Many people were blocked and deleted after breaking up, and they panicked all of a sudden.
The first reaction was very desperate, feeling that the other party had blocked the road, and it was clear that he didn't want to give any chance, so he felt that there was no hope of getting back together.
Is it possible to get back together after being blocked by your ex?
Seriously, there is a chance, not to mention that the composite cases I have done have been deleted, and there are many people who have been scolded by others, but those who can be reunited can come back together in the end.
And the deletion of the block itself doesn't mean anything, isn't this a very common situation after a breakup? It's just a little more troublesome than the general compound, and you need to add a step to "restore contact".
So let's talk about the reason first, and then talk about the solution.
It's easy to add back your contact information, but many people don't know why they were blocked and deleted, and it's easy to worsen their situation.
Standing on the other party's position to block you is nothing more than three reasons:
First, you're reaching out too often.
Second, he hates you and doesn't want you to appear in front of him.
Third, make up your mind to break up, but have no broken feelings for you in your heart, and control yourself not to contact you in this way.
How to solve this problem? Divide the blocking into two situations and talk about the solutions separately.
01
Blocking for no apparent reason
The two parties don't particularly resent or quarrel with each other, but why would your ex block you?
Usually the reason is the emotional breakup of the ex,
Because the ex who just broke up will be sad, even if the other party brings it up first, after all, there are sunk costs on both sides, and the other party will choose to block himself in order to avoid being sad or want to get out of sadness, so that he can calm down again.
In addition, being blocked does not mean that you will continue to be blocked in the future, and it is possible that the ex will be unblocked again after re-contacting in the future.
There are some people like this, he will unblock when he is in a good mood, and he will be blocked when he is in a bad mood, it is possible, so you don't think that once you block it, you won't have a chance.
The best solution to this kind of blocking is that you have completely disconnected and reformed yourself, you can try to contact your ex's friends and slowly do it.
In many cases of breakups, although they have broken up, they may still be involved in private or official matters, and there are many friends and colleagues in the two of you, so you can invite them out to play more.
Create a joyful atmosphere, you have to get these people to like you first, and the future reunion situation will be advantageous for you.
Prepare some, the other party really has a topic that will be interesting, or an interest point of interest.
For example, if you know that your ex is taking the lawyer exam, and then you happen to have some resources at hand that are related to the lawyer's exam, you should share them with your ex at this time, and don't have a sense of gain or loss at all.
After you offer such benefits once, twice, or three times, your ex will naturally feel as if your mindset has changed, and your ex will feel that you are a completely different person now.
In addition to becoming more attractive, you also don't put pressure on the other person at all, and naturally the chances of your ex unblocking will be greatly increased!
02
Putting too much pressure on your ex leads to being blocked
If you've done a stalk, making the other person feel a lot of pressure and the intention to get back together is too strong.
Your ex may choose to block you in order to avoid you from having more unrealistic intentions or other harassment.
In the compound, if you can't grasp the "degree" and think from the other party's point of view, you will only blindly vent your feelings, which will naturally overstimulate your ex, causing him to be more disgusted with you.
How to solve the blocking of this situation?
There is no other communication channel, so you may need to create some coincidences, but when you do, the other party may have a feeling of wanting to hide from you, which is normal and don't be too nervous.
If you find that you happen to meet your ex and the other person is a little scared, just say hello to your ex, remember that you are the first person to end the conversation, maybe a small conversation for two or three sentences, and then you can explain a little bit why you are here.
For example: because I happened to meet a customer, that's why I'm here, you keep doing it, bye-bye.
If you do this, you can give your ex a sense of security, which is not the same if you have seriously provoked your ex before.
Especially when it comes to domestic violence, cheating, cheating, etc., your ex will definitely be very repulsed and disgusted when he sees you, so it takes a lot of time to fix it.
If the other person's reaction is very bad, it is recommended that you recreate the encounter at least another month or two.
It would also be strange if you had a chance encounter with your ex every day, because you were too purposeful, so the frequency of chances should be very high.
If you meet your ex by chance, the other party's reaction is very neutral, neither enthusiastic nor repulsive, and can even chat with you for a dozen words.
I suggest that you don't be too direct when you encounter it for the first time, or don't directly ask for unblocking, because it is too purposeful and easy to fail.
You just talk to your ex, the point is to make the other party feel that you have nothing to want, and you are no longer obsessed with finding him to get back together, and it is recommended that you create a second chance encounter in about two weeks.
Remember, don't deliberately talk about blocking in your conversations, don't remind your ex to recall your negative experiences, at least return to the interaction between friends first, so as to lay a good foundation for future reunions.