I remember someone saying: "It is not the little things in life that crush a marriage, but the emotions and ignorance behind the little things".
The middle-aged couple walked hand in hand, living a plain and ordinary life, and tasting a harmonious life.
What middle-aged couples need is emotional understanding and tolerance, not ignorance and indifference.
First, if middle-aged couples want to have a long-term marriage, love alone is never enough, love is only part of it.
Some people have sweet words on their lips, and they love you to the point that the earth is barren and the sea is dry, and this is just a perfunctory excuse.
In fact, the heart has long been stressed. Responsibility, the trivial things in life are shattered, and the vows on the mouth are forgotten, making life like a chicken feather.
Relying only on a commitment of love is far from supporting the longevity of the marriage, and more tolerance and understanding are needed at this moment, and understanding and tolerance are the cleansers in life.
It can eliminate all the impurities that affect the marriage, and only in this way will the marriage go on for a long time.
Second, if the marriage of middle-aged couples wants to be long-lasting, they need resonance and respect for each other, and a marriage without resonance and respect will only go further and further.
My friend Xiao Wang told me that he was divorced, and the matter was very simple, just because of the quarrel over housework, how ridiculous it was!
Such trivial things lead to divorce. Is it worth it?
According to Xiao Wang, his wife loves cleanliness more, insists on mopping the floor, brushing the toilet or something every day, and hopes that Xiao Wang will help with housework.
Xiao Wang suggested that his wife was busy at work, and it was very hard, so she couldn't spare time to help her wife do housework, don't be so clean every day, and it would be okay every other day.
Xiao Wang's wife continued to insist on her own practices and opinions, but Xiao Wang did not have time to help his wife with housework because he was busy with work.
In the eyes of Xiao Wang's wife, Xiao Wang is avoiding housework and machismo, and after a long time, there are conflicts, and they quarrel from time to time.
Like Xiao Wang, the couple left resonance and understanding, if Xiao Wang supported his wife's approach.
Or maybe Xiao Wang's wife uses empathy to understand Xiao Wang's hard work, and it won't get to the point of divorce!
Husbands and wives should face emotions and problems together, respect each other, understand each other, and not attack each other in any way.
Only in this way can the marriage last for a long time.
Thank you for reading.