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For Wu Yongwei, after experiencing all the joys and sorrows of life, she desperately longs to live a peaceful life.
In 1990, 21-year-old Wu Yongwei married Jiang Pei, a wealthy man who was 31 years older than herself.
But this marriage, which originally made Wu Yongwei feel very happy, only lasted 13 days and then disappeared.
13 days after getting married, Weng Jiangpei died of a heart attack, and Wu Yongwei's life trajectory also completely changed.
She became a widow at the age of 21 and was accused of being a "kefu", and her life began to plummet.
Later, Wu Yongwei experienced the most painful time in her life, and now she is finally bitter.
In 1969, Ng Wing-wei was born in an extremely ordinary family in Hong Kong, China.
His father worked as an accountant in a factory, and his mother worked as a cleaner.
She is the youngest child in the family and has two older brothers, so she is loved by her family.
Although life is hard, the family is harmonious and content.
Wu Yongwei has a cheerful and straightforward personality, and is full of boyishness, but her academic performance is very good.
Until she was in junior high school, Wu Yongwei encountered a rebellious past in her girlhood.
At that time, Wu Yongwei was beautiful and had good academic performance, so many classmates in the class began to be jealous of her, excluded her, and bullied her.
Those bad students often bullied Wu Yongwei, which made her very distressed.
Once, Wu Yongwei resisted, but was surrounded and educated by fourteen or fifteen bad students.
From then on, Wu Yongwei decided that she would never be bullied again, and she began to turn herself into a bad student who was not easy to mess with.
So, Wu Yongwei cut her short hair, joined a gang, met a big brother in society, and became a "little sister".
Since then, Wu Yongwei has begun to be called "Wu Girl", ushering in a period of girl rebellion.
However, Wu Yongwei, who often skips classes and fights, was eventually expelled from school and became a problem girl.
If Wu Yongwei continues on this path, her life will definitely get worse and worse, until she is 18 years old.
That year, Wu Yongwei's father died of overwork, and the family completely lost its pillars, and life became even worse.
The death of her father made Wu Yongwei grief, and at the same time, she completely woke up and began to change her ways.
Wu Yongwei began to work in the society to make money and help her family reduce their financial burden.
Because of her young age, no education, and no skills, Wu Yongwei can only do some low-level jobs, which are hard and tiring and make little money.
So, she understood the importance of studying, went back to school, and was finally admitted to university.
After graduating, Ng joined a magazine and became a clerk.
Wu Yongwei is self-motivated and hardworking, and her personality is also very cheerful, and her colleagues like her very much.
If she works and lives according to the rules, Wu Yongwei should live an ordinary life.
But she completely changed the trajectory of her life because she met someone.
In 1988, Wu Yongwei met an important man in her life - Weng Jiangpei at a business banquet.
At that time, Weng Jiangpei was already a proper rich man, and he was 31 years older than Wu Yongwei.
Weng Jiangpei fell in love with the beautiful and cheerful Wu Yongwei at first sight, and began to pursue her.
Before meeting Wu Yongwei, Weng Jiangpei had three failed marriages.
The first wife is French, the second wife is American, and the third wife is actress Wu Xiufang.
Therefore, Weng Jiangpei's married life has always been very unsatisfactory, and he is also a "love veteran".
Under Weng Jiangpei's fanatical and romantic pursuit, Wu Yongwei, who was in love at the beginning and had not been deeply involved in the world, soon fell.
In this way, Weng Jiangpei hugged the beauty as he wished, and fell in love with Wu Yongwei.
After falling in love with Wu Yongwei, Weng Jiangpei began to test her one after another.
He wanted to test Wu Yongwei, whether she was a girl who coveted glory and wealth, and whether she was with him because of money.
When the two met for the first time, Weng Jiangpei deliberately drove a cheap Japanese car.
And Wu Yongwei, who was born in an ordinary family, doesn't know anything about cars, and can't tell the difference between expensive and inexpensive.
Therefore, Wu Yongwei saw that he was driving a cheap Japanese car, and she was also full of joy and happiness, which made Weng Jiangpei very satisfied.
Immediately afterwards, Weng Jiangpei gave Wu Yongwei a big test and directly changed her life.
Weng Jiangpei suggested that Wu Yongwei participate in the "Miss Asia" contest to try her original intention.
Later, Wu Yongwei recalled: "His theory is that if a girl is put into a big dye vat, if she has not learned badly, it is good and can continue to develop." ”
Wu Yongwei chose to agree to Weng Jiangpei's suggestion and signed up for the "Miss Asia" contest.
She said: "Because I felt that when I went to the beauty pageant, it was Weng Jiangpei who asked me to participate, and my mentality was that I felt that I loved this man very much, and he wanted me to do it, so I wanted to do it to prove my love for him." ”
So, in order to prove her love, Wu Yongwei participated in "Miss Asia" without hesitation.
What Wu Yongwei didn't expect was that she actually passed all the way with her beautiful beauty, and finally won the "Best Photogenic Miss" award.
That year, Wu Yongwei was 20 years old, became famous in a fight, and changed her fate.
After becoming popular, Wu Yongwei participated in the TV series "Driver Boss" and successfully entered the entertainment industry.
At this time, Wu Yongwei is no longer an ordinary little girl, and there are many more people around her who love her, but she has never changed her mind.
"My mentality is to finish the selection quickly, and then I can make a drag with him and become an ordinary person again."
Therefore, Weng Jiangpei saw that Wu Yongwei valued love and righteousness, so he made up his mind to marry her.
In 1990, Wu Yongwei married Weng Jiangpei, who was 31 years older than herself, as she wished, and the two held a romantic and grand wedding.
At that moment, Wu Yongwei felt that she was the happiest woman in the world because she thought she was married to love.
That year, Wu Yongwei was 21 years old, and Weng Jiangpei was 52 years old.
Because the age difference between the two is too great, and the wealth and status are also very different, many people are not optimistic about their marriage.
At that time, some people even thought that Wu Yongwei married Weng Jiangpei because she fell in love with him.
Therefore, from the moment she got married, Wu Yongwei began to be questioned, but she didn't care.
What Wu Yongwei didn't expect was that her fate soon ushered in a heavy blow.
During Ng Yongwei and Weng Jiangpei's honeymoon, Weng Jiangpei suddenly died of a heart attack.
On that day, Wu Yongwei had just been married to Weng Jiangpei for only 13 days, and she quickly went from joy to sorrow.
Weng Jiangpei's sudden death also caused Wu Yongwei to suffer huge controversy and grievances.
Wu Yongwei, who was 21 years old at the time, not only became a widow, but also became what people called "Kefu Girl" and "Money Worshipper" overnight.
What made Wu Yongwei feel even more sad and angry was that Weng Jiangpei left a hundreds of millions of inheritances at that time, but her mother-in-law refused to give her a penny.
Weng Jiangpei's mother not only did not approve of Wu Yongwei, but also resented that she was the one who "killed" her son, which made Wu Yongwei very aggrieved.
In the end, in order to protect her rights and interests, Wu Yongwei went to court with Weng Jiangpei's mother and started a lawsuit.
And this lawsuit lasted for 10 years, exhausting Wu Yongwei's mental strength, and finally only got an inheritance of 9 million.
After the death of Weng Jiangpei that year, Wu Yongwei was very sad to lose her beloved, and she was in pain because of the controversy and abuse.
In those gloomy and depressing days, Wu Yongwei washed her face with tears all day long, and had suicidal thoughts when she was most desperate.
She said: "I called the Suicide Prevention Society, stood on the windowsill, and wanted to jump down, and a lot of things were solved. But in retrospect, I was afraid that I would crush others when I jumped. ”
Therefore, in the most depressing time, Wu Yongwei drank all day to numb herself, and began to let go of herself, and kept falling in love to forget the pain.
During that frustrated time, Wu Yongwei talked about more than 30 boyfriends, and even fell in love with a married husband and worked as a "third party" for four years.
It wasn't until later that Wu Yongwei felt that she was indulgent and absurd, so she quickly sobered up.
She took the initiative to find the married man's wife and sincerely apologized to the other party and asked for forgiveness.
Seeing that Wu Yongwei was so sincere, the other party chose to forgive her, and the two became very good friends later.
Later, Wu Yongwei and Lian Haitang got married, and the married man's wife also took care of everything for her.
After getting away from the depraved life, Wu Yongwei began to reflect on herself, and focused on her acting career, and her life slowly improved.
Later, when the reporter asked Wu Yongwei about being a "third party", she admitted it unabashedly and generously, which also caused controversy and public opinion turmoil.
It wasn't until 1998 that Wu Yongwei finally met her love again.
Under the recommendation of her friend Li Zi, Wu Yongwei got acquainted with Lian Haitang, a celebrity in the advertising industry.
At that time, Lian Haitang heard that Li Zi introduced Wu Yongwei to him, and said very surprised:
"Wu Yongwei is too crazy, don't introduce me to me, she shouldn't be suitable for me."
Wu Yongwei was full of affection for Lian Haitang, she didn't want to miss love, so she began to take the initiative to chase Lian Haitang.
The so-called female chasing the male compartment yarn, the two soon came together and developed into lovers.
After the two fell in love for more than 7 months, they quickly got married in 1999, and Wu Yongwei took the initiative to get married.
"Lian Haitang and I got married soon after we started, I knew him for two months, so I invited him to get married, he was afraid, so I got engaged first. Getting married in five months, adding up to less than eight months, not getting married in a hurry, I'm definitely not a woman in a hurry, I'm confused, I always think it's you. ”
After marriage, Wu Yongwei's career also began to take off again, and she successively filmed film and television dramas such as "The Legend of Double Dragons of the Tang Dynasty" and "My Savage Grandma".
But in 2010, Lian Haitang was photographed having a private meeting with a young woman and having a candlelight dinner together.
For a while, netizens accused and questioned Lian Haitang's "cheating in marriage", and fought for Wu Yongwei.
In the face of everyone's accusations, Wu Yongwei actually stood up and explained for Lian Haitang:
"After 11 years of marriage, he was photographed for the first time, and this matter was photographed when he was having dinner with friends, it's as simple as that. Don't worry about me, I'm still living happily! ”
This matter is over, Wu Yongwei continued her married life and kept filming.
But in 2016, Lian Haitang was photographed having a tryst with a young woman, which can be said to be repeated and unchanging.
thought that Wu Yongwei would not choose to continue to endure this time, but she didn't expect that she chose to ignore and ignore again, and continued to defend Lian Haitang.
She also blamed herself for it, thinking that she was not good enough.
"I won't be angry, my husband cheated because I usually paid too little attention to him, so I didn't let him keep his heart, here she practiced Begonia to say sorry to media friends."
Wu Yongwei's approach is also puzzling and helpless, but she still joked to Lian Haitang in front of the media:
"Well deserved! Go home and play two hundred boards! ”
In Wu Yongwei's view, the more calmly she handles it, the more scared men will become, so she has repeatedly chosen to be tolerant.
She said: "The second time I got married, I wanted to be with this man for the rest of my life, and I didn't think too much about other things. If he leaves me, he may not be able to find a more suitable and better woman than me, he knows that."
Perhaps it was Wu Yongwei's generosity and tolerance that influenced Lian Haitang, and he never had any scandals since then, and he and Wu Yongwei have always been in love with each other in a low-key manner.
For Wu Yongwei, after experiencing all kinds of joys and sorrows in life, she desperately longs for a peaceful married life.
As for whether this marriage is happy or not, perhaps only she understands.
Now, Wu Yongwei, who is 55 years old, is still insisting on continuing filming, and her mood has already become much calmer.
Those unbearable past events have long since dissipated with the wind, and they are no longer worth recalling.
(Excerpted from WeChat public account No. 1 chatter)