What is a cheating man afraid of his wife for? The three major weaknesses of men are the key to separating the juniors
The separation of a third party, to put it bluntly, is a process of eliminating the advantages of one another.
If you have the upper hand, then the cheating man will be in a situation where he is weak and has to do what you say.
On the contrary, if you are overwhelmed by your promises, then the cheating will become strong and want to pinch you in turn.
Marriage is just like that, either the east wind overpowers the west wind, or the west wind overpowers the east wind,
If you want to be the one who dominates the marriage, when a man cheats, he can successfully solve the extramarital affair.
You have to be able to grasp the cheating man, and you have to understand the weakness of the cheating man.
The three major weaknesses that most cheating men have are the key to separating the mistress.
The first weakness is that rich men are afraid of divorce and division of property.
The richer the man, the more afraid he is of the distribution of property to his original partner after divorce.
In particular, many husbands and wives have a community of interests, and all property is the joint property of husband and wife.
Wives grasp this and are able to divide half of their property once divorced.
The more marital property two people have in common, the more the cheating man will lose.
Therefore, the more cheating men are unwilling to divorce for the sake of the mistress.
Unless the value of the mistress is high enough, how much the cheating man loses, how much the mistress can make up.
Otherwise, the divorce will lose tens of millions, millions, and the money that the cheating man earns for half his life, the probability of him choosing to divorce is very low.
So for rich men, property is the weakness of cheating men.
Of course, not all rich men are afraid of divorce and division of property.
Because many men are not cheating, they are found to be divorced, and they start to calculate.
They have the intention of cheating, or after cheating, they start to calculate.
They think ahead about what to do if they are discovered.
How can I make my wife dare not do anything to them,
Or even if the wife insists on divorce, how can the loss be reduced,
Many of the original partners really got into the divorce, which may be a loss of both people and money.
It's because the cheating man calculated in advance, he didn't want to divide the property, and he wanted to cheat safely,
will be ready to be discovered, and the wife will be ready to divorce and divide the property.
The second weakness is that a man with a good reputation is afraid that his reputation will be ruined by the exposure of extramarital affairs.
Many cheating men are good men in the eyes of outsiders, and they also like to act like good men.
This kind of cheating man cares a lot about face and reputation.
So even if they cheat on the junior, they want to maintain their reputation outside.
They will also be afraid that the wife will make an extramarital affair bigger,
Others know that he is not a good man, but a hypocrite, a cheating man.
So this is also one of the weaknesses of cheating men, and wives take advantage of it,
can also separate a third party, and can also teach a lesson to cheating men.
Wives naturally can't directly expose cheating men.
After all, many original partners don't want to divorce, and it's no good for you to fall out with a cheating man.
But Xiao San can expose cheating men, and Xiao San may not be willing to see the light all the time.
A lot of extramarital affairs are actually poked out by the mistress, just to get a name,
So the wives can completely instigate the mistress and let the mistress stand up,
The matter of letting the mistress cheat on the man is well known.
The reputation of the cheating man was ruined by the mistress, and he would not only break up with the mistress.
When I have the idea of cheating again, I will consider whether I can control the mistress.
Will it pay more price, because it is afraid of paying the price, and dare not cheat, so as not to derail twice.
The third weakness is that men with special occupations are afraid that their wives will die and their careers will go wrong.
What is the situation when many original partners come to Su Yue to say?
Men are public officials, or teachers, and other professions that require a sense of morality.
If this situation is cheated, the wives will make a big fuss and have an impact on the cheating man's career.
But many wives may not be in trouble, and they know it well.
The reason why the cheating man was discovered is still the reason for continuing to cheat.
is because there is evidence in the original partner, for the sake of the child, for the sake of face, and for the marriage to continue,
I won't really tear my face with a cheating man, and I don't want to really let a cheating man lose his job.
Therefore, cheating men are a little unscrupulous, and wives feel that men's careers are not weak.
In fact, as long as the original partners have the courage to break the net, cheating men are afraid.
Now many cases have been exposed, and there are many cheating men and mistresses who have been rectified.
As long as the attention is high enough and the evidence on the side of the original wife is sufficient, the cheating man will definitely pay the price.
What a cheating man is afraid of is the weakness of a cheating man.
It's not that cheating men don't have weaknesses, it's that wives don't take advantage of it.
Even if the wives really don't want to report it, they have to have this momentum.
Yours makes the cheating man scared and tormented in his heart.
If a cheating man is psychologically uncomfortable, the extramarital affair will have a chance to be resolved.
In the end, Su Yue wanted to say that different types of cheating men, the things they care about are different.
So maybe every cheating man, their weaknesses are also different.
This requires the original wife to analyze what the cheating man is afraid of according to the actual situation.
Solving extramarital affairs is not just about what men like and what you do, making cheating men fall in love again,
It's more about what the cheating man is afraid of, you dare to do it, so that the cheating man has a sense of awe for you.
Cheating men love and fear their wives, so they dare not betray and hurt their wives easily.
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