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In the journey of life, we may have faced various choices, including whether to have a second child. It was a challenging and joyful decision, and every family has their own story and feelings. Do you regret having a second child?
Some of the real experiences shared by netizens below may give us some inspiration and insights
You have at least one god teammate, and my strongest teammate is a nanny, so my father-in-law and mother-in-law are still urging to have a second child, of course I refused. But fortunately, it's not that you can't get through it, and in about another 10 years, you will be a winner in life with financial independence, independent life, and children! Come on
I agree with this sentence "No matter how good the relationship is, it will fade after starting a family". If I have two children, I definitely want them to put each other first, and they will be brothers and sisters for the rest of their lives. However, I certainly don't want my husband to put his siblings ahead of me, and I can't accept his nephews and nephews to share my children's love. I guess that's human nature. Fortunately, we are all only children, refreshing and clean, and if there are conflicts between the two families, in the end, it is still our only daughter, so life is very simple.
Sane. I really don't understand how when those who have a first child, they already understand that their husbands are women who shake off their hands and sell their shopkeepers, so how can they still be bent on having a second child.
On the free expression of genes. Comfort, you are the first one who is too worry-free, so the second one faces a huge discomfort.
I really don't regret saying the essence, but if you could do it all over again, would you still get married and have children? A: No
No in-laws' first-born daughter, when the child turned one year old, my mother took the child back to her hometown for various reasons, and experienced nearly two years of thinking about the child and running around the life: all kinds of holidays to rush home, high-speed traffic jams and train station tickets have been experienced, I want to cry, beat and scold my husband, and finally the baby returned to his side before kindergarten. Now my mother is urging me to have a second child, saying that she can help me take care of it while I am young, and I have to have two children for both men and women, in fact, I know that she wants me to have another son. Pull it down [cover your face] Especially now that my younger brother has the crown prince at home, it is even more impossible for her to stay with me and bring me a baby
Those who are rich do not regret it, and those who are poor regret it. Money solves almost all problems
Since you have chosen, you must love well!
Admire, I even regret wanting one, my family persuaded me to have another one, I won't die and won't be born, once this thing is born, there is no room for regret, unlike marriage, you can divorce if you are not satisfied, this thing is mainly stuffed back
Your mother should not give you a child, so that you don't want to have a second child
You're glad that the age difference is still okay [tears], the eldest kindergarten, just herd the sheep, and then the second child will be a pig. Just do outdoor activities, read books, and report less classes. If the boss happens to be in the first grade, and the homework assigned by the teacher must be completed, then it is called a collapse.
I feel that this idea is very normal, when the mother always feels guilty about the child, in fact, I think this situation is only temporary, you can let Dabao bring Xiaobao more, accompany Xiaobao, promote the relationship between the two of them, when you take care of Xiaobao, please Dabao help you, this should be much better
With the fifth, nothing else matters.
Having companionship is actually an excuse for parents, and children still like their parents' unique love, and it is impossible to share it with others.
After reading so much, I think this is the right solution, the child will be the icing on the cake, and the rest, don't expect the child, as for the elderly, now sensible, I will smile, the world is not sure what will happen in five years, let alone decades.
After all, the child is the icing on the cake, not a lifesaver. [Like]
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