1. Xu Guihua's distinctive rural background became popular overnight
About ten years ago, in an ordinary and life-like village, there was a simple rural woman named Xu Guihua, who was working hard in the fields. Although she is not outstanding in height and is a little thin, she has a gentle and kind smile on her face and wears a simple but practical straw hat on her head.
Xu Guihua's family is not wealthy, she only has a primary school education, but she always has a love for art. In an interview with the media, she once said: "Whenever I put down my farm work, I would pick up the accordion and sing those touching Shandong folk songs to the vast fields.
For her, singing seemed to be the best way for her to find comfort in her soul after a hard work.
However, in July 2012, Xu Guihua, with her simple wishes, bravely signed up for a high-profile variety show - "Let Dreams Fly". She hopes to use this stage to build a new school for her hometown and realize her dream.
Unexpectedly, when she showed her singing voice with her loud, high-pitched and infectious singing voice, it immediately aroused warm applause from the audience! The judges nodded their heads and gave them a very high evaluation.
The guests at the scene described her wonderful performance as follows: "A song "Yimeng Mountain Minor" shocked the audience, she has a primary school education, with a simple straw hat on her head, but has a clear and bright voice, this strong contrast made Xu Guihua quickly popular overnight.
In this way, Xu Guihua, an originally unknown rural woman, instantly became the focus of attention of thousands of audiences, and was affectionately called "Sister Straw Hat" by everyone.
2. Arrogance and conceit after becoming popular all over the country
Since Sister Straw Hat became popular overnight, her life has been like a rocket, and she has begun a stage of rapid rise. The following year, she successfully appeared on the nationally renowned variety show "Avenue of Stars" and won the championship of the month in one fell swoop.
Since then, the doors of CCTV have been opened to her, and all kinds of performance opportunities have come one after another. The original text described the scene at that time: "She frequently appeared on the TV screen, appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, and even became a special guest host of CCTV TV.
The word 'peasant' followed in front of the singer made fame and fortune rush to the straw hat sister like a tide."
The Straw Hat Lady wears many hats, which is in stark contrast to the "dream" dreams of others! Her appearance fee alone is far more than the annual income level of ordinary people.
With the accumulation of money and popularity, the straw hat sister gradually breeds an arrogant and extravagant and excessive idea. Gradually, she grasped the extremely clever yet cheap marketing strategy of "selling badly" in order to win the public's sympathy and public attention.
During the recording of TV programs, the straw hat sister often chooses to sit alone in the corner and enjoy a light meal, deliberately creating a "miserable" back; He even fabricated the lie that he suffered domestic violence and cut his hair short just to "prevent his husband from pulling his hair" in order to win the public's sympathy.
What's even funnier is that in order to cooperate with his wife's hype, the husband of the straw hat sister actually "confirmed" everything in the video. The original text says: "So, what are the facts? In fact, the truth is that she attracts traffic through hype, and then achieves the commercial purpose of bringing goods.
It is with this "cunning rabbit-like multi-hole" method that Sister Straw Hat has successfully deceived a large amount of traffic and attention.
However, there is nothing worse than denigrating the "shady scene" of the stage that made her famous on the "Avenue of Stars". Just because her husband was eliminated in the show, she personally attacked the program team and wantonly smeared the stage that once pushed her to the top, which was called "big disrespect" in the original text.
Arrogant and extravagant, selling miserable lies, and framing others, Sister Straw Hat has gone further and further on this "celebrity" road, and has gradually lost the support and love of the audience.
3. From everyone shouting and beating to regaining the true nature of charity
After experiencing the spurning of netizens and the banning of TV stations, Sister Straw Hat has fallen into a situation of disgrace several times, and her future is bleak. However, she did not give up because of this, but actively participated in various charity and public welfare undertakings, trying to win back the glorious image of "grassroots hero".
For example, whenever traditional festivals such as the Lunar New Year and the Mid-Autumn Festival come, the Straw Hat Sister will always make some special snacks from the farmhouse, and then bring these homemade delicacies into the villages of her hometown, and send warmth to the lonely elderly from house to house.
Legend has it that at this time, the village is always bustling and lively, and the old people gather around the Straw Hat Sister, affectionately calling her "Straw Hat Sister".
At one point, the pandemic was raging around the world, and medical resources were extremely scarce in many regions. The straw hat sister did not hesitate to donate up to 2.7 million yuan in cash, and told a touching story for half an hour impassionedly in the live broadcast.
During the epidemic, she also went to the nursing home to visit those lonely elderly people who had no children and no daughters, and sang the long-lost hometown songs for them, giving them spiritual comfort.
However, public opinion does not fully agree with these "good deeds" of Sister Straw Hat, and many people disagree, suspect the motives behind it, and even suspect that she is using it to gain fame and win awards.
It was mentioned in the original article: "Contrary to the silent dedication of others and their reluctance to make a statement, Sister Straw Hat selects activities that can highlight her charitable image, as if she is afraid that no one will know" Therefore, the public believes that this is just a means for Sister Straw Hat to "whitewash" herself again.
However, it is undeniable that her charitable actions have indeed touched countless people, and after suffering many doubts, she has gradually won the public's favor. At the same time, she continues to sell her handicrafts on the street and use self-media platforms to make a name for herself.
It can be said that the straw hat sister is gradually building a new stage of her own life.
Fourth, the godson is too good vs the habitual son is too much
The way children are educated has a profound impact on their development and often directly determines the direction of their future life. Taking the straw hat sister and the "coat brother" Zhu Zhiwen, who is also a singer, as an example, the difference between them in educating children can be described as worlds apart.
In comparison, "Brother Coat" Zhu Zhiwen spoiled his two children too much, causing them to develop bad habits. His son Zhu Xiaowei has been idle and hedonistic since he was a child, and he has no interest in his studies; Daughter Zhu Xuemei is even more reckless, after graduating from junior high school, she stayed at home all day, and her weight soared to nearly 200 pounds.
Faced with this situation, Zhu Zhiwen, as a father, turned a blind eye, and said that he was "powerless" about his son's truancy from class, and for his daughter's overeating, he only said that "it is normal for girls to like to eat snacks".
Under his education method of "excessive doting and severe punishment", the two children of the Zhu family wasted their precious youth in this way.
The fate of a child often depends on the parent's educational concept. The straw hat sister is strict with her children, and Zhu Zhiwen is too laissez-faire, these two completely different education methods reveal that the correct way to teach children should be moderately guided, rather than overly spoiled.
5. The excellence of Xu Guihua's daughter vs the fall of Zhu Zhiwen's children
As the old saying goes, "Where there's a will, there's a way." Sister Straw Hat's strict educational philosophy for children, as well as Zhu Zhiwen's laissez-faire approach, finally produced completely different results in the fate trajectory of the two families.
It can be clearly seen that the daughters of the Straw Hat have achieved excellent results in terms of all-round development! Both academic performance and artistic accomplishment can be called the best among his peers.
The major competitions and art exhibitions she has participated in at home and abroad undoubtedly proves that she has a wide range of knowledge and exquisite skills.
Such an outstanding performance undoubtedly explains why she has been able to win such a brilliant list of achievements and widespread praise.
However, in comparison, the current situation of Zhu Zhiwen's children is deeply distressing. His son, Zhu Xiaowei, has been at home since he was 14 years old and is addicted to online games, ignoring any lofty ambitions and ideals.
The original text clearly stated: "Now, that once little boy has become a greasy 'uncle'. The career is unsuccessful, and the married life is also a mess, which is really embarrassing.
As for Zhu Xuemei's situation, it is even more miserable. She "chooses to live at home because she thinks the supermarket job is too tiring and the nurse career is too hard. Why go out and suffer when you have a good meal and a good night's sleep at home? ”。
Due to lack of exercise, Zhu Xuemei gradually lost control of her diet: her weight soared from 90 pounds to 200 pounds today. She is only in her twenties, and her appearance looks as old as a middle-aged woman in her forties.
The way of education is to guide children to success, and over-pampering will only ruin their future. The depraved image of the Zhu brothers and sisters is undoubtedly a strong refutation and warning of the concept of indulgent and laissez-faire education.