivate and validate, not to arise in a vacuum.
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The best relationship is one that trusts each other
If we always doubt the other person's sincerity in love, and keep asking "Do you love me?" Then such a relationship is difficult to last.
Trust is the cornerstone of love, and distrust is a weapon that destroys feelings.
We need to learn to trust each other, trust each other's choices, and trust each other's commitments.
Only in this way can our relationship be strong.
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Love is not about words, but about actions
Love does not exist by verbal promises.
It is an action, a responsibility, a manifestation of trust.
If a person truly loves you, he will prove it with deeds, not verbal assurances.
Therefore, whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, love needs to be maintained with practical actions.
If a man really loves you, he will show that love with his actions.
He will care about you, take care of you, and respect you, not just a few sweet words in words.
Therefore, when we keep asking "Do you really love me?" , we should perhaps stop and think about whether we really need to ask such questions, and whether we should pay more attention to each other's actions.
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In short, both husband and wife and lovers should understand that in love, true love does not need to be asked, it can be felt.
We need to believe in each other, give each other enough space and trust, and at the same time prove our love with our actions.
Only in this way can we have truly happy love.