1. Looking back on the years: a difficult but tenacious and optimistic youth
In 1962, Tian Ge descended on a poor family in Anhui. As the baby of the whole family, she has been deeply influenced by the profound charm of Peking Opera since she was a child, and she is full of strong artistic atmosphere.
However, fate did not seem to favor the family too much, and when Tian Ge was 12 years old, the main pillar of the family, his father, suddenly collapsed, leaving the mother and daughter with a scene of loneliness and helplessness and difficult survival.
Seeing that her mother was shouldering the heavy responsibility of the family alone, doing housework and making money to support the family, the neighbors persuaded Tian's mother: "You should find a man as soon as possible to share the pressure of the family!" Raising three children on your own is too much work.
In the face of the neighbors' discussions, Tian's mother was not crushed by the predicament in front of her. She supported the family with her hard-working hands and devoted herself wholeheartedly to the cause of raising children.
Despite her physical and mental exhaustion, she always fought with hope and hoped that one day she would be able to live a happy and fulfilling life.
In order to reduce the burden on his mother, 15-year-old Tian Ge resolutely decided to give up his studies and was successfully admitted to the Anhui Chuzhou Art Troupe with his outstanding artistic talent, becoming a glorious literary and artistic warrior.
During his work, despite a meager salary of 12 yuan per month, Tian Ge still insisted on living frugally, returning all his income to his family, and continuing to wear his clothes even if they were damaged.
2. Turning point in life: meeting and falling in love with director You Xiaogang
During the time when Tian Ge joined the art troupe, the appearance of a man completely subverted the trajectory of her life.
At that time, You Xiaogang was already a well-known director in the art troupe, and he could be called a dazzling star. In contrast, Tian Ge seems to be obscure, and has not yet ushered in the opportunity to show himself.
When they met for the first time, You Xiaogang was deeply attracted by Tian Ge's beautiful and moving face. Knowing that she was in such a poor family environment, but she was still able to maintain a positive attitude, this made You Xiaogang even more impressed by this girl who was not deeply involved in the world, and an indescribable love surged in his heart.
After a period of in-depth exchanges and understanding, You Xiaogang's admiration for Tian Ge became stronger and stronger. Finally, at a special moment, he mustered up the courage to confess his heart to Tian Ge.
At that time, Tian Ge was already one year old, and her clear eyes were slowly filled with a deep attraction for You Xiaogang's outstanding talent and warmth and thoughtfulness. So, the two of them naturally determined their relationship.
However, the love affair of the "golden boy and girl" in those art troupes has been questioned and criticized by the society. The age gap between the two parties is as high as 10 years, and many people think that this relationship may not last.
However, Tian Ge didn't care about these gossips, she deeply believed that her choice was absolutely correct, and resolutely took You Xiaogang's hand and entered the sacred hall of marriage together.
After marriage, the couple reached a consensus to understand each other and support each other's career development. However, the long hours of busy work make their communication less and less, and the relationship between the couple gradually cools.
In order to maintain the integrity of the family, 40-year-old You Xiaogang put forward the idea of childbearing, hoping to build a complete family. However, Tian Ge, who was at the peak of his career, did not hesitate to decline, and this decision eventually led to the breakdown of their marriage.
3. The career is in full swing, but the marriage is in trouble
You Xiaogang and Tian Ge have made remarkable achievements in their respective fields, and their ambitions are gradually being realized.
You Xiaogang's film "Triumph in the Midnight" won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Director in one fell swoop, and his career also climbed to the peak; And Tian Ge has become an important pillar of Beijing TV, and the literary and artistic programs she hosted are extremely popular, and various Davids have followed suit.
At that time, Tian Ge's reputation in the hosting world was known to everyone. She not only created a precedent for domestic talk shows, but also bravely transformed into a "gold medal producer", covering a wide range of fields, including hosting, directing, lyric writing, drama actors, magazine columnists and other fields, and has made great contributions to China's television industry.
However, just as the two were at the peak of their careers, their love life was in trouble. 40-year-old You Xiaogang longed to have a child in order to achieve the integrity of the family, but Tian Ge was unable to take care of childbirth matters due to his busy work being in a critical period of his career, so he directly rejected You Xiaogang's idea, which caused fierce conflicts and quarrels between the two.
After two years of the Cold War, the husband and wife barely found a tacit understanding. However, the good times did not last long, You Xiaogang had an affair with the young actress Wu Qianqian, and the intimate relationship between the two was witnessed by Tian Ge.
For a moment, people speculated whether Tian Ge would harm his health by drinking too much, or if he would cry bitterly. However, amazingly, she showed extraordinary calmness and composure, and quietly left the hustle and bustle of the scene, drawing a successful end to this ten-year marriage story.
Maybe in Tian Ge's heart, the relationship has lost a solid foundation, and no matter how reluctant he is, it is in vain, so it is better to let it go neatly.
Fourth, divorce, chic rebirth
In the face of You Xiaogang's derailment, Tian Ge did not cry hysterically, nor did he cry in pain, but left the scene with a calm state of mind that was detached from the world.
Divorce is undoubtedly a heavy blow to a middle-aged woman, but Tian Ge did not become decadent and depressed because of this, but rekindled his enthusiasm for life.
After the divorce, she quickly adjusted her emotions and devoted herself to her busy career. Tian Ge began to run around, overwhelmingly accepting various job offers. She has been praised as a role model for contemporary working women, who is independent and autonomous, able to deal with life's challenges with poise and composure, and still takes her back in the face of emotional abandonment.
After the divorce, Tian Ge's life is more colorful than before.
In this way, Tian Ge threw himself into the torrent of the workplace and climbed higher and higher on the road of his career. Soon, she was invited to the United States, South Africa, Italy and other countries for interviews and exchanges, becoming the first "Chinese host" to appear on the international stage.
Tian Ge's unique hosting style has been carefully included in modern communication studies and is known as the "Tian Ge phenomenon".
Although he is over half a hundred years old, Tian Ge still remains single and has never given birth to children. However, this unmarried lifestyle did not make her feel lonely or empty.
Instead, she lives an unfettered life, returning to her poor but sunny and optimistic girlhood.
In the face of all kinds of doubts from the outside world, Tian Ge never took it to heart. She firmly believes that marriage and childbirth are personal private matters and do not need to be interfered with and guided by others. How to live depends entirely on her own decisions, without interference from the outside world, and this inner honesty and calmness is her strongest spiritual pillar.
Fifth, the career climbed to a new peak, and the international made a stunning appearance
After the divorce, Tian Ge was like a phoenix nirvana, achieving self-breakthrough and growth! She devoted all her efforts and energy to the construction of her career. In the process, she was invited to many countries around the world to participate in various interviews and exchange activities, covering the United States, South Africa, Italy and many other regions.
Let us remember that important moment - in 1998, South Africa's ABC National Broadcasting Company solemnly invited Tian Ge to serve as the host of the Sino-South African Diplomatic Relations Gala! For the mainland, this is of great significance, because this is the first time that a "Chinese host" has appeared on the stage of a foreign country, which is enough to prove that Tian Ge's huge influence in China at that time has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and even widely known at home and abroad.
Tian Ge's unique hosting style is impressive, and his calm and unhurried performance is as natural and smooth as flowing clouds, and people will feel as cordial and polite as a spring breeze. This people-friendly and energetic style has made her famous in the hosting world, and is known as the "Tiange phenomenon".
Modern communication studies have conducted in-depth research and collection on this phenomenon.
However, divorce is not the end, but a new beginning. Tian Ge is more proactive in broadening his career path. From hosting everyone, to being a director and choreographer with double-faced roles, and then stepping into the field of lyric writing and performance, she has given full play to her full potential, and has made outstanding contributions to the Chinese TV program industry, which can be called a legendary story.
Now, Tian Ge, who has entered the age of sixties, has undoubtedly climbed to the peak of his life in his career. She has shown extraordinary talent and charm in various fields, whether it is in the hosting industry or in the film and television industry, she is the focus of attention.
Looking back on her life history, she has experienced many twists and turns such as poverty, love, marriage, betrayal, divorce, etc., but she has always been firm in her beliefs, moved forward bravely, and created an extraordinary chapter in her life with perseverance and persistent pursuit of her career.