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The woman asked for a bride price and a car on a blind date in January, but the man did not agree, but she did so......
Preamble:
What is the meaning of marriage?
For people who love each other, getting married means coming to fruition, entering a new phase and entering an environment where they are both responsible for each other.
But for some people who have no real feelings and only think about money, getting married means that they have to make a lot of money, and if they can't earn this money, then they won't give up.
In Heze, Shandong, there was a case of unilateral "repentance" of the woman because of "money".
The man really wanted to cry without tears, he thought that his sincerity moved the other party, but he didn't know that it was just that many people were stupid and made the other party feel bullied......
After being single for many years, the man is finally engaged! It was originally a happy thing, but he didn't admit that after the engagement, it turned out to be a piece of chicken feathers, which made him regret it for the rest of his life, how could he be sincere to the woman?
In 2023, a man is engaged to a blind date woman who has been in love for less than a year. After getting engaged, the two returned to work separately and did not live in the same city.
Before the engagement, the man emptied his family and gave the woman a bride price of 340,000 yuan. That's not a lot of money locally, but it's a lot of money for him.
The man bought a house, and while repaying the loan, he saved money to repay the borrowed bride price, and he had to maintain his own living expenses, which was indeed very stressful.
The only thing that makes him happy is that he has a beautiful and generous fiancée. Unexpectedly, since the engagement, his fiancée's temperament has changed greatly, making him a little unpredictable.
After only two months of engagement, his fiancée's attitude towards him became indifferent, and he chatted with the other party through WeChat, but it was deleted. In the chat records of the two, the woman's words were also full of disdain and abuse.
The fiancée was more enthusiastic about him for a period of time halfway, because the fiancée's younger brother got married and needed more than 400,000 yuan. When his fiancée told him, she hoped that he could give a little money to help his brother.
The man is engaged, has exhausted his family property, and cannot say yes to help. It was also from this time that the woman did not have a good face for him and often ignored his shows of love.
Feeling the change between the two, the man hurriedly went to the woman's house to discuss the marriage, but the woman took the opportunity to propose to buy a car for 200,000 yuan, otherwise she would not get married!
The man also wanted to make a final reservation, saying that the car could be bought, but it needed to be purchased in installments, and the name should be filled in his, not the woman. After marriage, the woman can use it at will, and he will pay for insurance and oil.
Even so, the woman still had a tough attitude and said very angrily that the mortgage was paid back, and if she couldn't buy the car in full, the pressure on the future would be too great, and she didn't want to get married.
paid hundreds of thousands, but regretted the marriage, which is really unacceptable for men. He told the woman that if she could not get married, she would need to return the bride price he had given.
Who would have thought that the woman not only did not return the bride price, but also directly blocked him.
Unable to bear it anymore, the man took his fiancée to court and wanted to solve the problem through legal means. His idea was simple, either his fiancée would accept the bride price and marry him. Either the bride price will be returned, and the two will go their separate ways.
Regarding the man's appeal, the fiancée's family believes that buying a car is not the reason for the two to break up, and the party at fault is not the woman, and she should not bear the consequences.
According to the law, the court ruled that the woman should return the bride price, but the expenses incurred in the middle of the process can be used as a free gift and not returned.
In other words, the tobacco, alcohol, candy and other items purchased by the man because of personal exchanges, as well as the things that have been consumed, do not need to be returned. But since the woman is not married to the man, the gold ring, the bride price, and the fixed assets should be returned.
originally thought that the matter was over, but after the woman promised to return it, she directly deleted the man's phone and went to work in other places, obviously refusing to return it.
In desperation, the man had no choice but to appeal again, hoping that the court would recover his bride price.
In the end, the woman asked the two to communicate through a lawyer, rather than privately, and there was still no deadline for the return of the bride price.
Epilogue:
In this story, is it the woman's fault, or is the man's fault more? From the current point of view, the woman is obviously suspected of "cheating on marriage", she is engaged to the man, gets the bride price, and turns her head to ignore the man's love.
The man was angry and sued her in court, but the woman still clung to the bride price. If you want to keep the bride price, and don't marry the other party, so that the other party has no wife and no money, no one wants to put it on anyone!
The man's demand for the return of the bride price is not only reasonable but also legitimate.
This incident is also a warning to everyone, marriage is not a family, if you become a husband and wife today, you can become a good brother and sister tomorrow. What is needed is to give each other sincerely in order to create a beautiful home.
If you regard marriage as a stage for interests, you will only become the laughing stock of others, and in the end, you will lose your good reputation if you repay the money, which is the real gain outweighs the loss!