Please click "Follow" in the upper right corner, so that it is convenient for you to discuss and share, your support is my biggest motivation!
In the first few years of their marriage, Wang Yajun and Zhao Xiaochuan both devoted themselves to their respective careers, and although their time together was a little short, the life they created together was still full of harmony and harmony.
However, with the arrival of their adorable baby daughter, the time spent together has become even richer.
However, what followed was a gradual divergence and contradiction in the way things were sent.
Wang Yajun has received a good upbringing from his family since he was a child, and has strict norms in his manners, words and deeds. After years of being influenced by this kind of education, her requirements for living habits are almost to the point of "strictness".
Therefore, whenever she saw Zhao Xiaochuan swallowing clouds or getting drunk, she would always criticize and accuse him mercilessly.
Zhao Xiaochuan has a straightforward and open-minded personality, and he never pays attention to these details. He firmly believes that his little habits are not a big deal, and there is no need to make a big fuss at all. As a result, heated arguments often arise between the two over these trivial matters.
In addition to their living habits, there are also huge differences in their children's education. As an actor, Zhao Xiaochuan knows the hard work and sweat behind success, so he is extremely strict with his daughter, expecting her to cultivate perseverance from an early age.
However, Wang Yajun has a different view, she believes that children are children after all, and it is a matter of course for parents to give full love and care. She always goes out of her way to meet her daughter's needs and is tolerant of all her actions.
Due to the completely different educational concepts of the two, serious disagreements and disputes soon arose over the issue of their daughter's education.
Sometimes, Zhao Xiaochuan's strict requirements make Wang Yajun feel dissatisfied, and she will stand firmly on her daughter's side and provide her with solid support; Sometimes, Wang Yajun's excessive doting will anger Zhao Xiaochuan again.
In this way, the seeds of contradiction are quietly sown, germinated, and rooted in their married life. Quarrels also increased in frequency and intensity, eventually turning into heated quarrels and conflicts.
Looking back on the love process of Wang Yajun and Zhao Xiaochuan, we have to go back to that good time many years ago. At that time, Wang Yajun had become a high-profile first-line actress, with her superb acting skills and sweet appearance, she broke out in the film and television industry.
And Zhao Xiaochuan has just stepped into this industry and is still an immature newcomer.
Despite this, Zhao Xiaochuan was still deeply attracted by Wang Yajun's charm and couldn't extricate himself.
The scene of meeting Wang Yajun for the first time was deeply imprinted in my mind. She has the halo of countless bright film and television stars on her shoulders, with a radiant face and an extraordinary temperament.
Zhao Xiaochuan instantly seemed to be shocked by a violent impact, and his heart was surging and like a raging tide.
From that moment on, Zhao Xiaochuan had a deep unrequited love for Wang Yajun. He silently prayed that one day he would be able to marry the star and spend quality time together.
However, at that time, Zhao Xiaochuan was just a little-known newcomer, with a huge disparity in status and difficult to approach. He can only hide this fiery love deep in his heart, and devote himself to the struggle of his career, hoping that one day he can go hand in hand with his sweetheart.
Time flies, and years have passed in the blink of an eye. Wang Yajun's acting career has climbed to the peak, but his love life is still single and has not yet entered the palace of marriage. And Zhao Xiaochuan has also become one of the mainstays of the film and television industry and has attracted much attention.
One day, after Zhao Xiaochuan learned the news that Wang Yajun was still single, his heart suddenly ignited endless courage. The secret love that had been hidden in his heart for many years could no longer be suppressed, and he mustered up the courage to find Wang Yajun and frankly express his heart.
At first, Wang Yajun was still a little confused, he didn't expect that Zhao Xiaochuan's deep affection for him had lasted for such a long time. However, she was soon moved by Zhao Xiaochuan's sincerity and decided to open her heart and accept his love.
So, after knowing each other for many years, Wang Yajun and Zhao Xiaochuan finally entered the palace of marriage and opened a new chapter of life together. At that time, both of them were over 30 years old and had a deeper understanding and knowledge of marriage.
They look forward with great anticipation that their future life will be peaceful and happy.
In the days after marriage, despite many difficulties and contradictions, Wang Yajun and Zhao Xiaochuan finally found an opportunity to save their marriage on the verge of breakdown.
Just as the two are about to cross that insurmountable red line, they begin to reflect on their behavior and deeply analyze the essence of marriage.
Wang Yajun rose up and raised her spirits, she suddenly realized, is she too strict with her husband Zhao Xiaochuan? Is she lacking enough tolerance and understanding?
There will inevitably be some minor frictions and disagreements in married life, but the most important thing is that both partners should resolve these issues with love and patience, rather than being too ignorant and asking their partners to be completely obedient to their wishes.
After deep reflection and reflection, Wang Yajun firmly determined that she must revise her simplistic thinking mode and arbitrary behavior style, and be more patient and understanding.
Only by truly listening to each other's voices and accepting each other's shortcomings with love can the marriage be stable for a long time.
At the same time, Zhao Xiaochuan is also deeply reflecting on himself. He had thought that his married life would be as free and unfettered as he had been single for many years. However, now it seems that this way of life obviously does not make his wife Wang Yajun feel at ease and satisfied.
More importantly, Zhao Xiaochuan deeply realized his wife's good intentions. Wang Yajun constantly corrects his bad habits, all for his health and for the future of the family.
Everyone has shortcomings of one kind or another, and the key lies in whether we can learn to correct and improve ourselves.
So, after a deep reflection on the bone marrow, both of them developed a new understanding of each other.
Wang Yajun decided to treat Zhao Xiaochuan with more love and tolerance, and Zhao Xiaochuan began to gradually quit smoking, drinking and other bad habits, and lived a more regular and orderly life.
These small changes have allowed the two to regain their ability to tolerate and understand each other, and injected new vitality into continuing to run this marriage. In this way, a couple who were once on the verge of breaking up finally re-entered the track of happiness.
When Wang Yajun and Zhao Xiaochuan both made changes, and understood and tolerated each other, their family life finally returned to its former harmony. The contradictions are resolved one by one, replaced by more appreciation and understanding.
The two began to re-examine each other's strengths, instead of always focusing on each other's shortcomings.
Zhao Xiaochuan began to find that Wang Yajun shone with many shining points that were worthy of his in-depth study and emulation. Although her style of conduct may be a little rigid and rigorous at times, it is precisely because of her unwavering dedication to the pursuit of perfection.
It is this dedication that has enabled her to achieve today's brilliant achievements in her career. At the same time, as a conscientious wife and mother, Wang Yajun's dedication and selfless dedication to her family is undoubtedly commendable.
At the same time, Wang Yajun also found many excellent qualities in Zhao Xiaochuan that she admired. He has an open-minded personality, is positive and optimistic, and is full of indomitable fighting spirit in life.
What's even more rare is that although Wang Yajun often criticizes him harshly, he has never been domineering or complaining about her, and his love for his daughter is even more sincere and pure.
As a result, the two gradually abandoned the prejudices of the past and looked at each other with an appreciative and tolerant attitude. Naturally, there will be less strife, and in its place there will be more mutual listening and understanding.
The family atmosphere has become harmonious and warm again, and there is an air of happiness.
The biggest beneficiary is undoubtedly their only daughter. Growing up in a quarrelsome environment where her parents used to be had deep troubles and shadows for her. However, now, seeing her parents living in harmony, her inner world has become sunny.
The change in her daughter is most significant. She used to have a negative attitude towards life, but now she has become cheerful and lively, and her manners are elegant. Her academic performance has also steadily improved with the improvement of her family environment.
Seeing their daughter's excellent performance, Wang Yajun and Zhao Xiaochuan were deeply relieved and proud.
In this way, the life of this family of three has returned to the track of happiness. Of course, there are occasional disagreements between couples over trivial matters. However, as long as we master the wisdom of mutual consideration and tolerance, there is no way to escalate the conflict to the point of rupture of the situation.
Looking back on the journey of Wang Yajun and Zhao Xiaochuan from the verge of divorce to the final regain of happiness, it is not difficult to find that the root cause of their marriage crisis is that both parties are too impatient.
Wang Yajun has the ultimate pursuit of quality of life, and he can't tolerate some details of his husband Zhao Xiaochuan's life, especially trivial habits, not to mention the huge difference in children's education concepts.
She always has to compare, and often seriously accuses Zhao Xiaochuan of his shortcomings because of some trivial things.
And Zhao Xiaochuan has an open-minded personality and has been accustomed to the free and easy lifestyle for many years, and it is difficult to fully act according to Wang Yajun's strict standards in a short period of time. He felt that his wife was a little too critical and pointed fingers at his behavior.
In this way, they are like two trapped bulls, opposing each other and not giving in to each other. The quarrels escalated in such intensity that they almost led to the breakdown of the marriage.
Fortunately, at this critical juncture when the survival of their marriage is at stake, they are all beginning to reflect on whether they are too stubborn. Wang Yajun realized whether his requirements for Zhao Xiaochuan were too strict and lacked sufficient tolerance; Zhao Xiaochuan also understood the deep meaning behind his wife's nagging.
As a result, they learn to accept each other's shortcomings with more love and patience. Wang Yajun no longer cares, but sincerely appreciates Zhao Xiaochuan's advantages; Zhao Xiaochuan actively corrected some bad habits and worked hard to become a qualified husband and father.
In this way, the happy life that seemed unattainable was close at hand, along with the transformation and tolerance of both parties. They have finally found a way to live together in harmony, and the tension in the home is no longer full, and the warm atmosphere permeates the loving couple.