Are you unmarried? Or, has your son or daughter declared to us as parents that he is not married and barren?
Recently, a netizen posted a video of herself going to the hospital alone on a certain platform, she said-
"I've always been unmarried, I feel like I'm alone, today I feel uncomfortable to come to the hospital alone to get a number and queue, but there are a lot of people, it's a kind of sluggishness that I don't know how long I have to wait alone, at the moment of turning around, I saw a pair of grandparents, will it be perhaps, I was also at this moment by the so-called companionship brought by the sense of happiness, touched it."
This netizen said that although he was unmarried, he suddenly felt a wave of sadness and envy when he saw the old people supporting each other in the hospital. She must have had an association at this moment, what if she doesn't get married, what if she gets sick in the future? What if there is no one to take care of it? Is unmarriage wrong?
In fact, on the Internet, it is easy for us to see all kinds of videos with the title of "51-year-old is not in love and not married", and the video content is an aunt shopping and cooking alone.
In this regard, the reactions of commenting netizens were mixed.
Some people say that those who choose not to get married will envy marriage, and those who choose to marry will envy not getting married, just live in the moment. Besides, even if you get married, you still go to the doctor alone.
Some people say that there has never been such a doctrine, that doctrine, the so-called non-marriageism, but that they have not met the right person and lack the perception of happiness.
There are also old people in their eighties, who say don't be a dink, and when you regret it when you are old, after losing your wife, it will be more troublesome to be alone, no one will take care of you, no one will bring you water and medicine, which is quite troublesome.
There's nothing in Dink that you don't regret.
In short, because of all kinds of pressures, young people nowadays buy cars and houses, high bride prices, and salaries of 3,000 yuan to repay mortgages and car loans, and they can't even afford to raise children, so they are unwilling to have children. In fact, the older generation is not much richer than us now, haven't they raised their children?
The author believes that if Dink doesn't have children now, if he is not strong-willed, he just follows the trend, and it is inevitable to regret it when he gets old. What do you think about not getting married and not having children? If your child says that he doesn't get married and doesn't want children, can you accept it?
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