"Old Guy" is really explosive, as soon as it started broadcasting, it threw out various exploratory topics such as "Church apprentices starve to death Master: You can't have the heart to hurt people, you can't have the heart to defend people", "MLM is everywhere: venture capital needs to be cautious", "Spiritual law controls feelings: being a person can't blindly care about the feelings of others", "Fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-phoenix man: marriage needs to be cautious" and other exploratory topics!
Among them, Xiao Changqing wanted to pool money to help his nephew buy a house, and netizens exploded: I think this kind of relative is really shameless, it's better to stay away! There is never a shortage of hot topics like this, and it is also the easiest topic for people to empathize with!
However, the situation is different, the problem is handled differently, some relatives' requests are really vexatious, and they are also very open-mouthed, feeling like they owe him, of course it makes people angry, but the situation of the Xiao family is really a bit special.
Grandma Xiao of the Xiao family is helping her daughter in this matter, that is, the mother of Xiao Changqing's nephew and Xiao Changqing's sister! Her son is getting married, and the new house has reached the point where he has to buy it, but he doesn't have enough money, I hope Xiao Changqing, the elder brother, can help!
Xiao Changqing is not a demon who helps his sister, when he heard this for a while, he immediately refused, the reason for refusal is very proper, our family is still four generations in the same house in the same house, isn't the eldest son Xiao Lin haven't bought a house yet? I'm not a person with spare money!
At this time, Grandma Xiao was crying with a handful of snot and tears! She thinks Xiao Changqing's brother is ungrateful? What's going on? The reason is that Xiao Changqing's wife died early, and when his two sons grew up, they really didn't lack the help of his sister!
Who says it's not true? It's not cheap to find a nanny with children, isn't it, let alone two? Xiao Changqing had nothing to say, so he went to discuss with his eldest son Xiao Lin and his family, and Xiao Lin's wife Ma Ling jumped up all of a sudden, the reason was very simple!
Ma Ling is not unreasonable, but she refuses to use the salary they pay every month to buy a house for her aunt's family, after all, their family has not bought a house, and this reason is also reasonable! Xiao Changqing knew it very well in his heart, and promised not to use their money.
In fact, Xiao Changqing's intention to find his eldest son Xiao Lin was not only to understand their attitude, but also to imply that after he returned to old age in a hundred years, this old house could be given to them, but Ma Ling was not too cold, and still hoped to buy a new one!
Xiao Changqing found his second son Xiao Jian, who had relatively superior living conditions and had already bought a house. Xiao Jian was too lazy to talk nonsense with Xiao Changqing, saying that he could support 200,000, and it didn't matter when it was, but he had to write an IOU! Xiao Changqing is not happy now!
That's right, Xiao Changqing's meaning is very clear, this "help" means "giving", not borrowing! Xiao Changqing also emphasized that Xiao Jian lived in his aunt's house for two years when he was a child! How embarrassed to talk about writing an IOU, if you really want to write, count yourself as borrowing it from him!
Being taken by Xiao Changqing with such a two-pronged approach, Xiao Jian really has nothing to say, he really can't let his father write an IOU to himself, right? If you don't say it, you have to be laughed to death, besides, if you really want to calculate it so clearly, how can you calculate this account in my aunt's house for two years!
So, this matter is actually very clear! Xiao Changqing really can't help it, the mouth that his sister opened to him is really not for nothing, whether there is an element hinting at him or not, for Xiao Changqing, this is the time to repay the favor!
The mainland has been very affectionate and affectionate since ancient times, Xiao Changqing must look at this problem directly, and he must also help! It's not so much about helping, it's actually about repaying the debt of favors! Who said that when he was in the most difficult time, his sister helped raise his two sons?
Now that his nephew is short of money to buy a house, Xiao Changqing can't help but take it out if he can take it out! If he doesn't help with this!
Afterwards, even if his sister kept silent and didn't mention the past, someone would always mention it, and in Xiao Changqing's heart, this matter would also become the biggest heart disease in his life!
This clip also hides a big truth: when you have no choice, you can not ask for help from others, just hold on. After all, these kindnesses to help you are really not for nothing! As the saying goes: it's easy to pay back money you owe, but it's hard to pay off your debts!
When you don't mix well, the people who help you really want to help you! If you've had a bad life all your life, the person who helped you will never ask you to do anything!
But once you turn over, or your children are out of breath. These personal debts will become mountains and weigh you down!
The nephew bought a house to make Xiao Changqing's chickens and dogs jump, but Xiao Changqing had to find a way to solve the conflict at home, but also to really help his nephew buy a house! This is the lethality of human debt, so big that it is suffocating! But I have to face it!
Therefore, many netizens became nameless after seeing the actions of Xiao Lin and Xiao Jian's aunt, and they were angrily criticized! However, in terms of things, who told them that they were raised by their aunts! In the case of getting the money, the gang has to help! Kindness is an unsolvable problem!
What are the different opinions?