#五月生活碎片#
Text/Han Xueli
The vicissitudes of the sea are not deep - people who are really capable do not look at appearances
She has a sister-in-law, going to school abroad, this is what Mike said, she has always believed that she thinks anyway, such a smart father, then must be an aunt is also very smart, if the sister-in-law is as smart as her father, round and beautiful, how good it would be.
Anyway, she doesn't mind whether she is beautiful or not, Shen Yunjing is her idol, the aunt of the Shen family said that people who value appearance are all laymen, and it is easy to ignore more important things. And the person she wants to be is a person who has the same ability as the aunt of the Shen family, so she doesn't mind whether she is beautiful or not, but the clothes must be clean and tidy, in line with different occasions, this is upbringing, and she agrees with this.
He Yuanjia went to Director Wen's side and immediately entered the role, he didn't know how to talk about business, he came back from abroad, he didn't join Liyuan Group, he didn't want people to say that he relied on his family, that is, what kind of second generation or prince, what kind of son, Liyuan Group is not his father's sole proprietorship, but the largest shareholder, what's the matter, he doesn't have Shen Lijing's self-proclaimed princess, Shen Yunjing is the general manager, he is not arrogant, and he doesn't feel anything great, but Shen Lijing because his father He Yuan is the chairman, Just look down on people all day long, let him say, a cheesy face and a childish face, what his sister said, that is naïve, I don't know the sky and the earth are thick, it's not tacky, cheesy, and there is a down-to-earth side, naïve is naïve.
He didn't know whether people looked at his ability, or his father's face, he felt that his father's face couldn't get there, and his father at that time, I wished he couldn't get back to beg him to eat, no, he later returned to Liyuan Group, it was completely a mistake, and he also felt that he had been outside for a few years, and he also knew that the workplace was not easy, where there is a relationship network, and it depends on resources. There's basically no drama going up, and when you get to the ceiling, it's better to go back, otherwise, others will question his IQ, and he doesn't completely like to fight alone, that taste, it's not very comfortable.
Now it's okay, to be a supermarket chain, it has something to do with Liyuan Group, it doesn't matter, he likes this job, he can see the results, he has a sense of achievement, he likes this feeling, the time is free, but the mentality is comfortable, he is not angry with his father, he has let Li Fei get married for a while, quit the marriage for a while, get married again for a while, toss, it's much more mature, no wonder people say that falling out of love makes people grow, it's true, he seems to have gone through some vicissitudes all of a sudden, not so competitive, and suddenly found that the sea of people is vast, and there are only a few people who care about him, others see more jokes, less genuinely caring, those who eat and drink, he is far away, except for business relationships.
In front of Director Wen, his expression was completely gentle and elegant, he knew that Director Wen was an elegant person, no matter whether it was really elegant or not, his work made him have to be elegant, Qiao Ting glanced at him, he was really handsome, now compared with the original, he is more calm, there is a sense of handsome guy, the original is a little exaggerated, the current clothes, not colorful and glamorous, are solemn windbreakers and jackets, so that she looks more pleasing to the eye, people are handsome, just stained, anyway, Qiao Ting feels that he is really like a cute, think about Mingzhu, she smiled on her lips, At this time, someone called her, Qiao Ting turned around, a little surprised, it was Xiang Huilan.
Qiao Ting stepped forward with a sincere smile on his face you are here what a coincidence you are.
Explain to Whelan that I came with our director, and our group is interested in the bidding, auction and listing of this project, and she said that she is a group, not a company, which is different, which shows that the group is intended, not that they Qinghang Real Estate are intended.
There are some things that everyone knows each other, Qiao Ting smiled, this project is actually very good, if it is really done according to the plan, it will definitely become the largest cultural tourism project in the province.
Nodding to Whelan, yes, I looked at the plan, it was quite atmospheric, I heard that you participated.
The vicissitudes of the sea are not deep - it is important that you are healthy and happy, taking care of yourself is your business, and other things are the next level
Qiao Ting immediately said, I am just a small soldier, and they are all planned by those senior people, I just work hard to find information. Even if it's a staff member.
She is peaceful, anyway, she entered the expert group, it is an eye-opener, some people are really famous, not to mention anything else, that Zhang Sutan, but let Qiao Ting admire, is really an expert in garden design, as soon as he opened his mouth, Qiao Ting found that it was another world, and it was naturally a surprise to meet Song Zhe in the expert group, however, Song Zhe is at the level of design creative performance, he is not very interested in the planning level, only in the later stage of the planning drawing, only participated in a meeting, many people said that he was as arrogant as he was back then, Such a person, no wonder he will fly solo, and return the studio with his name to the investor, his current company is Song Jiji Studio, anyway, take apart the word Zhe, everyone understands, however, his strength is there, even Zhang Sutan said that the future is terrifying, and the expressiveness is quite bold and sharp.
Qiao Ting looked at Xiang Huilan, and felt that her complexion was average, and she seemed to be a little tired, a little strange, do you work a lot of overtime, I see that you have an average complexion, you have to pay attention to rest.
Xiang Huilan sighed, the company has been working more overtime recently, plus the Zhou family's affairs, my family's affairs, she shook her head, it's really messy, I found that things in life are more troublesome than things at work, I can't handle it, her expression is a little annoying.
This, the affairs of the Zhou family and the affairs of the family, are all personal and private affairs, it is not easy to inquire, Qiao Ting persuaded her, don't worry about anything, work and life, your first priority is to take care of yourself, you are healthy and you are happy, taking care of yourself is your business, other things are the next level.
Xiang Huilan was stunned for a moment, I, my health I come first, I.
Qiao Ting nodded, yes. If you are unhappy, do you have the heart to manage others, we are all mortals, manage ourselves well, we can help others, we are not happy and uncomfortable, where do you have the mood and strength to manage others, this is called being good to yourself first, and then you can be kind to others.
Is this selfish, Qiao Ting thought about it, it is not called selfishness, selfishness is for one's own interests, harming the interests of others, and the purpose is to hurt others for oneself, subjectively there is this idea. This is called self, that is, to be responsible for oneself first, to manage oneself, and then to consider whether you can manage others, if you have the ability, you can manage it, and if you don't have the ability, forget it, people don't say that people should pay attention to their own moral cultivation and improve their personal quality when they are poor and destitute; When we achieve our aspirations, we must strive to benefit everyone in the world.
I heard this to Huilan, she knew that this was "Mencius's Dedication to the Chapters and Sentences", her cultural accomplishment was not low, a regular undergraduate, and later she had been reading books, as if she had been married, in addition to coping with daily work, she had returned home, she seemed to be very busy, she had no time to read, and she didn't listen to music, she liked to listen to music, especially piano music, which was her most luxurious and expensive hobby.
She asked Qiao Ting, after you get married now, can you still read at home, Qiao Ting nodded, yes, I promise to read for an hour, I wrote a banner in the study anyway, read for an hour, otherwise, I would rather not sleep and eat.
Smile at Whelan, you're interesting.
Qiao Ting nodded, yes, some things are like this, if you don't put it on the key process, it will definitely be ignored. Don't you like to listen to music, this is easy to do, you just do housework, you can also put it on, listen to music while doing housework, it's also good, then you don't feel tired.
In fact, Xiang Huilan did this housework, Qiao Ting was a little strange, what housework did she do, Zhou Zhiyuan's parents were at home, they didn't work in Zhouzhuang, and there wasn't much land, the old lady did a good job of cross-stitching, but in the end, she couldn't embroider a few stitches a day, but this is not easy to ask.
Qiao Ting felt that it was more appropriate for her to talk to Sun Ning about this kind of topic, Sun Ning was her best friend and bridesmaid, herself, this identity, it was not suitable to talk about other people's life and private affairs.
Jiang Hanxing knocked her, you are still a customer relationship, this relationship is not afraid of being bad, I am afraid that it is too good, too good will not be successful, when the time comes, those who should open their mouths should not be spoken, open their mouths, refuse to offend people, and it is not easy to do if they do not refuse you.
The sea is not deep - to do good deeds, you can't be angry, and being angry becomes stingy
Jiang Hanxing has a heart, this is called the sense of distance in business relationships, this is very important, this is proportion, it is a sentence, just talk about work, unless there are major life events, people have notified, you participate, in fact, for marrying Huilan, Qiao Ting gave wedding photos as a gift, Jiang Hanxing disagreed, it felt too heavy, that package was too heavy, and he changed a package to Huilan, and the difference was returned to himself, he laughed at Qiao Ting for a long time.
Qiao Ting doesn't care, things are given to others, how people deal with them, my mind is on the line, if you don't care about how to use it, it's not a gift, that's control.
However, after that incident, plus the matter of marrying Huilan and admitting his godmother, Qiao Ting helped find Li Qing's mother, swayed left and right to Huilan, and her in-laws were satisfied, and Zhou Zhiyuan was satisfied, and she didn't recognize it for a while, and finally recognized it as her cousin, Li Qing was obviously unhappy, what did I become, my mother supported her, she changed and changed, it was too big, Qiao Ting had to explain, this is definitely not a big one, she doesn't have that consciousness at all, she is, she always wants the people around her to be satisfied, this thing is a matter that everyone wants to be satisfied, Mr. Li will take care of it, isn't it, don't think too complicated, we are doing good deeds, if we get angry, it won't be stingy.
Li Qing teased, you are also bad enough, I do good deeds, I can't be angry yet, being angry becomes stingy, you have to be pressed by this hat, you are getting worse and worse, let Jiang Hanxing take it, it is really Zhu Zhechi.
Is there it, Qiao Ting was puzzled, am I so powerful, is it a bit of Brother Jiang's shadow, I will praise me for you. Thank you very much.
However, she helped to make things happen. However, there are also some feelings that it is difficult to grasp the proportion, in the end, this business is proportionate, or to consider, a few more such things, I am afraid she will also feel too tired, so now, she listened to Jiang Hanxing's words, she must be measured, not curious, but ask, if she talks, change the topic, Qiao Ting look at the cyclamen mountain in the distance, have you been there, the scenery is good, the location of the north area is the best, mostly flat land, and the peaks and mountains in the south area are beautiful.
Xiang Huilan shook his head, one day off a week, there are too many things, it seems that I just went to the park once, Zhiyuan doesn't take weekends, I can't run out all day, my mother-in-law will have opinions.
Qiao Ting nodded, yes, living with the elders, that's it, but you have a good temper and can handle it, if you want to go out to play, you can let Zhou Zhiyuan communicate with his mother, he is young, he must be able to understand your thoughts, some things, mother-son communication, better than mother-in-law and daughter-in-law explaining.
That's right, nodding to Huilan, Sun Ning also said the same, I'm just afraid that he will be annoyed.
Qiao Ting smiled, he had to insist on the cost of Zhouzhuang, originally you lived in the city, didn't you worry, since he was willing to be a filial son, he had to bear the idea of his wife, otherwise, he was too cheap, what not to pay, it was all you who paid, the key is, you speak in front of your mother-in-law, where is his weight, get along with the elders, you can't be heavy, be careful everywhere, if the other party has a cheerful personality, if there is anything not to say, it is on the face, then it is troublesome, you, you have to trouble him, he is troublesome, You just go out and stay there.
It seems to make sense, she is thoughtful, Qiao Ting feels, she will say this, the other party will listen to it, and now she has discovered the characteristics of Xiang Huilan, she sometimes complains to Sun Ning or herself, but it seems to be just a complaint, and then it is still her style of doing things, for example, Sun Ning said several times, don't talk to her aunt, just use the bride price to turn her face, but she, as soon as she answers her mother's call, she immediately cares about her aunt's affairs, there is no principle and position, and people will eat her.
As a result, she ignored her aunt, or did things for others, if she blackened her face once, she would hang up her mother's phone, it is estimated that in the future, the people of the Xiang family, looking for her will be more cautious, not now, not for her at all, but also for her to take care of things, in a word, they are all relatives, how can they open their mouths to refuse, that is too offensive, what to do in the future, anyway, as soon as her mother says good things, as soon as it is difficult, she will immediately compromise.
Originally, there were too many things, and she was not able to solve them directly, she had to ask people to beg for favors, and if they didn't settle down later, they still made people complain.
She did this kind of thing again and again, and it turned out that her friend became a friend who solved her mother's affairs for her, and what kind of circuit did this become.
The vicissitudes of the sea are not deep - which is the biggest backer
So Qiao Ting reminded herself that she must not touch her family's affairs, because she herself can't solve it directly, last time she owed Jiang Hanxing a favor to marry Huilan, owed Li Qing a favor, it was a matter of Xiang Huilan herself, she was willing to help, a little girl from other places got married, there were many things, she needed help from friends, she was willing to do something, but if it was to take care of her mother's family's affairs, then Qiao Ting's principle, I can directly manage it, just ask for a relationship, this favor is not so owed, such as Jiang Hanxing's favor, it's okay to say, Anyway, everyone is a group, and it is a relationship between superiors and subordinates, so it's a big deal to do more things he pushed down at work, and just make more snacks for his daughter Jiang Qingyao.
But what about Li Qing, Li Qing is the boss of the family, and the family and the group have signed a strategic cooperation agreement, Li Qing's favor, can she owe it casually, even if Li Qing is an understanding person and will not give her problems, but if people want problems, she must be embarrassed to stand by.
Qiao Ting wanted to talk to her about work, so he went to the Qinghang Nanyuan project, your project, there has been no news recently, and now the procedures are all in place, have you been dragging it out.
Xiang Huilan was cautious, looked back, what can be done, the group did not greet us, and increased the floor area ratio, Mr. Tan was very angry, but he couldn't say anything to the group's project department, so he simply fought in the ring, and let the project be put now, she frowned, and the director said, this is not a way, In the end, what affects our real estate is this, the group is a trick of four or two thousand pounds, inside and outside the real estate passive, Qiao Tingxin's words, Mr. Tan is true and sincere, anyway, according to the original plot ratio has made a planning drawing, the project is divided into three phases, The floor area ratio that, the first phase is not considered and it doesn't matter, according to the original steps to operate, anyway, no one stipulates, you can not be lower than the approved floor area ratio, people do not let exceed the standard, if you are low, which cares about you.
Anyway, there will be no order from the king. What can the group do, it can be said that the first phase is not easy to adjust, and if you want to adjust it, the second phase will be the year after tomorrow, and who knows if the situation will change at that time.
In fact, for Tan Kaixuan, the biggest backer, can you count on Ma Yunpeng, chairman of the group, naturally counting on the project in his hand, that is, that piece of land, since this is the case, what is there to mind, but this is not good to talk to Xiang Huilan, I feel that in terms of confidentiality, Xiang Huilan is a little weak, she sighed, yes, the group is a group.
At this time, Li Bida came over, Qiao Ting took the initiative to step forward, on this occasion, in front of Xiang Huilan, she did not call her senior brother, but called the director, director, how about it, the scenery is good.
Li Bida nodded, yes, yes, it's so close, I haven't been here before, his eyes fell on the southern district, and he turned around there.
Qiao Ting nodded, that's good, there is really a stream, and there is a cave, the two of them are talking about the landscape of Xianke Mountain, where is natural, where needs to be developed, to maintain the original appearance, but also to facilitate the flow of tourists, how to grasp this measure.
Li Bida said that the southern district is a scenic spot, which is good, and there are many mountain accommodation projects, so the cost is easy to control.
Qiao Ting nodded, in fact, I personally feel that there are a few villas that are okay, there are really people who like to push the window to see the scenery of the mountains, and you can take a customized route. Just like the third phase of our Qingxi Courtyard, the main custom villa.
The third phase of Qingxi Phoenix Pavilion is a project that Qiao Ting wants to play freely, however, the attitude of the real estate side, customized products, can only account for one-third, and the full payment of the customer must be collected before the contract can be signed, and the actual construction can be carried out, the cost is too high, so what Qiao Ting has to do now is to find some pictures of the villa, let the family customize, and also have a choice, the customer is not a designer, and may not know at all what their needs are, so they have to provide menu-based choices, and this job is handed over to Rong Yu.
Qiao Ting simply asked him to introduce this topic in the live broadcast, participate in customizing villas, and build his own home. I still feel that this kind of live broadcast is far from Director Shen's back garden, and it is all about creating hot topics and traffic.
Qingxi Fengya is a little tepid, flat and stable, and the number of live fans in each issue has always remained at about 1,000 people, and it will not be able to break through if it goes up.