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"From the skyline of white cranes circling, to the sky blue minimalist flip-flops; From the residential apartment of the three-person discussion, to the vegetable market with the smell of diesel...... Unlike everything that has changed so rapidly over the years, the only constant is probably the folds on my face and the rising housing prices around me. "
This passage is a middle-aged uncle, standing halfway up the mountain in his life, with a slightly drunk tone, facing the world and himself, saying "If I had known that this is the case now, I wouldn't have bought a house if I had been killed!" ”
1. "Poetry and Distance" in Dreams
I was born in a small city to ordinary working-class parents. Ever since I was a child, I have had a dream to get out of this small town and see the outside world. Finally, after graduating from university, I came to the bustling metropolis and started my new life with my own efforts.
When I first arrived in the city, everything was so new and beautiful. I rented a small apartment in the city center and had to feel the pulse of the city every day as I commuted through the bustling crowds. I dream of one day having a home of my own in this city and living a life of "poetry and distance".
2. Buying a house has become a "tight spell" of life
However, over time, I discovered that buying a home was not as simple as I thought it would be. Housing prices are getting higher and higher, and I have less and less money in my hands. I started to get stuck in endless anxiety, running around every day for a mortgage, trying to save money. I began to miss the carefree I used to be, and I missed the simple, pure me I used to be.
Every night, I would stand in front of the window, looking at the lights outside the window, and my heart was full of helplessness and confusion. I started to reflect, why should I buy a house? Is it to live a better life, or to meet society's expectations?
3. Struggles and choices
Finally, one day, I decided to let go of this obsession and stop running around to buy a house. I started to replan my life and started trying to do something that really made me happy. I started traveling, meeting more people, and experiencing different cultures. I found that life can be so colorful, and I can live so freely.
I began to understand that the house is just a place to stay, and true happiness comes from inner satisfaction and peace. I began to understand that instead of sacrificing my happiness in order to buy a house, it was better to let go of this obsession and pursue a life that truly belongs to me.
Fourth, return to the original intention and find true happiness
Nowadays, I don't have to run around to buy a house, I've found a way of life that is truly my own. I began to understand that life is not about material satisfaction, but about inner peace and happiness. I began to understand that instead of sacrificing my happiness in order to buy a house, it was better to let go of this obsession and pursue a life that truly belongs to me.
I began to cherish the people and things around me more, and began to pay more attention to my inner world. I found that happiness is not so unattainable, it turns out that happiness is all around me.
When I look back, I think of the days when I bought a house, and I think of that time when I was full of anxiety and confusion. I will be grateful for that experience because it made me appreciate my life more and made me more aware of what I really wanted.
I would like to say to all my friends that buying a house is not the whole of life, nor is it the only measure of happiness. Please don't be bound by the eyes of society, and don't be bound by material desires. Please be brave enough to pursue the life you really want, to find true happiness.
I believe that as long as you keep your original intention and stick to your beliefs, you will be able to find happiness that truly belongs to you.
V. Conclusion
"If I had known that this was the case, I wouldn't have bought a house if I was killed!" This sentence is a reflection on my past and a feeling for my present life. I hope that everyone who is struggling to buy a house can get some inspiration from this and find their true happiness.
Life does not exist for the sake of buying a house, but for the pursuit of happiness. Please let go of your obsession, return to your original intention, and find your true happiness!