Most of those who oppose the abolition of the bride price and call for the abolition of the bride price are playing hooligans. Why do you want to cancel the bride price? Can't girls get married now? Isn't it normal to give a bride price to a woman when you get married? The older generation married their daughters-in-law and children back to give the bride price, why don't they give it now?
Some people say that it is because of the bride price that more and more men beat the singles, so after the bride price is canceled, will the singles be able to marry a daughter-in-law? If you can't marry a daughter-in-law, you blame the woman for asking for a bride price, and more than 70% of men can't marry a daughter-in-law and don't find the reason for themselves, but also blame the woman. Do you want to let a girl marry you without spending a penny, leave the home where you have lived for more than 20 years, leave your parents to live with you in your house, and take care of your parents?
If that's the case, then what is it that isn't hooliganism? Is someone ready to start spraying me? If you want to say that I am talking nonsense, don't be in a hurry to scold me first, after watching my video, you will understand why the bride price cannot be canceled.
First of all, some people say that the bride price is a touchstone, although it is said that the money is a little vulgar in the emotional premise, but the fact is that some men have not yet reached the step of marriage, so they are ready to calculate in advance how to give less or not to the woman's bride price, so how good can such a man be to his wife after marriage?
Secondly, some people say that the bride price may be that the parents want to give their children a guarantee, and the two young people said it very well, and the conversation was quite speculative. But after all, the girl has to integrate into the man's family, and the woman's parents may worry that their children will not be happy after marriage, and most parents will give their children a guarantee.
In fact, this bride price is not for yourself, anyway, after marriage, it is to be given to the younger couple, of course, there are also those who do not pay back the bride price of their daughters, but after all, it is a minority, which parent does not love their children? Not to mention the bride price of the daughter, I usually want to make up for the child. Whether it is a bride price or a dowry, it is just a support from the parents of both parties to the new family of the young couple.
This last point even some people say, this is not a bride price, the daughter will be looked down upon, this is not to say that the man's parents, it may be a neighbor, a relative, or it may be the woman's side.
My classmate Qiaoqiao and her husband are the two of them who are the people I talk to. The parents on both sides are also very reasonable, thinking that the two children are better than anything, well, they didn't say anything about the bride price, and their in-laws are very good to her, and they respect him.
But I don't know when she started, she became the topic of conversation after dinner, and even her neighbors on her mother's side talked about him behind his back and said that he was uh upside down with the boy, and the man's neighbor also guessed that others generally wanted a bride price, and he didn't want it, even if it wasn't his own flaws.
But fortunately, she herself has a good mentality, don't listen to these gossip, her husband and in-laws are still as good to her as ever, well, and later her in-laws wrote his name for buying a car of more than 100,000 yuan. Let's just say ha, this is also my classmate's big and arrogant mentality, and this is to change for others to hear such a discussion about themselves, and they will be angry for a long time.
In fact, this bride price is still to be given to the woman, we support the bride price, but we should refuse the high-priced bride price, refuse the bride price to belong to the parents, but the situation of each family is different, everyone's situation is not the same, do not compare, if you have the ability, you will give more, and if you don't have the ability, you will give less, whether it is more or less, it is the start-up capital that the parents give to the two children's small family.
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