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After the accident of the Nantong bus, it caused the death of many passengers and the serious consequences of passenger injuries, especially an 11-year-old girl named "Youyou", who was unconscious after the accident, and finally died of injuries.
In this regard, netizens have felt very sad, and have bid farewell to this little angel who has not yet had time to write his life on Weibo and social platforms.
But not only that, Youyou's family is having a very difficult time in these days, so after Youyou's cremation, the family responded to the compensation question for the first time and expressed their family's attitude towards the compensation fee.
However, Youyou's mother's words were too excited, which caused some netizens to have different opinions, thinking that this aunt was too tough.
So what is it that makes this aunt so enthusiastic?
1. "No amount of money can be exchanged for children".
"No amount of money can buy back the child."
At 8 o'clock in the morning on November 29, Youyou's body was sent to the cremation center with the help of his family, and Youyou was finally cremated.
On the eve of her cremation, the aunt who witnessed this sentence responded to the reporter.
At that time, a reporter made it "difficult" for Youyou's family on the issue of compensation, and asked: "Has the problem of compensation for your child's accident been solved?"
When the aunt heard this, before the reporter finished asking, she had already opened her mouth to scold: "No amount of money can be exchanged for a child."
Children are priceless, how can you journalists understand, you can die!"
As soon as this sentence came out, the citizens and reporters present were speechless, thinking that the reporter's question was to break ground on the plane, what is the truth of what the aunt said?
This sentence was filmed and put on Youyou's mother, which can barely be said in the past, but when it is put on the aunt, there seems to be a lot worth thinking about.
But the words that Youyou's mother said, as early as more than a month ago, a mother also said it, that is, the "little wolf" mother in the bus accident.
I still remember that on October 11, when the accident just happened, the children were still being treated in major hospitals at that time, and the little wolf's mother was anxious and kept asking reporters about her daughter's injuries.
When the reporter asked, "How are the children in your hospital?" , the little wolf's mother responded directly to the reporter: "Even if there are thousands of dollars, I can't buy back my daughter's life, she is still in a coma, she will definitely be able to persevere!"
The context of this sentence is also similar to the meaning of what Youyou's mother said, but if you think about it carefully, it still seems to be different.
So when Youyou's mother said this, what are the things worth thinking about?
Second, persuade Youyou's mother to have another child.
There is still one night before the cremation of the Youyou bus, which not many people know, not even the Youyou family: just before the cremation of Youyou, her eldest sister came to see her off in person, wanting to see her niece for the last time.
Although the issue of compensation was raised by Youyou's eldest aunt, she didn't care so much about the amount of compensation, because she also knew that no matter how much money she had, she couldn't get her lovely little niece back.
But the aunt still reported this compensation issue, and she just wanted to pay for her little sister's school and her own family to take care of the children in the future.
The aunt is also very relieved of her sister and brother-in-law, and she will not be dishonest like those who "disobey the yang and the yin", so she needs to set the issue of compensation in advance, and the sister wants to send Youyou well through this compensation, and she can come back to take care of her sister's life, so she said that.
And the eldest aunt went to Guangzhou to work in advance as early as January, so she didn't know about Youyou's death, but on the other end of the phone, I heard Youyou's uncle's voice a little desolate.
When she learned that Youyou's family was being identified, only the two brothers, and even the family members were taking evidence, she was still crying silently alone.
When the eldest aunt heard this story and relieved herself, she complained about Youyou's mother and suffered so much for her brother, so she replied to the compensation question as soon as possible.
But the aunt also felt that her sister must be in pain now, so on this day, she personally brought a large bag of Youyou's favorite food, snacks, toys, educational toys, etc. to her sister's home.
When the younger sister saw that her sister hadn't seen her for a few years, and she was doing the same hard work as herself, her tears couldn't help but fall down, and the big sister hurriedly hugged her sister into her arms, patted her back gently, and comforted her: "Okay, my sister is here, don't cry."
The younger sister raised her fragile voice: "Sister, you......you"
In order not to make her sister too sad, the eldest sister pretended to smile at her, then gently pushed her sister away, and then lifted the big bag in her hand: "Sister went to the vegetable market by the way, bought it back, and went home to eat it together, okay?"
My sister wiped away her tears: "Okay, okay."
That night, the two sisters did not sleep.
When she was at her aunt's house, she looked at her sister and didn't speak for a long time, her sister understood that the eldest sister came to see her, but she didn't know what to say.
But the eldest sister didn't say anything tonight, and she didn't communicate with the family here, probably because she was very sad, so the younger sister tried her best to make her happy.
She asked her eldest sister, "Eldest sister, have you eaten today?"
The eldest aunt looked at her sister from the side and smiled meaningfully: "Eat, eat."
"And what did you eat today?"
"The hot pot I ate today, I also ate the chili, it's not spicy, it's still the same."
When my sister heard this, she also began to ponder in a daze.
In the evening, the conversation between the two finally went around Youyou, and the younger sister apologized to the eldest aunt: "I shouldn't let you recall those sad pasts, I specially prepared it for you tonight."
The eldest sister saw a large bag of snacks and ingredients brought back by her sister, and wanted to reunite with her after a long absence: "Then let's finish eating what she loves together, right?"
Third, you will come again.
Just as they were eating hot pot and joking, my sister said to my eldest aunt: "Sister, you ...... you"
The eldest aunt couldn't bear to listen to her, so she said: "Okay, my sister wants to eat meat, you will eat it again when you have the opportunity in the future, but it is very greasy, you must knock more noodles when you eat it, otherwise, it will hurt your throat, so what can I do!"
The younger sister didn't understand the eldest sister's words, and when the eldest sister said, "Also, don't forget, when you eat hot pot, don't get on your clothes, otherwise it will always be on your clothes!"
My sister interjected, "So what should I do?"
The eldest sister smiled at her: "Actually, it's nothing, you just use a small snack candy to cover it, and then you "escape"!"
At this moment, the two seemed to have returned to the happiest and happiest time, when the eldest sister rang the bell, the younger sister still did not understand, she was familiar with what the eldest sister said, but she couldn't say it.
When the eldest sister left with a big bag, she said to her sister: "Sister, Youyou is leaving, but she will come back, just in another form, you know?"
The younger sister lifted her pale and bloodless face and shook her head at the eldest sister, who took her little hand and said to her, "Do you know that Youyou will still be with us because she will become ......"
Fourth, the little wolf is still unconscious.
Before the eldest sister finished her sentence, her sister said to her: "Yes, I know, Youyou will turn into a meteor and fall from the sky, tell us that she is okay, let's not be too sad!"
The aunt swallowed: "Yes, yes, it must be so."
But today, the pain of my sister is far greater than that of my eldest sister, and after Youyou's death, my aunt and my sister's family went to the cremation center together to cremate Youyou's body, and with this cremation, my sister suffered much less pain.
When my sister heard what her eldest aunt said, after turning Youyou into a shooting star, she didn't respond, just silently wept, only to see that her cheeks were scratched, and it seemed that no matter how troublesome she was, she didn't want to wake up again.
As a result, my sister's family is taking care of her in the hospital.
The little wolf mother is alone at the head of her daughter's bed, or arranging her daughter's clothes, etc., and the little wolf mother can be seen guarding her daughter's bed in the morning and evening.
The society and netizens are paying attention to the specific condition of the little wolf, but the little wolf's condition is not optimistic, she is still in a coma, and the coma level she is in is also the deepest.
In this state, the human body is most likely to be accompanied by a series of complications, and it is easy to cause life-threatening dangers, so the little wolf's family is praying for her speedy recovery.
Under the care and care of the public, there are many different voices: "Little wolf, come on!"
The little wolf mother also heard someone shouting at her daughter, and her heart was also very warm, she said to the children: "She will definitely wake up, the little wolf mother is indeed a little surprised, I didn't expect so many people to still pay attention to her."
"Family, my daughter is recuperating now, everything will be fine, thank you for your attention."
However, there is also a voice for Youyou's mother: "It's different from the past, when I saw her for the first time, she was in a very bad mood, she said to me: "What is compensation, no amount of money can be exchanged for the child's life, you don't understand anything, die, don't come." Therefore, it can be seen from between the lines that the issue of compensation has not yet been agreed, and if she mentions this compensation to her again, she will inevitably say like this. ”
epilogue
When such a family tragedy occurs, people's care and sympathy are also necessary, but the words of family members also need to be understood, and we cannot understand the pain they are suffering, so do not criticize and blame excessively.
When facing family tragedy, the way of dealing with and accepting it is also destined to be different, so we have to respect the decisions and emotional expressions of these people, who need the most