Text/Mo Ran
When two people get along, whether a person is in love for the purpose of marrying you can feel it.
True love will want to get married, and there will be a long-term plan.
If the other party just wants to enjoy the time with you and is unwilling to take responsibility, such a person has never thought of marrying you.
If you love someone, you will want to be together for a long time, and you will naturally consider many issues.
Therefore, to see whether a person wants to marry you, just look at these three points, and the person who can talk to you about these things is the person who really wants to enter into marriage with you.
Talk to you about money
Falling in love can be stormy and does not involve reality, but you must talk about money when you get married.
Marriage must put love into the little things like dressing and eating. At this time, you have to face money, and a marriage with material security will be happy.
The love of adults is very realistic, since marriage involves living a life, they will talk about money.
A person who is unwilling to talk to you about money and is reluctant to spend money for you is naturally not someone who really loves you and wants to marry you.
It is very vulgar to talk about money, but a good marriage is about money, he will frankly explain his actual situation and family situation, and arrange his income reasonably and planably, which is the guarantee of a marriage.
Only by passing the test of material foundation can we better maintain each other's feelings.
People who don't want to talk about money in everything never want to give you true happiness.
Talk to you about married life
Since you are going to get married, you naturally have to consider your future life status.
This includes a lot of things, such as one's own career planning, family planning, and the issue of having children after marriage.
In real life, many couples will have trouble because of having a baby after marriage.
Some men have never had any responsibility and responsibility, and they don't know how to give and share, which will lead to family conflicts after marriage.
A person who falls in love with you for the purpose of marriage will naturally think about his future life, and will definitely have his own considerations for getting married and having a baby, and will also discuss with you to maintain a reasonable arrangement.
If it is said that giving birth to a baby and bringing a baby is a woman's business, I don't think any woman is willing to give birth.
But if a man can take the initiative to share, reduce the burden, and pass on love and warmth, he will naturally create a family with love and warmth.
Talk to you about parenting
Marriage is a very serious issue, because there are so many things to face, and it also involves two families, so naturally there are many things to think through.
As children, they are obliged to provide for their parents, which involves the issue of parenting in both families, which is also a reality that every family must face.
When parents get old, it involves emotional care, as well as practical support and care.
How to make reasonable arrangements between each other, in fact, is a test, for the purpose of marriage, it is natural to know how to love the house and Wu, care for each other's family, at this time it is very important to find what kind of partner.
Adult love will face many practical tests, and it can also test each other's sincerity and feelings.
If you are sincere to you, I think you will be kind to your family.
Someone who takes the initiative to talk to you about your parents, I think, is someone who really wants to go to the end with you.
Summary:
There are many men who are in love, and although they seem to be in a serious relationship with you, you find that you have been in a relationship with him for a long time and you can't get anything at all.
You don't know anything about his real life except for knowing him. What you know, he told you, that's all.
Only when a man opens his heart and takes the initiative to talk to you about these three topics can he really want to marry you, and cherish him if he meets him!