Long-distance relationships, how much love, are lost to time and distance
Written by Kiki
Preface
On the big stage of love, there is a performance called "long-distance relationship". The curtain opens, and the protagonists are scattered across the different latitudes and longitudes of the earth, looking at each other but not touching each other's hands.
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The love of all people is like a meteor across the sky, beauty is only in that moment, and then life is after. In love, the more people give, the more they will have to bear in the future.
For example, Xiaohong.
Xiaohong met her ex-boyfriend in college. The two are in the same club, because they often participate in club activities together, so they have been in love for a long time and have come together as a matter of course.
Love, at the beginning, will always be so beautiful, but the shelf life is a little short.
I don't know why, the two of them walked and walked and then dispersed.
When she was about to graduate from college, Xiaohong's ex-boyfriend decided to study abroad. From now on, they will be in a long-distance relationship from north to south, from day to side.
At that time, they were convinced that the relationship between two people would not fade due to time and distance. He told her to wait for him for three years, and when he came back from his studies, they would get married.
After graduating, Xiaohong was admitted to the local civil service and began to devote herself to her work.
Xiaohong is very capable and hardworking, and the leader is very optimistic about her. In the past three years, there has been no shortage of excellent boys around her to pursue, but she has resolutely refused. She had been waiting for that person, who had come back across the ocean to marry her. This is the promise he made when he graduated, and she also promised to wait for him to come back.
The promise is beautiful, however, the reality shatters that beauty.
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Xiaohong rejected all the suitors around her and waited for him wholeheartedly for three years.
In the past three years, Xiaohong had a serious illness. When it was most painful, that person was not around. She didn't even dare to tell that person, for fear that he would worry, so she carried it alone.
Three years later, he finally returned.
At this time, Xiaohong has saved a sum of money for the down payment on the house, and she is happily planning their future.
However, he is getting married, and the bride is not her.
That day, Xiaohong cried fiercely, scolded fiercely, and beat his chest fiercely, but these were useless. If you don't love it, you don't love it, no matter how many tears she sheds, no matter how many whys she asks, he just doesn't love Xiaohong.
Three years of waiting, more than a thousand days and nights. All the good things I had hoped for have now come to naught. They can't go back.
In love, what is commitment?
The promise in love is the seemingly affectionate words that are said when the two are in love. It's moving, it's beautiful, but there's not much to really do.
Xiaohong is a very affectionate person, but unfortunately, the person she loves deeply has changed her mind.
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Affectionate people are often hurt the most.
Xiaohong has been sad for a long time because of this relationship, even if she saw him marry someone else, it was difficult to take back the heart she had paid, and she finally trapped herself in the cage of love.
During those three years, she got used to being alone, used to waiting, used to planning their future. Now, without them, only she is left, and life seems to have lost its color.
It took Xiaohong a long time to come to terms with reality, and with the help of her family and friends, she tried to start a new relationship. Now, she's getting married too.
The day before the wedding, Xiaohong was in a complicated mood, she wanted to run to her ex-boyfriend's house and ask him: In the past three years, has he really loved her?
But she couldn't go, and she didn't dare to go. Her heart was already in a state of scarcity, and if the answer was too cruel, she would not be able to bear it.
Without going to him, without asking him, she could still comfort herself that they were just too far away, and then the relationship faded. That way, at least she'll feel a little better.
For some people, love is love when it's right, and youth when love is wrong.
Have you ever been in love, have you ever been hurt in love, what kind of story is that?
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