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Every mother's personality is different, especially after becoming a mother, her personality will also change greatly.
According to the survey, most women have a strong personality after becoming a mother, so the shadow of the baby naturally exists.
A good character can naturally achieve a good character child, and the mother is the child's teacher, which will directly affect the future of the baby's child.
Smart mothers should also know how to show weakness in front of their children, and mothers who know how to show weakness will naturally be of great help to the baby's character, which mothers should also understand.
It may be that the baby is still small, and it is difficult for mothers to distinguish the influence of the baby. Ten years later, the difference between babies is obvious, and mothers know as much as possible.
What are the effects of weak and strong mothers on their babies after 10 years?
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A mother who has shown weakness since childhood
Showing weakness can naturally show the importance of the baby, as well as the baby's self-confidence, which has a great impact on the baby's personality.
Mothers who show weakness can also achieve a brave and lively character, which is of great help to the child's character building, and the child's self-reliance will be better in the future, which mothers should not neglect.
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A strong mother since childhood
If the mother likes to be too strong in front of the baby since she was a child, she will also show her own shortcomings, including her negative emotions, such as belittling the child, finding fault with the child, blaming the child's ability, etc.
When the baby grows up in such an environment, it will naturally appear to be particularly lacking in self-confidence, and the personality will also be very inferior and autistic, which is not conducive to the establishment of a good character, and the impact on the baby is also quite large.
Smart mothers should know how to show weakness, which has a lot of benefits for the baby's growth and development
For example, you need to ask your child to do certain things.
Weak mother: Baby, mom xx, can you help mom do it.
Strong mother: Other people's children know to help their mothers, you see that you know to be lazy all day long.
Children are also required to do certain things, but strong mothers and weak mothers feel completely different, and there is a world of difference in the establishment of children's personalities.
What kind of personality the baby has is helpful for growth and development
The baby's self-confidence, lively and sunny personality, and strong personality are of great help to the baby's growth and development.
Babies with self-confidence naturally have a strong side, which is of great help to the baby's social interaction and learning convenience.
The lively and sunny baby is also a blessing, whether it is the baby's luck and popularity, it will not be very bad, and it is particularly popular.
A strong baby has a good ability to be frustrated, which is also conducive to the baby to better overcome the difficulties he encounters.
As parents, it is the key object that affects the child's personality, and mothers should also lead by example and know how to help the baby build a good character, so that the baby will be better in the future.
If the baby does not have a good character, is overly autistic, lacks self-confidence, and has low self-esteem, it is not only easy to be excluded by others, but also has a low happiness index.