My husband's grandmother is gone at the age of 90. Walking in my sleep.
My husband's aunt said, "On the night of leaving, the old lady also ate a small bowl of rice and three pieces of stewed rotten chicken!"
The only thing that was abnormal that day was: "She never drank milk at mealtime, and that night she asked her aunt to warm a glass of milk for her." She didn't have any leftovers. "
Now that I think about it, the old lady should have a premonition that her limit had arrived, so she said that she was full of food and drink, and was ready to go away.
The old people are really good at choosing the day, and when they catch up with May Day, they are leaving when these younger generations are going back to their hometowns for the festival and the people are relatively complete. It saves everyone two times.
My mother-in-law has the same attitude as my mother-in-law: from the funeral to the old lady now, I can't help choking up and crying: "I didn't have enough mother-in-law and daughter-in-law with the old lady, so I just left."
The old lady has been like a god protecting her body all her life, free from illness and disaster. Never been to the hospital. Occasionally, the body is uncomfortable, just use some home remedies, and even medicine is rarely bought.
did not give any drag to the son and daughter-in-law, but gave it.
To her husband and his sister, the two cousins of the uncle's family. She has always been fair and has done her duty as a grandmother. Helping his two sons and daughter-in-law raise their grandchildren.
The eldest lady said: "Look at the commode in her house, she got up at night to urinate a little, and then she should have slept on the kang for a short time, and then drove to the west."
After informing the relatives and friends of the neighbors, everyone said that this old lady was a blessed person, and after such a person ascended to heaven, he would be a great official in another world. It's a proper joy and mourning.
Let's not cry for our grandchildren, saying that the elderly don't like to see this.
But thinking of her goodness, remembering that she will never be seen in this world again in the future, we juniors and children really can't help it.
My first impression of my husband and grandmother is: the old lady is very kind, can get along with anyone, and has a good temper.
This is the opposite of my husband's grandfather, who was the foundation of the landlord in his early days, and he had a strong sense of class and looked down on people.
When my husband took me to visit them for the first time, his grandfather looked at me like he was looking at me: "Say I'm small and too thin." Look, it's not the kind of physique that can give birth to children."
I was only 19 years old at the time, and I bought him a lot of things, and the first time he came to the door he was so blunt, I was not happy at the time, and my face showed it.
As a result, his grandfather said: "If I'm not happy, I have to say you, you're too small!"
I was trying to find a crack in the ground to get into, but since we entered the house, I have been busy pouring water and getting fruit, and I have the impression that his grandmother is not at home at home, and she has helped me out, saying, "What's the matter?" You can save some fabric when you make clothes, and it's small and exquisite, and it's very cute!"
This relieved me a lot of embarrassment.
When she said this, her husband's grandfather also came to his senses, and felt that it might be a little too much to talk to me, so he added a sneer: "He is a match for my grandson, and he is not tall!"
This also rhymes!
My husband later told me, "That scene made his nervous palms sweat!" In just a few tens of seconds, for him, it was a rapid transition between hell and heaven!"
Because of this, I also had a lot of good feelings for his grandmother at that time.
I heard my mother-in-law say: "Grandma was a beautiful girl in the early days, she studied in private school for three years, her personality was quiet, dignified and beautiful, and many people chased her, but he was optimistic, and there was a stubborn and arrogant grandfather with a bad temper."
The two of them are moving and quiet, one speaks ugly, and the other can give the round, but they match each other, a match made in heaven.
It is precisely because of the existence of my husband and his grandmother that my mother-in-law and my husband's aunt were able to insist on staying in the marriage when they were not separated.
The two daughters-in-law who just started in the early years did not suffer the losses of their husbands and grandfathers.
In their time, the old concept of "parents are heaven" was very deep-rooted.
If you listen to your parents at home, you have to listen to your parents-in-law when you marry into your mother-in-law's family. It is something that every married woman must abide by.
Since the day my mother-in-law and my husband's eldest mother got married, they have been "tossed" by my father-in-law, who has a strict personality and is particularly picky!
It's common to scold them because of trivial things in life, and sometimes they copy the boards in the yard and beat them, if the two sons can't see it, then even the sons shoot together!
In the words of my mother-in-law: "An old man with this kind of personality, if it weren't for the protection of her grandmother in the middle, it is estimated that she and her aunt would have left long ago."
There is one thing, my mother-in-law told me several times with tears in her eyes: "My husband had a serious illness when he was six years old, and now I think about it, it should be similar to that kind of cold disease, when he vomited and diarrhea, he was dying, and everyone was poor in those days, and they didn't have the money to go to the big hospital in the county to see a doctor."
At that time, my father-in-law was working in a field and could not be contacted. The mother-in-law didn't have a penny in her hand, so she went to beg his father, wanting to borrow some money from him to see a doctor for her husband.
As a result, his grandfather said: "I burned it for you, and I went to the county to see a doctor, isn't it just an ordinary diarrhea?" I don't have the money to give you! It's a son who doesn't die, and a wealth that doesn't disperse! If you really want to die, it's useless to go to the hospital, what are you spending that money for? "
The mother-in-law was so anxious that she almost knelt down for him, but he didn't give it. Later, it was the grandmother who took out five yuan from her gown pocket and gave it to her mother-in-law secretly, which solved her mother-in-law's urgent need.
There are many things like this, for the daughters-in-law on both sides, his grandfather offended in the front, and his grandmother gave her a round in the back.
His grandmother is the Dinghai Shenshen needle in the family, and grandma is here, and this family can still get together.
And grandpa is not there, so it doesn't have much impact.
My husband's grandfather died ten years ago, when he went to the hospital to see a doctor, and it was found to be advanced liver cancer, and he left on the first night of hospitalization.
After she knew, not a single tear fell, and she was very calm. He said, "Sooner or later, you will have to leave, so it is better to go like this, and you will not be sinned."
Then it's time to eat, it's time to drink. I keep the habit of walking around the village every day, and when I see a small child smiling at myself, I will still happily go home to show off: the child smiles at myself, indicating that I can still live.
Ten years have passed, and she has also reached bliss.
The Buddha said: The greatest blessing in life is not how much money and wealth you have, but to live slowly when you are healthy, and to walk quickly when you are seriously ill, not to drag down your children, and not to consume yourself.
I would like to add: "After leaving, I was still remembered by my own children, and I mentioned it from time to time."
What a fulfilling life this is! Many people can't ask for incense and worship Buddha!
This old lady really makes me admire! It's my new idol!