The white-haired Li Laohan is 65 years old this year, and since he met Aunt Zhang, who is two years older than him, last year, his originally ordinary retirement life has become a little more cheerful. At the beginning, the two old couples got along very sweetly. Aunt Zhang is diligent and capable, and takes good care of Li Laohan; Li Laohan was also considerate and thoughtful to this older woman. They would walk hand in hand every day, talking and laughing, as if they had regained the romantic time of their young lovers.
But the good times didn't last long, and soon Li Laohan discovered a habit that Aunt Zhang made difficult for him to accept - she insisted on sleeping alone at night and refused to share the bed with Li Laohan. At first, Li Laohan didn't care, but over time he began to care. As lovers, it is normal to share a bed, both of them are over the age of six, what else is there to pay attention to? He tried to reason with Aunt Zhang, hoping that she could get rid of this quirk, but every time she was easily dismissed with some innocuous excuses.
After a long time, Li Laohan's suspicion and dissatisfaction gradually turned into anger. In his opinion, Aunt Zhang is the one who doesn't pay attention to their feelings. This made his love for Aunt Zhang gradually diminished, and the relationship between the two came to an impasse.
One night, Li Laohan's anger finally couldn't be suppressed, and he asked Aunt Zhang loudly: We are already a wife, why do you want to run away from me? Is there something you're hiding from me? If you have a ghost in your heart, then let's break up!
In the face of Li Laohan's roar, Aunt Zhang did not flinch, and her tone was categorical: Don't be so angry! We're old hairy, what do we do when we talk so much? It's just that you're used to sleeping alone, why do you have such a big temper!
Sling the bull! You just don't value me at all, you don't value our feelings! Li Laohan roared, then grabbed the door and went back to his room to sleep alone.
When Li Laohan got up the next morning, he found that Aunt Zhang was still busy in the kitchen, as if last night's quarrel had never happened. However, since then, the old warmth between the two has never returned. Although they still live under the same roof, they are intimate, almost like two strangers.
In this way, after a few months of cold war, Qingqing and Aunt Zhang finally realized that there was no point in continuing this stalemate, so they decided to sit down and communicate and find a way to untie the knot between the two.
"Auntie, the reason why we have come to this point is because we are both too stubborn. I should have tried to understand your thoughts earlier. Li Laohan was the first to speak, looking sincere and humble.
You're right. In fact, the main reason I've been avoiding sleeping in the same bed with you is because I'm old and used to sleeping alone. But you should also consider that people of my age can't get used to too much. Aunt Zhang said, her eyes were slightly moist.
In this way, the two of them began to open their hearts and poured out the words in their hearts. They finally realized that they were just too complacent on both sides and failed to think about each other's situation from each other's perspective in time. If they could empathize and tolerate each other at the beginning, they would definitely be able to avoid all kinds of bad words that hurt people and pity them in those days later.
"Then let's start all over again today, shall we?" Li Laohan said, holding Aunt Zhang's hands tightly, with a firm and gentle expression.
Since then, the conflict between Li Laohan and Aunt Zhang has disappeared. Aunt Zhang still maintains her habits, but Li Laohan is no longer entangled in this. They are back to enjoying their old age, holding hands in the sun or chatting softly at home. Occasionally, Li Laohan would joke: "Auntie, we have to hurry up, or we will soon 'share the same bed'!" In response, Aunt Zhang would take her slender hand and hammer it Li Laohan's forehead.
The years have flown by, and in the blink of an eye, Li Laohan and Aunt Zhang have spent five years together. Looking back, the two people have experienced a variety of life situations from the initial love for each other, to the later quarrels and cold wars, and then to the final mutual tolerance and understanding. However, it is precisely because of these ups and downs that they can truly appreciate the preciousness of their feelings and the warmth of friendship as they get older.
Now whenever Li Laohan looks at Aunt Zhang who is sleeping soundly next to him, a warm current will spring up in his heart: although my wife is stubborn, it is this stubbornness that gives her a unique personality and temperament, and she has become the favorite person in my life. In response, Aunt Zhang couldn't help whispering softly in her dreams: "We are not old and unswerving, and we will be together forever."
Life is short, but it has an end. It is better to encounter problems with a broad mind and treat your sweetheart with selfless love. When we come to the end of our lives, what rings in our ears is not just the interlude wedding music in the movie, but a real and simple waltz of life.
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